Here is an interesting article from Salon entitled "why I visit prostitutes".   Shows the benefits of sites like TER but also shows LE is lurking. Can be such a fun hobby, we can forget its not exactly legal.

very well written article.  The writer seemed really attached to the women he visited until eventually they left the field.  Sort of sad

The article is so well written and sheds some light and demystifies our career choice. We are just like every other girl in this world, perhaps a little more adventurous and with a higher degree of entrepreneurial spirit; we also have a great deal of self awareness and self regulation in order to be safe at all times. I feel empowered and grateful for all the experiences, all the adventures and all the lessons this occupation has given be. I have a career, I am close to my family, I am engaged in my community via volunteering and in many other ways; it is what keeps us grounded, our ability to thrive between the fantasy world and the real world. I guess people see us because we are the closest thing to a girlfriend without the feelings, the games and the unnecessary tension, just uncomplicated NSA fun. Companions IMHO are an electrifying fusion of a real woman and an irresistible seductress who exhibits self confidence, a woman who knows what she wants, a woman who is engaging, intellectually stimulating and highly passionate about life her goals and BCD reason why, it would be incorrect to just think that we are only a way to fulfill carnal desires, we are much more than that which translates into the highly sought after "GFE".

Well said. The article illuminates a relational complexity that I was unaware of when I began this adventure.  A unique intimacy exists in this hobby that can be quite profound and gets short shrift in the non hobby world.  I am grateful in my relatively short time to have met amazing women with fierce intelligence, depth and perspective.

Unlike escorts such as yourself who seem to actually want to be a escort and proud of what you are doing.  I have yet to meet a single korean prostitute who wanted to be a prostitute or thinks of herself as someone offering some sort of GFE.  While they get into the business willingly they are in it for purely money and nothing else.  Just quick lay and next please.  Reason almost all speak no english and most only stay in US for 3 months.

Even in korea.  Escorts are paraded in stalls with windows or in clubs the girls speak in honorifics and rare to find gfe things like kissing.  One of many things korean girls hate about working in the US..kissing and cim.

Well said Palomamontecarlo.  Many times when I speak with guys they seem to think that I am sitting around the house all day just waiting for a someone to call and say they want my services.  Noting could be further from the truth. Many of us have careers, have a close family, engage in our community and lead very full life's.  The weird part for me is the constant juggling act. Which world am I living in?  Am I the straight narrow corporate world?, where most folks think I lead a boring life, or the fantasy world where I am the wanton woman who seduces other women's husbands ?  I am lucky enough to be both.  This side of me has been allowed to meet some fine gentlemen and experience things most folks only dream of.

Very interesting article!  

It's just a very fun world that we play in with a touch of precaution.

Kisses,

Valley

Gday There  

we all have different reasons. no judgment here

cheers mate

Alley

xo

all the guys who patronize and constantly speak for the K-girls would say "You is racist!"  
It is their answer for EVERYTHING!

Just last local news was touting the fact that OC prosecutors will be shaming johns by posting their pictures.  They played a sound bite from some harpy who made the usual BS argument that most or all sex workers are trafficked and/or abuse victims.  According to her the notion of a Pretty Woman type escort is a "farce". People such as that will never understand or accept the reality of P4P.  And as a consequence to them we will always be a scourge of civilization.

Nice  article ..
BUt as immigrant and I have lived in other countries  
I must say women here have lot power and way  more   choices  
I have seen children in prostitution ..  because  THEY HAVE NO CHOICES ...and is  very  sad way to grow up..
I am not talking about US ..
So luccky America..a land  of choices ..!!
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I must say... in certain times ...
DOn 't  worth ".....ask" WHY" ......
We are not doing  any  crime..  
Life is short ..
Enjoy ..

 

 


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This is going to sound a little off beat but this is dating for me.  Me, no wife, no girlfriend.  This has nothing to do about money for me.  Actually if she makes it TOO much about money its a turn off.  I'm there to be with her for whatever time there is.  You never know!  You might see each other again maybe circumstances will intervene.  BUT, while we are together I'm there for her, with her.  I'm not answering the phone or text-ing, she has my complete attention.  Why would I do anything else.  Live well in that moment.  

You might not have another opportunity.

Jonathan

PS Yay Meghan Trainor.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PCkvCPvDXk

It really put into words what I've experienced with a number of the different gentlemen that I've been lucky enough to have as my regulars over the past few years.

 
The reasons all vary, but mostly it's either gentlemen who are single & never have had the time or haven't been confident enough to date, or gentlemen whose married lives are lacking in one way or another. I've met so many gentlemen who tell me their wives are their best friends, and that working girls have saved their marriage. I've had other guys tell me that if it weren't for working girls they wouldn't have the confidence to interact with civilian women.  
And for some guys, like the author of that article, this is the only outlet they have for intimacy. And make no mistake, even with all of the NSA boundaries that are in place for everyone's safety, I still have intimacy with my regulars. With some it's a very casual, lighthearted thing; and with others, it's quite a bit more serious as they've been able to tell me things they haven't told anyone else, & experiment with things that they never would have been able to otherwise.

 
I feel extremely fortunate that I finally had the guts to put up an ad and start working in the adult industry. I enjoy it immensely. I don't miss my corporate job one bit, and it's given me the opportunity to start my own business and be my own boss which would have been impossible otherwise.  

I love that I have the chance to put a smile on someone's face every day. Very few people are so lucky, and it isn't at all something that I take for granted.

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i do what i always do when confronted with people of no relevance..

-ignore and delete..

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Why it seems just yesterday (OK, about a month ago) you were bragging about all the K girls you enjoy harassing in broad daylight at the coffee shop, only back then you portrayed them all as fun loving gals who are having he time of their life.  

Will the real Bobo please step forward:  

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Hyori under any alias whether ohmpredator , stalkertuvok or bobopervet is still that character as described by one of he is fellow preds , rejects and outcast."Would not surprise me if tuvok and Arnold arnaut are the same person.,tuvok the troll who roughed up amber before she left. then wrote a false review about her and BBFS that was taken down by xx. call ambers old booker and ask her about him.tuvok also posted a quicktip about BBFS with Rebecca that was taken down.that tells you what kind of troll youre dealing with everyone" vanilla lice

aliases and read his comments about white geezers to determine if he is a racist. He hides behind the skirt of an alias because he is black listed for predatory and violent behavior towards ladies who reject his demands to be his GF.  

However racism is not limited to him . These were posted on the LA Board  . Racist ? They speak for themselves .  
Where did you learn English from; Malcom X and Reverend Al Sharpton?"
 RRO2610 Posted 6/6/2013 at 11:48:41 AM

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He was obviously schooled in English composition by a K-Doll. (e)  
RRO2610d Posted 5/18/2013 at 9:54:09 AM

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Anti shilling  ? Only when it comes to a K-doll related post  

"pics of the gals on Tushy Tuesday etc were happily received "
  RRO2610  Posted 5/26/2013 at 11:59:35 AM
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That would make for a great "Theme day photo". (e)  
RRO2610 Posted 5/4/2013 6:44:39 AM  
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