What's up LA Ladies?

I've been hanging around here on the boards for a little while, learning the game, picking out my list of gals I'd like to meet.

I've been running into a screening issue....I have no active references

That being said I've been a regular at an apartment FBSM for the past year or 2 but they aren't willing to do the reference thing.  I'm not willing to give up my work info and so it seems I'm stuck at an impasse.

I was thinking meeting up for a drink or coffee ahead of time to get to know each other first woul be a good idea......what do you think?  Has this worked in the past?

Anyone willing to take a chance on meeting for a drink and seeing where it can go from there?

I'm looking for FBSM, younger the better mid twenties, And most important likes cum play (CIM, COF, swallow).  No full service required or requested, no BBBJ....just a handie with a shot on the goal to finish!

Fellow hobbyists.....recomondations appreciated.  

Thanks a million,

J

aka: Hank2012 from RB

Perhaps you are a hobbyist who don't realize it, but what you just suggested is a typical LE set up approach that has been used in similar ways.  LOL  

If you do realize it Officer, then maybe you and Rosie Palm with her five friends can have some fun like they do in Santa Fe.  

Don't think you are going to get very far with this approach.

Thought I would save you the trouble CaptainRenault, sorry if I took your thunder.  

you and your buddies for screeening at the Dunkin Donuts

Let me start by saying sorry for the bad 1st impression.

In response to a few of you I am by no means LE, perhaps a little nieve to ask the question but just the same I did.

I only just found this discussion board and thus why I'm new to it.

To the other who noted that the same thing was posted on RB.....you are right!  Thats why I put my RB handel @ the bottom.  I've been a bit more active there.

So there you heave it....I dont want anything illegal anyways, just some time to get to know some ladies in my part of town, to establish myself w/this group, a foot in the door so you will know I'm ok.

Being safe is important.....both ways, and personally I'm not willing to give up my work info, let's face it, without a job I wont be able to afford time with any of you!!!

I'm the real deal, not a time waster...just reaching out for a helping hand (slight pun intended

So, alternante ways of screening???

I'm all ears.

BTW....I'm not asking anyone to do anything for free!  Time is money, I get it.

A photo or 2 of someone having coffee at Starbucks.....not nearly as bad as meeting a guy @ your in call dressed provocatively with a box of condoms.  

This meeting is for you to screen me!  I have a pretty good idea about who I'd be meeting based on reviews, we dont need to talk about services you provide in public....that can wait until later.

Anyways....if you personally dont feel safe, then I agree you shouldn't do it.  

thanks for your feedback.

Just a nieve hobbyist!  Funny ass video thanks for sharing.

Posted By: Clitortarian

Perhaps you are a hobbyist who don't realize it, but what you just suggested is a typical LE set up approach that has been used in similar ways.  LOL  

If you do realize it Officer, then maybe you and Rosie Palm with her five friends can have some fun like they do in Santa Fe.  

Don't think you are going to get very far with this approach.

Thought I would save you the trouble CaptainRenault, sorry if I took your thunder.  

It takes a bit of time and effort at first.  It was quite a pain for me at first also.  No easy answer.

Posted By: 93ranger

Let me start by saying sorry for the bad 1st impression.

In response to a few of you I am by no means LE, perhaps a little nieve to ask the question but just the same I did.

I only just found this discussion board and thus why I'm new to it.

To the other who noted that the same thing was posted on RB.....you are right!  Thats why I put my RB handel @ the bottom.  I've been a bit more active there.

So there you heave it....I dont want anything illegal anyways, just some time to get to know some ladies in my part of town, to establish myself w/this group, a foot in the door so you will know I'm ok.

Being safe is important.....both ways, and personally I'm not willing to give up my work info, let's face it, without a job I wont be able to afford time with any of you!!!

I'm the real deal, not a time waster...just reaching out for a helping hand (slight pun intended

So, alternante ways of screening???

I'm all ears.

But you STILL are going to relinquish a little privacy for that.

P-411 seems to be popular here.

Or look for a provider that advertises newbie friendly in the discussion boards.

It really isn't that tough - took me less than a day.  You're a bright guy, be creative.

Thanks for the info and the vote of confidence!

I'm sure you are right, so many ladies and opportunities.  I'll make it happen!

Joining P411 is good advice. I hope you are also a TER VIP member. People at FAQ for Newbies board may be more helpful and more forgiving. You may be treated more as newbie rather than LE. With enough money, time and determination, I am sure you can find way to make everything to work for you. This hobby does not require you to be a rocket scientist. LOL

If you're not willing to give work info than join P411 or hit up CL.  From what I hear CL isn't so heavy on the screening.  

Otherwise you'll have to give up work and other screening info. If you're worried about it being used against you than only do it with heavily experienced and reviewed providers so that you know they take their jobs and the privacy and security of the clients seriously.