Avoid her like the plague.....she is the she devil....made me get a room had drinks @ bar asked her for another round she said yes and bailed cost me 400 then I get a txt saying she's sorry I'm super nice but she's never done this wtf????!!!

Didn't you do any research? How did you come across her?

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She had one review took it on faith....she's on ter has an ad post up on the board offering incall on the 16th 2 hours 450

Thanks for the intel. That's pretty screwed. Sorry for your loss.

She's not a 9 either 7 is okay plain looking w/baby fat

Read some of her blog then read the review.  Hmmm...  Anything seem familiar?

No I didnt see what you are referring to?

So, let me start off by saying the original poster is a cool guy: when I was first getting my noob on earlier this year he had reviewed someone I was looking at, and I sent him an email asking him for other recommendations, and he was very helpful. Back then Hayden's name came up as well, though when he told me about it, he said he was out 175 for the room, not 400 (I guess those were some super-expensive drinks lol). Anyway, who cares... regardless of the amount, it was still uncool.

...$400.  That may have been the cost of the room, although he told someone else in this thread that the room cost him $175.

Who says we have to believe what he is saying?

...total cost of what you spent for the room, drinks at the bar, champagne and flutes for the room and candles with candle holders.

Don't leave the impression that she stole the donation if she didn't.

Never said room was 175 check my posts......

400 is for room, drinks @ bar plus she wanted champagne in the room so I bought a bottle w/flutes, candles w/candle holders...yah I'm a sucker I was trying to create a comfortable environment for her...she said la guys were degrading amd made her do things she didn't want to (kinda felt bad for her)

I never said she took donation. That's your assumption sir.

Come on.  At any time during drinks, before the date was set, etc. she could have let him know she was nervous and uncertain.  In fact she could have offered to meet him for drinks BEFORE they agreed to a date and before he rented the room.  In the past I've offered exactly this to ladies who were new to me or new to the biz.  There were numerous ways to handle this other than just bailing.

That's my whole point. I would have been cool if she said don't get a second round of drinks and told me it wasn't going to work. No fuss no muss...but to have me order another round and then just bail says a lot about her character. Her ad shortly disappeared after that..I .just wanted  to give a warning about her since she's in la again. . She seems unsure of this is for her which is okay, this isn't for everybody....

...Your OP was unclear and someone else assumed she took the donation and left.  Read his post...

In that case, I really should take this time to thank the Academy.  But, since inquiring minds want to know . . . I completely fail to understand how it would be possible for me to force ANYONE to buy champagne, or endless rounds of drinks, or a hotel room.  If I had those types of superpowers that would enable me to control a man's mind like that, I certainly wouldn't be here on TER.  I'd be married to Ryan Seacrest.  Or Christian Bale.  Or both.

Hi There

Nice of you to reply. But no where did see I'm sorry for wasting your time ,and money. Its okay your character says a lot. Yes I got a room or did you forget the txt we exchanged with the room # yes I got champagne as I told yes u said oj for another round of drinks... Then you bailed, like I said all you had do was say it wasn't for you my dear. Honesty goes along way.... I have seen well reviewed providers I just am not in the hobby of reviewing as most which you know. Your lack of professionalism in this hobby is an understatement. I wish you the best....

Who do you mean? She isn't nice...she knew full well what I had done we exchanged email and a phone call prior to our appt and she knew what I had planned...her lack of know what she wanted out of this led her to bail...all she could have done was tell me.....I understand things....I'm done talking about her

So, why would a provider bail mid-drink? Is the only explanation that she's unprofessional? Let me float an alternate explanation:

So 1st I'm a cool guy for helping you out and now you flip. You don't know what you are talking about... Saw her post and thought I should warn other guys from making the same mistake

I'm rather saddened and dissappointed by all of this.  Isn't the purpose of this board to form a community for the purposes of, if nothing else, SAFETY?  Do you realize what message this is sending to other providers?

Hmmm you say I'm needy far from it. I've done the same for Ellavie: city-source.com/ellavie she didn't bolt I've seen her multiple time so ST*U about things you know nothing about...

You are the "Peacemaker". You are the "Peacemaker" ....

Most of us aren't in the hobby for a maybe date. We have time limitations and funds limitations. We like to make them count. It is disappointing when they don't. Perhaps this line of work might not be for you. You are quite a beautiful lady though.

"If he had sketched out Hayden to the extent that she says he did, then she never would have booked an appointment with him and she never would have met him at the bar.  She bailed for whatever reason and that's totally unprofessional."

I know I said I would talk about anymore. But the impression that you were concerned for your safety is crap. We exchanged a warm hug sat at a bar full of people..had a drink I asked if you wanted another you said yes then asked for the bathroom, in hindsight I should have known what you were doing...doesn't matter at this point its over. But for you to paint a picture of your safety being jeopordized is clearly wrong and I feel sad that you are justifying why you left because of that reason. I'm done talking about you and the experience...good luck...funny how at the time your rate was X00 for 2 hours....and now its 450......

Due to many of the missing details from the OP I surmised the $400 that was eluded to in said post was 1/2 your posted 2 hour rate of $800. From that I concluded mistakenly that this was a classic case of grab and dash while he is at the bar. Now that we know your side of the story clearly that is not the case.

Thank you.  I appreciate it.  I've received a bunch of messages from many of you that have made me feel better.

Oh for fucks sake. Can you get any more kiss ass? What a puss.

Can you please let us know the last time you met a man you've never met before that you've only exchanged brief emails with?
Your first hand experience with situations like Hayden's (and mine) is very pertinent to your making comments regarding her, and other providers, mindsets.
Please don't speak for us. If you have never had our experiences, please don't assume you know how she/we feel/think.  
Please PLEASE don't do that.

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I have been a hobbyist twice as long as you have been in this game.  I know full well what garbage providers are willing to say anytime their business gets threatened.  

I got no beef with that. But bruin still has a hard on over this. It will pass so now let's get to the issue at hand and that is......will SC beat the bruins???? Going to be a good game. Opps wrong forum....so shoot me.

circumstances should we ever have to go through with an appointment when we feel uneasy....  

And did that last week in a post on this board.

Judging by your pictures theres no Way in Hell you were a Hawaiian Tropic Girl .Maybe a long time ago . All the darn lies is so funny .Oh by the way Im BRAD PITT !!

What a typical response

and then after she gets to my room I'm going to say that I feel sketched out by her and ask her to leave. Because, we should never be made to go through with something that we don't feel comfortable with.

URAGFDB   ESAD  

But you need to tighten it up. You can't just feel "sketched out", you'd have to feel like your physical safety was at risk, like there was a real chance Hayden might hurt you if you were alone with her, and you wouldn't be able to defend yourself. Is that a common problem for you with providers? Maybe you should hit Crunch, blast that core, take a little Krav Maga or something Otherwise it just sounds like you want to do something mean to a provider who never did anything to you to prove... something?