Los Angeles -  

Even though your Lakers continually destroy the hopes and dreams of my Phoenix Suns, I thought I'd give you quick feedback of a new provider in your area - "Princess Ariel" - TER#234846.

I cannot leave a formal review because TER does not allow reviews on provider no-shows.  But, wanted to share my experience.

I set up an appointment via text the night before the appointment.  I gave Ariel my information, my TER handle and anything she needed to feel comfortable.  She was friendly and confirmed an appointment at 10am the next morning.

I drove about 40 minutes to her incall cross streets.  Sent a text at 9:45, 9:55, 10:05, 10:15.  No response, no show from Ariel.  Well, crap...I just drove 40 minutes to her incall area.  But gave her the benefit of the doubt that she overslept and expected an apology text later in the day.

That text never came.  

A few days later, I responded to one of her ads on BP called "The Dirty Little Secret."  This is the verbatim conversation:

From: Doogiemo  

Is the dirty little secret that you make appointments, have your client drive across town and then ignore texts and no show for the 10am appointment?  When I drove all the way to **** and ******* last week I texted you over and over. If you overslept, that's fine. But you never acknowledged or apologized for your no-show - after I drove 80 minutes round trip to get to you.

I'm very disappointed. But, it would have been nice to at least have you apologize for making an appointment and then no-showing.
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From:  Princess/Ariel

Well that's your choice , and you can be upset all you want .
If someone ignores me i would just move on .
Which is probably what you should do .
I had a weird feeling about you .
So id rather not see you .
Tooodles !
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If providers get a weird feeling about somebody, they ABSOLUTELY have the right to CANCEL.  Not no-show - but CANCEL.  Plus, I'm a 14 year TER veteran, white-listed with impeccable references so "weird feelings" were obviously just an excuse to treat a hobbyist like crap.

Maybe she knew she was moving to LA so her reputation wouldn't follow her.  Well, here you go.

This isn't intended to punish this horrible excuse for a provider as much as it is to warn you guys that she's your problem now.  Be careful.

Doogiem

Thanks for the headsup. That's why I hobby within 15-20 minutes of my hood. Been flaked on 3 times in the past year.

It's too bad that stuff like this has to happen. You are absolutely right, of course.....if she felt something was amiss she should have had the decency to cancel and not just duck & hide. Pathetic.

I wish there was a way to flag this kind of stuff in a review, but AFAIK TER doesn't allow it. I hope that they will reconsider that stance.

TER is for. I would like TER to allow us to submit reviews for this type of provider, so us hobbyist don't waste our time getting flaked by bad providers. The we can spend time/$ with professional established providers.

I have found that Milleniums have little or NO respect for other people's time.  They tend not to pay the price for their bad behavior because they are dis-connected due to the constant use of smart devices(cell phones, ipads, etc.)

Dg, props for TOFTT (Takin'OneForTheTeam)  Don't ever let one treat you like sh!t.  

Women complain about not moving up in corporate America.  THIS IS WHY!

I HAVE AN IDEA, blue skying here...  OK Ladies It's One rose per visit. (it's a donation) For the entire month of August.  All Hobbyists will be presenting you with ONE ROSE.  

 What's the matter ladies, volunteering you time not on the menu?
  How about volunteering for an animal shelter, non-profit, children's hospital or service organization.
 Provider asks, "What's in it for me?"   I guess you'll need to think on that one.

Well Princess, I guess you're reputation precedes you.  

Jonathan

PS "Nevermind, Bitch ..." Gilda Radner

With reviews like the numbers you leave providers can you blame any for getting cold feet?!

No Call No Show = NOGO!  She will learn.  CR

Yes, I certainly argee that his standards for scoring is pretty harsh, however, whos to say?? Reviewing yours, (and mine also for that matter), shows that your more forgiving, or had much better appointments with the ladies you visited with.  Who actually knows?    

I live in the Midwest, and we have a local hero, LamontCranston69, that routinely reviews ladies that advertise on EROS by google search, tineye, phone numbers and more, to find out if there actually legit.  And more than half of them in our area are phony.  

I wish LA had someone like him to

1.  I doubt that Princess is smart enough to go look at my reviews.
2.  My numbers?  My ratings are all over the place.  I have glowing reviews, mediocre reviews and bad reviews.  BUT...

***THEY ARE HONEST****

JC316, what are you saying?  That you and others should leave glowing reviews for all providers so other providers will not be afraid to see us?  Well, that completely defeats the purpose of TER if it just becomes a forum to kiss asses of providers.  My reviews, positive or negative, are HONEST.

Your argument is infuriating on many levels.

If I only have one thing going for me, self-awareness is it.  So, I went back to see how harsh I really am on my reviews.

My average rating for all reviews:  Attractiveness:  7.4    Performance:  7.1

Considering that I have reviewed providers in different geographies, at different price points and different average TER ratings, I think 7.4/7.1 is pretty darn fair.

Now if I were seeing Top 10 providers all the time, those numbers would be low.  I don't.

The biggest thing here for me is HONESTY.  Tell it like it is.  My reviews aren't intended solely to make the provider happy with me (although it is one of my intentions on really good providers) but it is to HELP the TER community make informed decisions.

If this were just a provider ass-kissing contest, nobody would get any benefit from my reviews.  Then at that point, what's the point of using TER?

Doogiemo

Granted it's a generalization, but then again many stereotypes are based in a kernel of truth.
There is no consequence or future repercussion for someone whom is at the point where they are the most intelligent they will ever be in life.  They got the shits down, ya know

But what are you gonna do?  Older nor younger is an attractive option.

If you look from the beginning the scores were lower and after a couple/three years I knew where to look, what I wanted and from reviewers I noticed whom to trust. In all the scores are high and the ladies PHENOMENAL. In fact a current fav hasn't received a review because I don't want to share and she is outta sight. Yes, you are right " much better appointments with the ladies you visited " and I find incredible experiences wherever I travel. I wish I had the time every day to share with these amazing ladies. They deserve their scores and they are the elite in their industry.

You have no idea how awesome the ladies I've reviewed with 9/9 + ratings are in every human sense. I agree with you these scores are to help the TER users ( us ) however these ladies have earned their status and to deny them their fair compensation with your scoring system just plain sucks.

Ok, so on future reviews, even if I get some stinky crackhead who bait and switched me, I'll just rank them high so they can continue to get a steady stream of victims because it's their livelihood.  Then, when I'm on Yelp, if I get a nice healthy pube in my salad I'll make sure I don't mention that either to tell others about it, because that wouldn't be FAIR!

Did you never have to keep score in competition when you were raised?  Everyone is a winner?  

Well, I don't give out participation medals.  I'm very fair, and 9s and 10s should actually mean something.  ****And, those I ranked low, I WAS NOT ALONE in doing that.****

Amazing that I'm admitting to posting HONEST reviews and then I have guys like you chastising me for it.  That makes a hell of a lot of sense.