Hey Everyone,

I am 23 and a virgin. I want some advice on this one provider I really want to see. She used to have a lot of pics on her site and now its only 1 pic so idk what that means. Her reviews are really good. I was wondering what your guy's opinions are and is $800 for a 19 year old to much for my first time. I don't mind spending $1000. I am also looking to do this once just to lose it then just stick with civvie girls since I pretty shy and suck at talking to them lol. I have attached the providers profile link.

Thanks,

Tom

A mature provider in the 35-40 is more patient and understanding than a 18-20 provider. And I agree with has been said before, better to do a 2 hr session than a 1 hr., a slow pace of performance will go a long to a memorable first time.

DO NOT spend 1000 to lose your virginity. Not unless you have money to burn.

There are plenty of terrific women who will take great care of you in the 400-500 dollar range.

If  you are like most guys, the act of losing it won't take very long... you'll end up spending 8 bills on something that will happen VERY quickly.

Start with more affordable women and work your way up to the 800 dollar range.

Good luck!

dude...better girls out there for a lower price..for a 1000 i could spend 4 hrs with my ATF..

on a 2 hr session, you get to apply what you;ve learned on the 1st hour. You could get your 2nd, 3rd or however many cum you could muster. You'll find this out, isn't that great?

If I were you, I'd consider spending that $1000 on a provider who offers 2 hours sessions for that price ($500/hour or less).  You'll have a better, non-rushed experience that way, and that kind of rate will still give you some really beautiful women . . .  You just won't get a XXX star or a professional model, but maybe your standards are different.  That will also give you some time during your refractory period to practice TALKING to women, which is a skill you'll need to develop as much as your sexual routines.

Consider telling the provider in advance, so that she can make the experience special and will go at a slower pace that makes your comfortable.

Very good advice.  Also consider that some providers seem to have a minimum age requirement (I'm mid 30s and a couple of times I've thought "are they going to screen me out?" when they ask how old I am).  Between that and achedule/references/other-screening-requirements I wouldn't get too hung up on a specific provider.  Join (if you haven't already) and read reviews of many well respected providers, find a handful that you think would be good partners for the big day then start making some phone calls.

there are some incredible ladies, ashley shye will rock your world, amsterdamn, jenny in the valley, incredible milf, dani the oral goddess, the incredible valerie lace, you cant go wrong with any of them

Get a mature gal (30s or more) and book at least two hours.  You need someone with experience to take you through it, and at your age you'll be able to cum several times.

maybe your first time should be with a civie

or with a busty latina like me ----   lol

good luck hun -- in wht ever you decide

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Be realistic - you say you are a virgin... well, wake up - there are lots of things that could be an issue on your side of the equation, which I will not mention specifically.

I would definitely see an older, more experienced provider. They have been with many 'shy, inexperienced' guys. I experienced such an issue my first time in my teens - and the girl, my age, didn't know what to do and it was a disaster. Anyway this caused some lasting issues with me. Years later, I went out with a civvie lady older and very experienced and she talked and coached me through it... and that changed my life, sex life that is. Thank god for her.

2 or 3 hours is better route to go... plenty of time to get comfortable... and 'replay'... you WILL want to do it again...

And finally - is 800 too much to pay? Given your situation, definitely too much.

One time and quit, eh?!?!? LOL - I did that one in the 70's - saw a hot street girl - thought why not do it once and forget it. Terrible, and I forgot about the hobby, forever I thought.

Then the Internet... and now, I can't imagine dating a civvie... LOL   I'm close friends with a couple of my regulars, and met a few drinking, golf buddies - some wonderful people in the hobby.

you will be sure to have great time with her. I am sure if you tell her you are a first timer,  she will make it even more special for you, that is the kind of person she is.

Visit the girl you like the most regardless of the price. 800 is not too much and I suggest to see high-priced ladies over others, you will have a better experience and plenty of attention.

I disagree..

Jessica Anderson
Ashley Shye
Sexy Gymnastic  


not sure if they will see without referrals


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that this entire thread, an threads like them, may be started as a promotion for the provider mentioned in the first post? I am not saying this is necessarily the case here, but her first review was about 6 months ago...so she is also a "newbie" of sorts.

How often do you see threads that start out with "Need help", 'Virgin", "Newbie" etc., and almost always there is a link to a specific provider? (Yes, yes, I know...there are often "legit" postings with links to a providers reviews/website). I am simply putting two and two together, as I personally see it. I get a total of four...others may see it differently.

And it you are a 23 year-old virgin, you have bigger problems than that posted above.

Yes, I am using an alias because
- I don't want to get slammed for 'being insensitive" to  a newbie, virgin, etc.
- I don't feel like incurring the wrath of well-meaning posters by implying they have been duped

I think every young guy should have the chance to have some sort of sexual encounter with an older woman.  It makes all the difference in the world as to what sort of lover you grow up to be.  And heck, isn't that most guys' fantasy?  To have an older woman "teach you the ways?"

*Just FYI, I am not the older woman I am recommending you go see.  There are other gals in this community that would be better suited to this experience for you.

Either way, I seriously recommend seeing someone for longer than one hour.  Really and truly.  It will make for a better experience and you will be glad you chose to do that afterwards.

Best of luck and have a great time!!!

If I had it to do over again, I'd loose my virginity to Brennan Blake.  I've not seen her because frankly, she's out of my price range.  But from her reviews, posts, and pics she seems aces. And with your budget you can afford 2hrs.  I lost my virginity as a young man to a equally inexperienced young woman.  It was goofy, awkward, and ridiculous.  We figured out a lot of stuff together.  But my first time with a provider I booked more than one hour because I knew I'd be nervous.  I picked an mature lady(who's since retired) and booked an hour and a half(should've booked 2hrs).  Like the others have said, join VIP and do your research.  Find someone that is physically attractive to you that will also be sensitive and take her time with you.  I urge you to communicate with her completely during the session.  Ask her all your questions and share all your anxieties.  Ask her to teach you something to use on your future civie girls. You'll walk out of there feeling like a new man.  But say you make a wrong pick and have a not so good experience... honestly, not the end of the world.  Either way, don't fall in love with her!  haha.  Good luck, Tom.  Let us know what happens.

just kidding... very good points. I am usually a bit cynical and analytical and that never occurred to me.

Now, following your logic - it does make a lot of sense, and is a possibility.

Let's say it IS a disguised AD-post - I would wonder why she has no photos on her site other than the one that is skewed out proportion. Seems she would jazz up her site with all the expected new viewers.

Also, 800 an hour puts her in a category where guys are going to recommend her to their buddies - given that her reviews are legit... which my guess is, they are. I've not read them, though.

So, your views... something to keep in mind, for sure.

And yes, 23 and a virgin ... seems like he needs the right lady... and like yesterday!

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Allisa, You may not be the "older woman" but you would be the one I want to loose my virginity to. Your kind, intelligent, interesting and VERY HOT!

from Pete's Tommy, she remonds me of my first encounter with Lohan when she she first got here and later Audrey, BUT I did not have pay a 1000 knicker for either.

Gypsy:

If your child ain't all he should be now
This girl could put him right.
I'll show him what he could be now
Just give me one night.
I'm the Gypsy - the acid queen.
Pay before we start.
I'm the Gypsy - I'm guaranteed.
I'll tear your soul apart.

Give us a room, close the door
Leave us for a while.
Your boy won't be a boy no more
Young, but not a child.
I'm the Gypsy - the acid queen.
Pay before we start.
The Gypsy - I'm guaranteed.
I'll tear your soul apart.

Gather your wits and hold on fast,
Your mind must learn to roam.
Just as the Gypsy Queen must do
You're gonna hit the road.

My work is done now look at him
He's never been more alive.
His head it shakes his fingers clutch.
Watch his body rise!
I'm the Gypsy - the acid queen.
Pay before we start.
I'm the Gypsy - I'm guaranteed.
To break your little heart.

Jenny is nice ,experienced and fun to be with .Two or three hours with Jenny would provide you with a great introduction to sex with a partner and provide you a memorable experience. Since you are choosing this path turn it into a positive unforgettable experience-because the memory SHALL be with you forever. I have not seen Jenny in quite sometime but I have fond memories of our time together.

ten years older. I was 33 when I lost my virginity to a provider. I paid $1100.

It was a highly reviewed provider here, and was on the high average listings Mathesar used to do. . She looked emaciated,sick, and weak. Far different from her healthier photos. She ripped me off and gave me 20 minutes when I actually paid for 2 hours. She died a week later from OCD on coke most likely. Not a good memory..

I wish I came here like you did and posted here first.

That said. It's good you did. You've got a lot of good recommendations.

Here's a list of what I think may work for you:

Chiara Delano (when she's back in the states)
Brennan Blake
Carla Di Capri

or stick to the top 100 listing of Los Angeles. or top listings other places. the TER staff have done well on their top listings.

Good luck

You would be perfect to be on the list!

If you are already planning to line up some sexual experience with girls you actually have to do some work for, then I would skip a step and just start there.  Your problem is that you're a young dude with what seems to be alot of disposable income.  That's a bad thing.  You'll buy an hour with some $1000 amazing hottie and she will blow your mind.  Then...you'll do it again and again because you won't be able to get the memory out of your head.  By the time you get around to the civvie girls you'll be wondering why they don't draw you a shower, fold up your clothes, wipe you with a hot towel, and laugh at all your jokes while rimming you at the same time.  Pretend you don't have the money to burn and go for the awkward premature ejaculation with the 7 you find at Whole Foods.  It will be an utter embarrassment, but will nonetheless be among the memories you cherish most when you are 35.  The providers aren't going anywhere.  Good Luck!  I'm actually jealous of you.

eom!

Awww....you guys....thanks!  You both just made my day...muah!

Carla..lol

Yea, I'm pretty perfect for him..lol I think he may have contacted me or someone else named Tom who had no referrals..

Tom...

If that was you, message me again if you like.. ;

Will  NOT be the right girl !!

There are NUMEROUS XXX porn stars available for $1000 or less.  And, the good thing is, if you tell them you are a virgin, they will probably treat you even better and be waaay more willing to act out whichever fantasy you have of what you want your first time to be like (i.e. pick them up at a bar, supermarket, dress in costume, jacuzzi, mutual inexperience, whatever).

Rodeo