I didn't mention size, she did.
I'm an AA hobbyist. I like to enjoy a wide range of women. And I want that time to be fullfiling. If a provider has a racial preference or exclusion, I think that should be made clear.
The reason I'm posting -- I won't name the provider -- but an appointment was set by email. Upon arriving to the address, I call the provider for the apt #..."are you black?" I answer "yes." A change in her tone and several questions about the size of my member.
I cancelled. Fearing that the encounter would be awkward.
I think we're all adults. What one person isn't into -- 10 others are.
Just putting that out there.
Perhaps, you'll have better experiences in the near future.
I've had gentlemen ask me if I accept their race/nationality and
I'm all for it. I love all varieties of men.
Lick Lick,
Ashle
If she is not allowed to see Black men due to pimpin, personal preference, racist, etc. she should clearly state that prior to booking. I have seen providers post in their ads & on their personal websites NO Black men!
Everyone has the right to refuse service to anyone.
- It helps if the provider is honest & upfront, so no one has their time wasted.
This is a common issue and I'm sure you're fully aware of it and have had it happen in the past.
With that in mind, you should always let the provider know and ask if she is okay with it.
Even if she doesn't explicitly list her preference, it doesn't mean she doesn't have any.
It's frustrating and seems unfair, but it's reality.
It'll save you and the provider plenty of time and headache if you write a short intro describing yourself.
It's better to find out through email than find out when she opens the door.
Some people have unfortunate stereotypes of certain ethnic or racial groups, and if an escort has had a bad experience once with a member of a group, she might be afraid of them all. Women are usually more vulnerable than men in a bad situation, so being cautious is very important. That doesn't excuse prejudice, but might explain some cases. Our society still has a way to go in its attitudes.
What has surprised me is how many different types of provides I've seen who don't want Black men--not just a small number of white women and Latinas, but even some Black women. As for me as a man, I don't care what skin color she is as long as she is sexy! I don't want to miss out!
I always describe myself in my intro email or pm so there is misunderstanding.
Something like " I am a devilishly handsome Latino"
The reason I'm posting -- I won't name the provider -- but an appointment was set by email. Upon arriving to the address, I call the provider for the apt #..."are you black?" I answer "yes." A change in her tone and several questions about the size of my member.
I cancelled. Fearing that the encounter would be awkward.
I think we're all adults. What one person isn't into -- 10 others are.
Just putting that out there.
Just take the resposibility and let the provider know up front that your are AA. This will save you from losing your valuable time and reduce frustration. If you send an email and they don't write back, then don't make assumptions that she is racist. Stick with the known fact that there could be multiple reasons for her lack of response. Also, there are way to many providers that see AAs and it is not worth it to worry about those who make judgement over skin color! Always remember, a provider has the right to choose who she spends time with reguardless of what you think.
Happy hobbying!!!
Mysterydude
In a perfect world it would be unnecessary but on this version of planet Earth I always let the lady know in advance so that she can freely exercise her rightful choice before I'm standing on her doorstep after having driven 20 miles and desperately needing to pee (story for another day). Have to smile recalling the lady who asked me my "nationality"; I politely responded "Do you mean my race?". She did of course but at least she saved us both time and calories.
You know, when we roll around kissing, touching, stroking, and having our bodies next to each other, we are exchanging energies with that person. It doesn't matter if we are paying for sex and going away afterwards. During the time we are together, we are exchanging energies, and leave a little blueprint of energy on each other. So pick lovers who you will benefit from their energy. Be sure they are good, intelligent, kind persons.
Be glad you didn't see this uneducated women. Feel a little sorry for her that she has lived in a shoebox for far too long. Everybody with half a brain knows that someone's skin color has nothing to do with their cock size. If you want to see a super monster cock, just go to Scotland and look for a bagpipe player. The Scots have quite a big population of big dicks. But even still, theres plenty of Scots with short fat nobs too.
Point is, that is just so dumb. I've been with African American men, and had a very nice time. I was not in anyway uncomfortable or scared of their cock. And I found them quite professional acting and very kind to me. Im sorry you had to be treated this way. But please know its a reflection on her not you. And be glad you didn't get her energy on you.
I know nobody ever asks me, but I am on P411. That specific info can be posted. There is a comment section where you could put any info that may be pertinent to your features, disability, age, or endowment. If a provider posts what might be construed as discriminatory, it may cost her business. We all have our preferences sexually so it is hard to fault a provider. This would hopefully avoid the awkwardness.
...she'd wait until you got there (and not during screening) to ask about your race & member etc. You could've spent time wasted on her with someone who cares more about character than skin tone.
Was just so bad of her to do this. I just hope he knows this is not typical behavior.
Sir, I'd be happy to see you for a discount to make up for this bad experience. We are not all like that I promise. Maybe if I discount my rate, it will be like making up for the time you lost in planning and going there. Happy to take off $100 if it would help.
I have had kinda the samething happen to me although I'm not AA I do have a big unit can I get 100 off too. Lol just kidding love you cameo your the best for offering that for him.
Its' amazing they say in studies 2% of the population has a penis 8" or over and 1 in 20,000 10 inches or more but yet at least 10% of guy's on TER are always talking about how big their dick is.I guess you have to pay for it because your dick is so bi
was wondering why not post with your true id? are you ashamed to be black? in any case if a girl chooses not to see you because you are black then you can go visit the 10 others who are willing.
The reason I'm posting -- I won't name the provider -- but an appointment was set by email. Upon arriving to the address, I call the provider for the apt #..."are you black?" I answer "yes." A change in her tone and several questions about the size of my member.
I cancelled. Fearing that the encounter would be awkward.
I think we're all adults. What one person isn't into -- 10 others are.
Just putting that out there.
Not every provider is like that.She should have asked what your race is if she has a race policy.
Or put it on her ads and/or website cuts down on wasted time for both parties.
I would suggest moving forward when you contact a provider let her know up front you are african-american and if she has an issue with that. It is a shame that you have to go through all of that to have a good time but unfortunately there are some who will not see african-american men.
Personally,I have no issue with any race as long as he is respectful,clean,can provide screening info I could care less what his race is.But,I understand that every provider is different.
I always wonder when gents make these type of post why waste your energy?
You have already had your time wasted why waste anymore time trying to figure out why a provider will not see you because of your race.
To the OP if you are not naming the provider and you are under an alias this post really does nothing except you expressing your displeasure about your time being wasted.
There are too many providers who will see african-american men to try to figure out the countless reasons why some won't is pointless.You will never get an accurate answer to that question since some will only put what they feel on the internet but have a whole entire different reason why some races are excluded. Just my .02
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While I am mixed (black/white) I don't usually disclose race unless I am asked is it common this should be something I should include in my initial contact ladies? I do however have a large unit just over 10" and I do always disclose that because there is nothing worse than seeing a provider who literrally just can't handle it or you have to take it really easy on and it's a dissappointment for everyone and I feel obligated to pay for at least an hour of her time anyway. I doesn't help I like liittle spinners and asian girls lol so I see about 1/4 of the providers I contact.