Before I began my "career" as a provider, I always thought men liked me to keep my heels on in bed.  Being a bi-sexual woman I love it when a women has her heels on when I am with her.  But as it turns out, men do not.  I always ask "do you want my heels on or off"? Nine times out of ten they say off.

I know that most everybody wants you to come to the door in heels but how did the myth get started that men like them on in bed?

Capri Chandler

on my left thigh from a rather exuberant young lady who liked to keep her heels on in bed. So as a safety issue..off..LOL...My guess is it is easier for the lady and perhaps more comfortable for them to be removed as well.  I guess I kinda like the heels the same way I do stockings. Love ya to wear them, but find it exceptionally erotic to slowly removed them during an early point in the romp.

They imagine men like all kinda things that give them the excuse to buy what they wanna buy.
If men are turned on by heels in bed, then women get to buy more shoes the men get to pay for.

I honestly did think that safety was an issue, no matter how silly it sounds.    

As far as taking them off slowly, nobody has ever asked me to do that.  I think that there is a lesson to be learned. Don't be shy.  Ask for what you want.

Capri Chandler

Honestly?  That type of thing has never even occurred to a girl like me.  For me, it is a matter of feeling sexy.  Not if I can get the guy to buy me a pair of shoes.  

Capri Chandler

Always wondered this myself..lol

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On as it allows a grip for her heel

heels definitely, nothing like going down on a beautiful women as she wraps you up with her legs and heels on.

for your lady friends wearing heels, nothing like two ladies in heels doing unspeakable things to each other.  Most of my favorite porn looks like that.

.....spurs that go jingle, jangle, jingle as you go riding merrily along? My apologies to those singing cowboys of yesterday. LOL! Ciao!

then they can spur you on

Heels make a woman's legs look longer, they raise the ass cheeks, they arch a woman's foot and they push the toes forward and straight.  All of which is damned sexy.  Not that I pay attention to this sort of thing or anything.

and with stockings, add another point.

In Mish, but in doggie, she needs to take them off least I whack my knees on them.

personally, i dont like high heels at all...but i didnt meant that.
I mean the idea of wearing them in bed while having sex.
Do you think that's a turn on?
All the things you point out - which, like i said, are not especially attractive to me - do not exist when a woman is lying down.

What's your theory on where the idea that men like women to wear hi-heels in bed comes from?

I have never heard a guy say he likes this; but this is not the first time i have heard a woman say she thought we did.

Do you?

If not, then where do you think the idea that guys love this comes from?

HEELS ON!!!!

I get so hard instantly when a woman has her Heels on the bed!!  It is by far the most SEXY thing a woman can wear during activities!!!