I recently found out that I had an std.  got tested, and got treatment.  I need to let the provider that I was with prior to finding out know about my positive test.  I don't have a direct phone to her, but I do have her booker's number.  

I hate to tell the booker to forward a message to the provider, but she does need to know and get tested.  I haven't seen many girls only 2 in the last month, and symptoms didn't show up until late last week.

I've thought about asking the booker to have the girl give me a call but  with so much confidentiality, I'm not 100% sure on the best way to get the info to her, only that I do need to.

thanks for any ideas

Everyone should be getting tested & thanks for your honesty!

With out names, or more details to the board would be nice. Perhaps encourage other hobbists to get checked.
What was the std? What made you get checked, symptoms, or just a regular check up?
How might you think you have gotten it, provider, or regular date?

That safe sex practices were not ignored. It is good that you take the steps to make corrective actions in this situation but it always makes me wonder about posts like this. We are all grown adults and should know better as far as keeping ourselves safe in this hobby. (easiser said than done I guess).



But hopefully you can get in touch with the provider and hopefully things get worked out.

You say booker? I'm assuming it's a Kgirl. In that case, please pm me I have some ideas.

The provider was contacted

I would also like to know, if it's a k-girls too? Since I had seen many k-girl before. And a lot k-girls has a booker.

Wanted to know if I had seen the provider before or know who to avoid. So please PM me as well.

As I am on an exclusive K-diet, I too would appreciate a PM if the lady in question is a member of that demographic so that I can get tested as well.

I call bs on this post. I called a couple of bookers seeing if this affected any of their girls. Guess what. No go.

Plus another member has given me more info to substantiate this.

Beemer

What an ahole.

This post is not as innocent as it might seem to be. Without naming names ,at least pm that of the booker, so fellow hobbyist can call the booker to see if they need to be tested; looking back, this post is of little use and serves no purpose other than create a blanket indictment of K-girls, given that "booker = K- girls". I sense bad intentions and a calculated decision to damage the K-scene and undermine the ability of K-girls to earn a living free from suspicions and doubt.

Any responsible hobbyist would ,as a matter of practice, should get tested on a regular basis; furthermore the law and more important, basic morals require whoever gets infected with any contagious disease to notify their partners.

If this case was true, the OP should have discreetly notified the Booker and asked the Booker to notify both the provider and her clients. End of story.

This hobby is not without it's risk however, the more we push the envelope and pressure the partners into engaging into more risky behavior the more likely we end up paying a hefty price we can ill afford to deal with.

Something to think about regarding this post..

It is VERY good to have these reminders in this local forum to get tested 2 or more times a year for yours and everybody's safety. I am past due and will duly get tested early next week. But be ware that almost any thing you might do with a provider could offer you a trip to the clinic. Safety reduces the risk, but short of not touching each other completely, you have a chance of sharing the bad with the good.

A few years ago I came down with an STD (gonorrhea) and respectfully called the booker from the clinic to tell her the news so she might get her client treated. This booker was very sharp and fully understood he issue at hand. I had my shot and pills and returned to the hobby after a week or so of convalescence, but in the interim I saw that the particular provider never took a break and kept "sharing" for another few weeks before returning to her homeland (not Korea).

It's obviously good to tell the booker (even considering my sad story) when these scenarios crop up. And of course to get tested every so often depending on your level of activity and risk factors. AND I feel THIS SITE IS GOLDEN for making buds alert to the possibility of any outbreaks and reminding us we play in a world filled with horn toads and greedy bastards that prefer denial and outright assault than caring after not only their own bodies but anybody else's....

thanks for sharing thread starter....