We are all different and yet we are all the same when it comes to our attraction to the ladies. One thing we tend to think with is the other brain, understandable. The Hobby is all about the demand we have for the ladies and one thing we know is that as long as a man and women are on earth, the man wants it (snatch, pussy, twat etc.) no matter what. After you have been married many years or have had kids your significant other is either less interested in you or not interested at all in sex. Most men put up with it for quite a while and eventually either accept it or join the hobby. Because you have to remember for guys it is like taking a piss, does not or does not have to mean anything just an urge released and it is a mutual arrangement. It is not an easy decision for most guys to make that love there significant others but maybe a necesarry outlet. Remember you can either go to the Ritz Carlton or the 7-Eleven your choice. We all have our preferences what ever they may be, the bottom line is the same. This should be a legal way for a man's needs to be met by someone who by there own free will wants to meet that need.  We have much more important things in this world to address than something that has been around for thousands of years and will be around until man is no longer around. So a big shout out to all you providers and the pleasure you bring us.

Man, if sex is like just taking a piss to you, there is a serious disconnect somewhere! LOL

I wondered about that. If sex were that simple, all we would have to do is masturbate or find a blow up doll--some of them look pretty realistic. The fact is, we are driven at some cost, and in the United States at some risk, to stick our dick and merge our body into the body of another human being who has all the concomitant feelings and emotions. Besides, sex (usually) feels better than urinating.

If all I wanted was sex, 5 minutes of free porn and a little lubriderm and I'd be a happy man.  For me it's about the human connection . . . every human has the need to feel desired, wanted, needed.

when ya gotta piss - you PISS!!! and when your dick gets hard - you gotta fuck! True, the analogy is where op9 is not so eloquent, not even close. So, I wonder if after his next hobby pop, the lady asks, 'How did that compare to a piss?' LOL

The rest of his post does sound like someone who knows frustration  - I can't condemn the guy for his true sentiment - thanking the ladies here.

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Is that what sex is like for you? If it is then I feel sorry for you. You have no idea what you're missing.

I'm sure it's better than drinking piss--sorry, couldn't help myself there. How did that become a fad?

...that providers save far more marriages than they ever ruin.


IMO it's an essential outlet - the only other option is an affair, and if I were married I'd be far less concerned about a physical indiscretion than an emotional betrayal.



Now if only this country could catch up to the rest of the world when it came to forward attitudes about this as a necessary part of all cultures.

Great post! xoxo

I agree that more marriages could be saved if men who aren't getting sexual satisfaction at home could get past their fear and guilt and learn to enjoy the exhilaration that comes with having great sex and this hobby is much safer way than having an affair.
BTW, I respectfully disagree with the original poster, for me its not at all like taking a piss. Its about connecting with someone on an intimate basis without any further expectations.  There are many different kinds of love and one kind should not necessarily exclude all the others.  

we could just call it like it is and say it's cheating on your wife with an escort.   A lot of sugarcoating going on here.