Hi TER

I am advertising again on cityvibe and now coming back to screening guys booking. Just today three men have ask what's on the Menu? lol I feel like saying cup o noodles and cheesezets! Not sure how to answer. Things always seem to be different with each person I meet other than a few basics.

Oh and when a guy starting intro line is "Hey baby what's up" automatic delete


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what are you looking for?

hey baby, what's up.

Yes I do the same when a girl answers my email with Babe .  So Phoney !!!!

Jenny thanks yea I have told them that just feel weird to hear Menu feel like if I am Mc Donalds or somthine lol its funny but I guess I see the point

Then if they give you an answer that you can deal with you
can discreetly continue the conversation.
If not just say "No thanks".

Just ask how their McNuggets are.

i tell them tantrika's dont have "menu's" and that i go with the flow.

Your mileage may vary.

You are a happy meal, and always super size it! xo

I thought I was the only one! Babe, Babes, Sweety, Honey, from total strangers, are deal killers for me. Makes me feel like I'm in a diner on Route 66.

It is interesting the different attitudes and cultures on the different sites.  There's another place where I spend a significant amount of time where "The Menu" and asking your question is an integral part of the discussion with most of the girls.  Here, as Jenny Bright notes, the more common (and arguably safer option) is to refer the individual to your reviews.  Which, by the way. PGE, you should be doing as often as you can, since they are stellar.  

That said, you may want to keep in mind that your rates are not on the low end of the scale and may very well be a guy's entire entertainment budget for the month.  This could cause one to want to have as good an idea as possible as to what they can expect, which is a perfectly fair expectation.  

Accordingly, providers are constantly balancing out customer service and marketing with their own comfort zone and safety.  Being safe and secure is certainly a very reasonable and understandable approach but recognize that this may also narrow your target audience.  One of the other problems for providers is that it sure seems to me to be a buyer's market.  If someone is unresponsive to such inquiries, clickity, click, tappity tap & voila', there's someone just as cute who is!

It's absolutely a fair question.  I am familiar with the other site that others have mentioned, and it's integrated into the culture there.   If I'm getting services, whether its from a provider or from my car mechanic, I'd like to know what I'm paying for and make sure I feel comfortable with what I'm paying for those services.  

Put yourself in this situation:  Let's say you want to visit a spa, they tell you great!  It will be $300 for your visit.  You ask, well what do I get for the $300?  They say, oh, just come here, and you'll be happy.  

Of course you want to know what you'll get -- will I get a massage?  will I get a mani/pedi?  Does it it include a facial? (In SPA terms, lol).  So it's the same thing.  You want to know what you are paying for, and what you can expect.  So a potential client asking for your menu is definitely a fair question.

Yea but offering that much detail I mean is that even safe at all to be writing stuff like that back and forth or texting it.

Omg they both do leave stinky breath thou ewwwwwwww

Link them to your website/reviews.
If they are being stupid and still asking after all that, they're probably LE or just want a free ride at the computer desk.

How about, "have you read my reviews?"