Hi All! My name's Mikki and I've been doing erotic massage since February in LA (and a few other cities) and I just love it. I've met the greatest guys and really feel like I provide a huge service. If the Nobel prize could EVER be awarded for this, I think I'd have a shot. I'm so not kidding.

One of my clients just offered to do a review for my work and it ought to be up in a couple days. In the meantime, I'll tell you it's great to be part of this community and I look forward to connecting. Muah. Mikki

if i had to guess, she may have an SO and does not want to get caught in some love rectangle or something?  Or, maybe she thinks that given her age (52??), any married man seeing her would probably be super old - she may just be narrowcasting for dudes who have a milf fantasy.  Or, maybe she thinks this makes her different so that if the monger thinks he has to lie to get in the door and is successful, he has accomplished something.  My guess is that it is marketing.  Imagine a provider who said only married dudes.

It could be she's had a run-in with a pissed off spouse.  A woman who feels wronged can do some crazy shit.  I've seen it firsthand and she may not want to risk it.

She could also be worried that married guys will fall in love with anybody that treats them nice.  You don't have to read the EH board for long to realize that's happened before.  Or it could be she just doesn't like to hear married guys complain about their wives.  Some women have a low tolerance for that sort of thing, especially while they're giving you a HJ.  LOL.

Ooops... went away for a few days and was unaware of this discussion. My criteria about single men is more to extricate drama from my life, whoever said that. I find it's just more workable, has more integrity (read: workability, not morality!)
It's actually not a hard and fast rule for me. I do have one regular client who is married and has an agreement with his wife that he can go see people to handle his sex drive as long as it is not someone they know mutually and as long as he doesn't bring home any STD's.
Yup, whoever said the love thing was right... "There will be no falling in love" is part of my agreement with him.
Basically, I endeavor to honor agreements, and I like to keep people around me who do the same with each other. My girlfriend down the street who works with married men seems to have a lot of deception and non-peace following her around everywhere.
Of course, clients can lie to me about it and they occasionally do, but they do not become regular clients ...  at some point we are related enough to realize there's a withheld bit of info.
Besides, as a single woman, it's just more exciting to work with men who I might actually date!
As far as marketing, I'm pretty sure it loses me more money than it gets me, but I'm OK with that.
Hope that answer satisfies.

Mikki

that was pretty darned insightful of you!