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Re: If you don't like what someone is posting, unfollow or block them instead of complaining
MissFelicityFox See my TER Reviews 185 reads
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Me pointing out ridiculous behavior bothers you and I hardly care. You've just become super annoying to me and that's sad since I've never even heard of you and this is our first encounter. It adversely affects us, if it's an ongoing thing. If you don't correct something or attempt to correct it, it will just worsen and make everyone look bad. It's true and you know it. Now please go troll on someone else's post since all you acheived in this discussion was saying you don't agree. You don't agree, I understand that, I also do not care. Bye now!!

Posted By: Shaunna
Re: If you don't like what someone is posting, unfollow or block them instead of complaining
Okay, you posted asking if this is how girl's should be running their business, i answered. If you don't like my answer because i'm not agreeing with you, then i can't help that.  
   
 As for me attacking you, i'm not even close to attacking you, i'm just answering you, and i'm not offended in anyway by your post.  I just have no idea why you would care what other girl's are posting on their twitter accounts when it doesn't affect you.  Clients are not going to put us all in the same bag just because a few girl's are behaving that way, the same way you're not going to put all clients in the same bag, just because a few clients are being dicks.  
   
 As i have already said, what they do is their business, how they behave is their business and it does not affect me or you, it affects them if/when a client see's it. Then it's down to the client to decide if they want to have a date or not, or they could just delete/block them.  
   
 And a girl having fake pictures is not the same as a girl posting things you don't like on twitter.  And i can say without any doubt in my mind, no client has ever asked me if i have been sarcastic or rude about other clients, or bragged about gifts on twitter.  
   
 But hey, as you said, i'm immature and ignorant, what do i know :-)

MissFelicityFox2280 reads

Since being on Twitter, all I see are ladies (very well known ladies), being sarcastic and rude in their Tweets. If they're not being sarcastic or rude, they're bragging about the gifts clients have bought them. Is this truly the self image you'd like to give off to clients/ potiential clients?

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NorahLucille119 reads

In the same way that a minority of posters here are trolls and rude, I think it's a minority of ladies exhibiting that behavior in a negative manner.

That said, I'm as sarcastic as they come (though not rude) but never maliciously and anyone who knows me knows my tone and everyone else is not offended to my knowledge. I also have to defend "showing off" because 1. many clients like public recognition 2. many clients are encouraged to be generous when seeing gifts. I felt it was flashy as well then found myself on the receiving end of many more gifts when I asked and posted.

On the flipside, it's not my style, but there are people who really love the idea of catering to a woman's wants and needs and likes a demanding woman so maybe they are just projecting the image they're going for. It's a large market with literally something for everyone and that's super apparent on twitter as well.

Don't shoot the messenger!

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olivialeon135 reads

I agree with Norah and I enjoy Twitter very much.

There are bad apples in every single group on this planet, even church groups have assholes.  

We can say the same about some of the trolls here on TER who write disgusting, vile posts and fake reviews that show what they really think of women.  Disgusting and not nearly as bad as showing off gifts.  Think about it.

 You can let it affect you or not.  I simply do not.  

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LaylaVargo126 reads

I've never seen a provider post a gift she said she hated or made fun. I mean, unless I got a box of condoms as a gift, in which case I, personally, would laugh my ass off at and have to post about this new comedian I just met lol. But I can't imagine myself or any other girl complaining about a gift she received like "he got me a white Marc Jacobs bag when I specifically told him I wanted black."

  It's true though, men are frequently making straight out rude and belittling comments about women in the profession.  It's a two way street.

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MissFelicityFox118 reads

You misunderstood, they complain about the clients they see and make fun of them. Then follow it up with a gift post a few posts later. I know we're in a different industry but I just view it as immature, caddy/petty, and small minded. Same does for the reviewers and clients that mirror this behavior as well. Why compare this to others that do the same exact thing when you just hold yourself accountable for your own actions?

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MissFelicityFox116 reads

It's literally saying, "well the guys do so it's ok for us to do it". I don't think so

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Shaunna112 reads

I don't understand your post tbh, unless your whole purpose was to out the 'well known girls, that are on 'all your feeds.'

If it affects you this much, then just delete them, or post your message on twitter, so the girl's you are referring to can then have a debate with you directly, that makes more sense to me.  But not sure why you would want to get caught up in another girl's business when it doesn't affect you in anyway, especially when you have the option to just delete them.

Personally, i don't do social media platforms, CDL would probably cum in his pants every two seconds if i did :-)

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MissFelicityFox106 reads

I did post it on Twitter. Why are you all getting so offended if you're not guilty of doing this again?

Posted By: Shaunna
Re: I don't think that's the majority...
I don't understand your post tbh, unless your whole purpose was to out the 'well known girls, that are on 'all your feeds.'  
   
 If it affects you this much, then just delete them, or post your message on twitter, so the girl's you are referring to can then have a debate with you directly, that makes more sense to me.  But not sure why you would want to get caught up in another girl's business when it doesn't affect you in anyway, especially when you have the option to just delete them.  
   
 Personally, i don't do social media platforms, CDL would probably cum in his pants every two seconds if i did :-)

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Bluecourtney127 reads

Sounds like you need to follow others that share similar interests. I haven’t seen any negativity at all on twitter. Yes lots of ladies do post non stop gifts and shopping sprees but I just scroll past.  
I find laughter and information on twitter and if there’s someone who posts things I don’t want to see I simply unfollow them.  

Eden

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LaylaVargo127 reads

Hold myself accountable? Lol dude, I didn't post anything mean on Twitter about a client. Your response doesn't clear anything up or makes me feel like I misunderstood you. I'm saying I haven't seen any girls making fun of a client and following it up with a picture of a gift from that same client a few posts later. In order to do that I would have to be seriously invested in someone's Twitter feed and I'm not.....except Danny DeVito and Bill Murray....they have my attention

Related Link: Layla Vargo

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MissFelicityFox117 reads

I was speaking in general, nor specifically targeting you so just stop. Of course I know there's a block option, but when I see multiple ladies doing it, you have to wonder wtf is going on. You don't have to be "seriously invested" when you're scrolling through someone's feed. I'm not here to argue with you since that's clearly immature. I'm pointing out something so simple and it seems like a few ppl are getting offended for no reason which I find pretty hilarious. I'm making a statement that I'm seeing a ton of negative stuff about clients.

Posted By: LaylaVargo
Re: It's everyone in my feed  
Hold myself accountable? Lol dude, I didn't post anything mean on Twitter about a client. Your response doesn't clear anything up or makes me feel like I misunderstood you. I'm saying I haven't seen any girls making fun of a client and following it up with a picture of a gift from that same client a few posts later. In order to do that I would have to be seriously invested in someone's Twitter feed and I'm not.....except Danny DeVito and Bill Murray....they have my attention

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olivialeon175 reads

Don't say everyone - I don't do that and I'm on twitter.

I keep my posts pretty upbeat and positive...;-))

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coeur-de-lion117 reads

TER has the same option. They can just go to their message and put anyone in ignore. They will see that there was an ignored post, but they win't be able to see the content. It should lower the stress levels of chronic complainers. Lol

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MissFelicityFox173 reads

If you read correctly, I said everyone in MY FEED and this post is old also. And again, how is pointing something out being negative?

Posted By: olivialeon
Re: If you don't like what someone is posting, unfollow or block them instead of complaining
Don't say everyone - I don't do that and I'm on twitter.  
   
 I keep my posts pretty upbeat and positive...;-))

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Shaunna167 reads

Ashley, you're calling out other girls for being sarcastic, rude and braggers about clients/gifts on twitter, and then you're asking them and others if this is how they should run their business.

Your post was negative and the words you used were negative.

No one likes to see a girl 'out' other girls, especially when it doesn't affect you or your business in any way, but by you posting, it comes across as if you're trying to tarnish their business, and that's not cool.

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GaGambler141 reads

I routinely call out misogynist trolls here on TER for "bad behavior", as they make all the guys look bad. I also call out the "Twatter crowd" for their bad behavior. I don't see this as Ashely throwing shade on other providers, I see it as her rightfully calling out behavior by a handful of MHB's for making tweets that make you all look bad.

 
It wasn't Ashley's words that were "negative" it was the tweets of several providers that were negative. Personally I applaud Ashley for calling them out, I think more of you girls should call out these BSC ho's for what they do and say.

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Shaunna144 reads

I get what you're saying, but what other girl's post on their twitter accounts is up to them, and it doesn't make us all look bad, it makes them look bad and what they do or say does not affect me or anyone else who's not doing it.

So unless it affects me directly, why would i call anyone out for what they are posting on their twitter accounts.  

As for the misogynist trolls on here, i would never put you in that bracket of being one of them :-)

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MissFelicityFox182 reads

Once again, if it doesn't pertain to you, not sure why you're getting so offended. I was never going to "out" anyone. That's the most immature thing I've ever even heard of. If clients keep seeing things like this, they will get in their heads we are ALL like this. This creates animosity. The fact you keep attacking me is laughable! When ladies don't act like ladies and act like assholes, it gives us a bad name right?! Here's an example: girls using fake pics. This doesn't pertain to "your business", but how many clients have asked you if your pics are real bcuz there's a plethora of women out there posting fake pics. I'm more than sure that's happened to you a time or two. Same concept for women being bratty jackasses on their Twitter. Don't be ignorant

Posted By: Shaunna
Re: If you don't like what someone is posting, unfollow or block them instead of complaining
Ashley, you're calling out other girls for being sarcastic, rude and braggers about clients/gifts on twitter, and then you're asking them and others if this is how they should run their business.  
   
 Your post was negative and the words you used were negative.  
   
 No one likes to see a girl 'out' other girls, especially when it doesn't affect you or your business in any way, but by you posting, it comes across as if you're trying to tarnish their business, and that's not cool.

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Shaunna165 reads

Okay, you posted asking if this is how girl's should be running their business, i answered. If you don't like my answer because i'm not agreeing with you, then i can't help that.

As for me attacking you, i'm not even close to attacking you, i'm just answering you, and i'm not offended in anyway by your post.  I just have no idea why you would care what other girl's are posting on their twitter accounts when it doesn't affect you.  Clients are not going to put us all in the same bag just because a few girl's are behaving that way, the same way you're not going to put all clients in the same bag, just because a few clients are being dicks.

As i have already said, what they do is their business, how they behave is their business and it does not affect me or you, it affects them if/when a client see's it. Then it's down to the client to decide if they want to have a date or not, or they could just delete/block them.

And a girl having fake pictures is not the same as a girl posting things you don't like on twitter.  And i can say without any doubt in my mind, no client has ever asked me if i have been sarcastic or rude about other clients, or bragged about gifts on twitter.

But hey, as you said, i'm immature and ignorant, what do i know :-)

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MissFelicityFox186 reads

Me pointing out ridiculous behavior bothers you and I hardly care. You've just become super annoying to me and that's sad since I've never even heard of you and this is our first encounter. It adversely affects us, if it's an ongoing thing. If you don't correct something or attempt to correct it, it will just worsen and make everyone look bad. It's true and you know it. Now please go troll on someone else's post since all you acheived in this discussion was saying you don't agree. You don't agree, I understand that, I also do not care. Bye now!!

Posted By: Shaunna
Re: If you don't like what someone is posting, unfollow or block them instead of complaining
Okay, you posted asking if this is how girl's should be running their business, i answered. If you don't like my answer because i'm not agreeing with you, then i can't help that.  
   
 As for me attacking you, i'm not even close to attacking you, i'm just answering you, and i'm not offended in anyway by your post.  I just have no idea why you would care what other girl's are posting on their twitter accounts when it doesn't affect you.  Clients are not going to put us all in the same bag just because a few girl's are behaving that way, the same way you're not going to put all clients in the same bag, just because a few clients are being dicks.  
   
 As i have already said, what they do is their business, how they behave is their business and it does not affect me or you, it affects them if/when a client see's it. Then it's down to the client to decide if they want to have a date or not, or they could just delete/block them.  
   
 And a girl having fake pictures is not the same as a girl posting things you don't like on twitter.  And i can say without any doubt in my mind, no client has ever asked me if i have been sarcastic or rude about other clients, or bragged about gifts on twitter.  
   
 But hey, as you said, i'm immature and ignorant, what do i know :-)

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Shaunna152 reads

Jiminy Crickets, how did me having a debate with you turn into me trolling you?  I'm just answering your replies.

So you think i'm super annoying, ignorant, rude, immature, a troll and as you stated, have never even heard of me.  Well, Santa knows who i am, he comes visit me once a year :-P

Did i make it on your twitter feed for being all those things?  I'm stoked if i did :-)  Or you could always just block me, just saying....

You've never heard of me, it's nice to see your sense of humour shining like a little star, seriously, that's the funniest shit i've read in a long time, that i actually spat my tea out from laughing when i read it......rofl.

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coeur-de-lion126 reads

Ashley is not the only one in this town who thinks you're "super annoying, ignorant, rude, immature, [and] a troll."  Its interesting that you would use these precise words to describe yourself.  I applaud your self-awareness in seeing yourself as others see you.  More ladies in this business should be as introspective as you.  

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Shaunna113 reads

Ha the clown is back!

And learn to read :-)  I did not use those words to describe myself, someone else did.  Me personally, i wouldn't start name calling someone just because i don't like what someone posts or what their replies are.

And why on earth would TER ask you to keep these boards interesting, all you do is troll with your negativity.

I guess you must be having a slow week to want to jump on this.

Do i have a stalker?

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coeur-de-lion111 reads

I replied to you first, and that makes ME the stalker.  Nice try.  I would describe myself as a confirmed NON-Customer when it comes to you.  ROTFLMAO   You even lobbed an insult at me on another thread a few days ago and I didn't respond at all.

 
Why are you trolling Ashley?  She one of our well-liked local ladies here.  As an out-of-towner, you make yourself look bad once again.  The very customers you may be looking for in LA may be regulars of hers, and now you're going to turn them off to the idea of seeing you because you're going after her.  What happened to the sisterhood of hookers?  Can't you girls just get along so that we customers don't have to see the warts and lesions underneath the makeup?  Going into a town where you are only an occasional visitor and bashing the locals is just bad form.  

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Shaunna124 reads

1. We already established a long time ago that you are a non customer, yet you say it consistently.

2. Where did i insult you?  Are you referring to me saying you brainfart?  Ha, that's hardly an insult :-)

3.The irony of you saying 'can't us girls just get along', considering what the original post was about, is funny.

4. I didn't bash anyone, so stop with the drama.

As for Ashley, yes i know she's a local and from what i know, she's amazing.  I already stated that i did not take her post in a bad way, but i am entitled to reply, and just because i said i thought her post was negative, does not mean i think she is negative. Did you see me name calling her in anyway? No.

We all know that if the post was by me or another girl who was less liked by you, you would be one of the first one's to come on here bashing me/them.

You're just looking for excuses to make derogatory remarks on here about me. Grow up please.

And i was joking about you stalking me, i thought it was obvious it was tongue in cheek, but as you usually do, you jump in with the negativity, as you have done in previous posts.

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Lip-lock126 reads

Shauna when will you learn to not get started with this guy. He lives for these little virtual spars where he gets to say he’s the winner. I got into it with him again after ignoring all his posts. Please, if everyone would just ignore him he’d have no one to attack. I assure it’s the only way to get at him...ignoring him will be your greatest reply.  
Remember there’s no such thing as honest debate in virtual forums. It’s everyone telling you there opinion.
Good luck!!

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coeur-de-lion139 reads

do as you say and not as you do?  That seems a little pompous, don't you think?

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