I guess thats sure.  It's wrong but so erotic. I just never felt comfortable with asking until now.

i hobby primarily for role playing, specifically for one that's very taboo.

i have noticed whenever some one else says it out loud (posts it by name on these boards), whether male or female, they are bombarded with a barrage of messages accusing them of the most depraved souls imaginable.  

i agree, it's just role play, but taboo is taboo, and the public square is not going to let you talk lightly about it, whether that's logical or not.

i'd rather not discuss my specific fetish except one on one with the lady.  i have found multiple partners willing to engage in taboo role play.

my advice to the op is to be upfront about what he wants in his initial email communication with the lady.  if the lady is not into it, she will tell you right off, and you won't be wasting either her time or yours.

very few women have judged me for my request, the ones that don't engage in it simply state as much and wish me luck in finding someone who will.  i have had no problems at all.  with one exception, every lady i have reviewed has happily accomodated my role play request.  i suggest the op read my reviews, and then contact those ladies with the question.

sure, we would think this is a safe environment for us to enjoy what we enjoy, but you would be surprised.  we're not all as open-minded as we should be.