You would think that most guys would get the picture if they have emailed several times and no good response has come of it to just move on and try else where.

One lady I tried contacting, she atleast responded back to me and told me that she would not see me because of my age.  So I appreciated her getting back to me in a nice way and I could stop wasting time on her!

Also I cannot count the times a provider has gotten back to me days or weeks after I sent an e—mail. Saying she missed my e-mail in the flood of the others. We know that sometimes you girls just ignore based on volume and first come first served. So if I e-mailed you on the second day of your trip and you are already booked, a less than professional girl will never get back to me. But low and behold, on her next trip I get an e-mail asking of I still want to see her. It happens all the time and so many providers seem to suffer from a form of ADD or this passive aggressive language. A few times I have seen girls post something to the affect that if she has not responded to your e-mail, send again. Others will not respond if they don’t need the business but when they do you hear from them.

Now some guys are way to needy and just don’t get it.

This is not directed to most of the wonderful LA guys but to the small few who just don't get it.

As we all know, a provider can choose to see who she wants to see.

So if you have emailed several times and she has not booked with you....Time to move on!

If you have PMed her several times and she has not booked with you....Time to move on!

You have replied to EACH AND EVERYONE of her board post with things like (PM me and lets meet). Chances are she is not feeling your vibe. so please...MOVE ON!

That is all.....

Xoxo,

Natalie

Girls are always assuming guys get their special girl language...He doesn't speak girl passive aggressive. He probably thinks his mails are getting lost on your bulk folder...

Why can't you just say Thanks but No Thanks? Why didn't you just write him personally and directly instead of a public board THRAD about some mysterious guys who can't seem to leave you alone...

I'm sure if you said no, instead of leading them on, they'd get over you pretty quickly.

Sounds like your communication is unclear...

agree with you

an email isnt an appnmt

move on

Bella- you are absolutely right.  If you don't want to see someone just say NO.  Don't ignore the IMs and emails.  Why would you want someone to guess....it's much easier just to say "I"m not interested".  I gues some girls just want to play and want to feel they are valuable in some way, shape or form.

LOL LOL The translation:) IS......

FUCK THAT SHIT!!lol

Advise for girls who has a   stalker

JUST SAY
I don't want fuck you or see you
Because I be bored of my fucking mind
POLITE enough!!
kiss my ass
of course I am kidding.... smile

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I would have missed 2 well reviewed ladies if I had given up. But I was worried that I might be annoying them. Glad I persisted instead of assuming they did not want to see me. Just don't e-mail or pm several times a day or even daily is to much IMHO.

..that don't get it."  Is a widely-used bulletin board the best way to communicate with them?  When I read these types of complaint posts, I have to wonder if the author is just seeking attention.

And the message, very clear to all

it's science...

This is why you should never Piss Off an Italian Woman!

You always know exactly where you stand with Carla.....one of the many reasons she is my favorite!

I love Nat the Brat as much as anyone, and I do understand that she may have meant this for certain people.  I have seen her countless dozens of times, but if I count all of the times I\'ve called, emailed and texted to get together and didn\'t receive a response, it may out number the countless times I have seen her.  Every time I would have preferred a \"not today answer\", than to not receive a reply. If I would have not started the process again a day or more later to see her again (then she replied and accepted), I would have not seen her again, several dozen times.
It is her birthday week, let\'s remember that. She is the best. I hope to see her dozens more times.  Just think about; when someone asks you to get together, most people put that that block of time (including travel time) on hold waiting for an answer. Hearing no is much better than no response. I have long thought, maybe she (and others) needs a booker?

I agree, an email is not an appointment.  And, I am one of the lucky guys whose email Nat did reply to and we did make an appointment (she absolutely rocks btw!!).  But, that said, I respectfully add that hitting the "reply" button and declining the person's invitation would not only be more courteous but also probably stop all of the annoying emails, bothersome PMs, etc and each party could then move on to have fun with somebody else.  But, that's just my opinion...

First...This is not a passive aggressive situation. The provider has said "thanks, but no thanks". And no...I am not the provider. Its a friend of mines that is the provider.

Who have I led on?

AND WHAT IS A THRAD???????!!!!?????

I think your lost. Trust me...The person it was ment for I'm sure gets the point. And hopefully some other  guys can get an insight on when to move on.  emails go to junk folder...Not PMs...And how do you explain the replies to all the board post?  LOL

"Now some guys are way to needy and just don’t get it"

This was directed to the "Needy". If this does not apply to you....No worries. BUT, if the shoes fits.....

Yes...I am the author, and yes, I love attention. But this is not about me. Its about a person...STALKING a provider through the internet! SHEEESH!

Thanks Natalie!!

It is this kind of attitude , along with the superior service they provide rain or shine, that made us rush to  our K-girl  sanctuaries and palaces of pleasure.

 What business can survives with the kind of customer service offered in the OP?

Re: Italian women are tough:)

LMAO
BUT we get mad for onlt  half second and laughing
that good example
life is sooooo short

No response is rude. Weather in business or in the hobby. You only need to reply once and say you are not interested. A proper gent will then move on. In many cases if you do not respond, he may be uncertain you have received his communication and will try different channels. Communication is a 2 way street and not always 100% in our world of technology!

Couldn't agree more Bella!  Especially re: the ladies who have reviews which state "hard to get a hold of, but worth the effort!"  A simple NO, would be greatly appreciated.

and English is their first  and""" ONLY LANGUAGE ""

instead do your free  marketing
your cement there is nothing  to do with subject HELOOO
AMERICA !!!!!!!!!
are  u a k girl booker comon!!


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