hi. was wondering if companion providers is okay for someone like me. just seems like most of the guys in reviews are actively intimate w women & experienced with escorts. been celibate over dozen years + I'm introverted personality very quiet classical pianist. but actually was rock tour keyboardist 80s working with the most famous band in the world at that time so my taste in women is.. um.. I don't know she just needs to be very sweet but I guess large women are not gonna work coz already tried that. so petite I guess. anyway is this only for bold guys or can shy people participate? and if so, how?

There are some very sweet ladies on TER. Some that are a real GFE. You'll need to spend some time reading reviews to get a feel (no pun intended) for which of the ladies might suit your taste. Most of the ladies I see are in S.D. or Orange county. I just hate the travel into L.A. as I live in the IE. Anyway, If you want to PM me, I will give you some recommendations of ladies that will make you feel at ease and make you forget that it is a service.

Just start checking out the ads, reading the reviews, find a first companion who sounds good with shy guys, someone very friendly, then enjoy.  The sooner you do it, the sooner you'll thank yourself you did.  Although there is a wide spectrum of women available to you through the business, some of them are the most wonderful, beautiful, sexy girls you'll ever want to meet.  And they'll treat you like their boyfriend for an hour or more.  The hobby, when it's done right, is one of life's great joys.  Don't wait, jump in.

If you need any more advice, just ask, or PM me, or whetever you like.

(Now I want to guess what band you played with -- even though I acknowledge you won't, can't, and definitely shouldn't tell me.  The 80's, hmmmm.  Queen?  The Stones?  Hall & Oates?)

--Arrowman

wow thanks for the quick response & encouragement guys. yeah I can see there are incredibly sexy women here in LA hobby lists. just like the Katy Perry song tells it. just like we see walking around town some of the most beautiful women in the world as always. especially now during Spring. ouch! I have someone who's gonna help me get through the references part then jump in. thanks karatemanr for the offer. was looking admirably at Hara's pics n profile for 1 great example body type & price range & she's nearby. I live in 90004. k-grls r so sweet so that's positive. & you r right arrowman won't be talkin shop in here & anyway those bands, with the exception of the Stones of course, were our opening acts in 81

I started in the same row boat that your in......test the waters and find your own currents

hey thanks for the encouragement guys

Trust me!  I can think of a lady perfect for you!  Hope this is not considered a shill, but Jenny in the Valley would be perfect for you!  She is newbie friendly.
Seriously though, the hobby helped me gain confidence to be able to talk to a pretty lady and only thing here is she's a sure thing.  My ATF taught me how to DATY like you would never believe.  Now when I'm with a civilian they say OMG!!!!  Where did you learn that!!!

Let's talk Meet & Greets since one is a couple days away.  You ever walk into a bar and want to talk to the prettiest one there?  Well, at a M&G all of them will talk to you. Unless they don't need any business.

I was able to unlock a romantic side that most guys here hate!  Others well they have a certain appreciation for my style and the LADIES adore that I treat it like a REAL date.

Good luck there T5!  Unlock what is inside you!  When you get a lil' nervous just say  1e&a2e&a3e&a4e.

b.

Most providers will put you at ease in no time..I am shy too at times. good luck!!!

Hi there.  I am may be the kind of gal you are looking for.  CHeck out my reviews and let me know.  If you want a sweet women who loves classic rock, call Rebecca in the valley.  She is my bff. You can see her reviews here also.  SHe rocks!  Good luck.

fuck man just read your Kaylani review & almost popped

think I'm gonna like this

You can handle Carla your first time out?  I had been at the hobby for about 8 months before I met her.
Let me tell you this, better yet read my reviews of her solo and with her friends.  I will say this "SHE IS WORTH EVERY PENNY!!!!!"



FYI, Don't piss her off, you will never get near her front door!

Much Luck to you!
b.

I love to be Peter Pan while she's Wendy

Fantasy is what I need right now. Anything more is just gonna get in the way of where I'm at right now. Two-dimensional is perfect for now. Lolita suit, nurse outfit, performance smiling and cuteness of a young babe. These are the missing things in my life, a life filled with family emo issues, the seriousness of survival in the tough music biz and the seriousness of how I take my art as a classically trained pro musician. When I was younger I had some fun with young women, groupies on tours and none of that exists for me anymore as I'm doing okay now staying in town producing stock film & ad music & I've been a house-dad for my kids for the past two decades. They're grown up and hobbying is ideal for me now logistically.

The most exiting thing I've read on these reviews so far -and there's a lot of juicy details to get aroused by- but you may be surprised that what turned me on most was hearing the routine of how Asian providers are quiet and hide behind the door. Demure is a classic turn on for men, and my experience is always tops with this type, after which I get so heated up for her that passion happens while demure is replaced with her nasty moans: demure to nasty. classic. and it works for me every time, in my fantasy. it isn't the only good fantasy, but it's fine for where I'm at right now: cute, demure, petite, girlish, smiling, performing, young n perfect, model, dress up, lolita, pig tails, cute & more cute

sorry if that's nauseatingly cornball to the more sophisticated peeps here. I might need a minute to catch up to ya. at least I'm coming out with my tastes. an improvement for me

below my favs list so far, based on pics n reviews. not nearly complete as I've looked at & read about but 50 providers out of over 260 listed in search age 18-35 LA area. starts to get dumb though coz so many babes, fun looking though. I hope peeps don't think I'm only window shopping. I plan on jumping in as soon as I feel ready. within the next couple weeks. I still need refs 1st before I can get into the grls I want. also gonna have a spa, scrub etc & Brazilian manscaping before coz I wanna be feeling and looking good for my special GFE

Hara  - she looks like a doll in pics & reviews confirm it. I need a cute Barbie to play with at the moment. mmm really want that

Carla de Capri - 'she's my little rock n rol-ler..' yeah slender blondes r made for rock tours & there's classic Euro mistress in that fantasy.  she's advertised a bit out of my price range at the moment. reminds me of being at a backstage party at Oakland stadium for some strange reason. like to see her in a tennis outfit with hair pulled back and a visor cap that makes her face look cute. then I would smooch her and grab her round the waist in a long kissing embrace with her bent backward over the net. I reach down and grab her butt and she squeals coz we're outside in public. spank that butt! some chasing child play then we head back to the room & jacuzzi etc

girls just wanna have fun

speaking of euro, what about east european women, as in where are they, r there any RMPs in LA? Asian dolls for the whole package, but for faces  it's  about bone structure and eyebrow shape that's a turn on, same for most people especially photographers. east-euro is apple shaped face & this isn't far off from asian. both so cute. look at Sophia Lynn's face. classic model beauty that. same for east European beauties, and nepalese beauties for that matter. I've some russian heritage, born in LA, lots of us here. these exquisite brunettes running around my old hood studio city where I grew up, especially since the 90s. I can see they are russian, or some other east euro. hungarian, czech. I see them & I get this different kind of yearning in my loins. like a familiarity thing can't really explain. I have to have one sometime. I have fantasies of passion when I see them at the market and around town. they are gorgeous creatures. two soft porn stars with great eyes-faces + hot bodies are Kamilla18 and Kristina Fey. any providers who look like that are my choice picks. So far..

Ema
is going in the direction of Kristina Fey but she's taller & her face isn't in photos

here's the rest of my cutie young fantasies so far. def hard to choose one. beauty of LA
Qiqi
Rima
Lisa
Linda
Sera
Pepsi
Lovely Angel
Sky
Cindy
Juana
Erica
Vera
Bobby
Leah/Ace

I'm still shopping around, ok seeing as how I just started doing this yesterday

of them love me for it!  Ohh there are  a TON more Euro girls!!  If you want a few recommends PM me.
There was one girl here a while back that was very special to me.  I can't write her name cause when she retired she delisted her self.  TER NO NO rules.

Also here is a HUGE tip:  Tipping is not only welcomed but encouraged.

i see it now. damn. hey I hadn't even joined yet, much less read the newbie manual
still no excuse really, so obvious where to go
in fact, I was about to ask her out, but I thought I better not
I told her I grew up in the neighborhood (truth) & was thinking of playing a show
at a club nearby the parlor (also truth).. so I was getting there

fuk everything about me these days my biorhythm feels like
this impending something not sure like something's about to happen
I can never really get there, always about to happen

there she is, I think - Annie   TER ID: 153157

the body specs sound right. C cups though really I thought they looked like D cups through her knit top. they all wore tight black clothes that weren't very attractive actually more like an austere restaurant table waitress outfit. low profile I guess or maybe I'm just an idiot for not asking for an outfit. I didn't really see her as Asian either. white girl I thought . she had black hair pulled back Asian-style so I guess yeah Asian. classic pretty face that defies race.

really the closest pop image to this woman is that incredible 3-D short hair big breasted brunette that pops up if you've ever browsed the erotic anime, because the 3-D anime girls faces are so perfect. in both this & Annie's case the face is pixie-like and cute shaped . no accent. very sweet voice .very important to me, musician

oh yeah I saw the photos -it's her
can't see her face but I remember that body very well
definitely her

now what do I do, I guess I'm set right?

I mean if she doesn't already totally hate my ass for the cheap 20 tip
I might have a chance to.. I don't know, hold her hand at least, right? ;|

so now there's absolutely NO excuse for not jumping in the pool
at least for HJ initiations -should be fun

I gave myself a chance to thoroughly read the newbie manual so I'm glad I waited. But I owe romanticbello, Carla de Capri & a few others my apology for not jumping in yet when I said I would do it before

I've gotta just do this my way & if I'm confused it's just not gonna happen. I have to feel right about it and comfortable.

found some great advice on the newbie pages & really it was like a wake up shrink so thanks for that. example ThatDanGuy's "A Newbie's first. (So long, cherry)" essay..

"RELAX..Your best bet is to approach the encounter like you’re seeing an old girlfriend who’s in town briefly on business.  You’re going over to her hotel to chat a bit and get in a quickie."

the idea of scenarios works for me for some reason . thinking of scenario, out of reality. as a musician who is consistently taxed to create in arrangements songwriting etc my imagination is overworked. why the eccentric label is sometimes used on me. shit if this has been let gone on too long & these experiments don't work we'll have to call in a full on nurse to do the job. and somehow that thought is appealing hmmm -------gotta be a spinner though hehe

basically my problem is what this masseuse Annie in studio city said to me a few weeks ago "you're a little in your head" --so cute n perceptive mmm i think I like her. anyway  too much yackin. .so, difficulty trying to relax. but even though her great hands took care of any physical nervousness and I got totally relaxed, I was still uptight.

I was uptight because I knew i should have been feeling more in control of the situation but, it just didn't feel safe I guess. so all this erotic feeling I was having toward Annie got hidden, shoved down & bottled up inside me & that's the last thing I need to happen. I need to be in control by at least knowing where I stand with a beautiful woman who is near me and that I'm attracted to. letting those moments go without telling her she looked sexy was wrong & it felt wrong all the way through me

I have a (lame) excuse for what happened that evening with Annie. it's that I didn't know anything about the hobby (my SO registered me here a few days later) & so even though I was horny when i went in to the AMP I sat there and did nothing while this total babe with great rack & body & cute face gave me a massage and body scrub. fuk I was so confused didn't even get hard. had a great massage though. even fell asleep at one point

I could sense that Annie knew this. she was in control of course, it was her turf. she had a great relaxed attitude. she could see that I was physically alright and my body was responding to her touch by relaxing and I was enjoying the rub. but I could tell the rub was sensuous. it had this undulating motion to it that other masseuses never had, really sexy. yet, my head was so confused about all this junk, what should I say, is this a bust, does she think I'm ugly & old, should I reach out & touch her (an extreme urge that I was fighting with all my strength) and all that crap caused my bud to get ignored I guess. coz he wasn't going nowhere & that was just like pathetic

do I worry that I'm turned gay from not doing it for so long? . .. . . .. .. .. .. naw

so, newbie friendly providers were recommended to me, who will help me 'relax' and I appreciate that. but there's this other thing like what he wrote #5- 'KNOW WHAT YOU WANT'  that's really what this is about

I already have a SO who's into helping me relax with great cooking talk etc. . but what I'm missing, what I need to do, is to TAKE CONTROL. to go out & get what I want because I know how to get it, that courage self-esteem stuff, you know, so i can break out of this frickin cliche of a whupped wimp and get back to where I was before I traded (dutifully) chasing babes for chasing babies =) house-dad joke

but I know more now & am planning on going back in there and seeing Annie again (establishing faith is normal process anyway ?) - still, I know damn well that if i was in the place I used to be confidence-wise i would have at least made a pass at Annie. it's just firkin pathetic. but.. that's why I'm here folks. I'm gonna get through this & soon be able to look back at it and laugh

my QUESTION if I have one, is now that I've acted like a total dubya 9/11 deer in the headlights, and even though Annie was a total sweetheart throughout, and even though i should have tipped her more than a 20 stupid.
because even though I bought 1.5 hrs for 60, so 20 might be ok for the straight massage tip though really at least 40 considering what emo she worked through fuk when i walked out my instinct was to kick myself for not giving her the 140 that was left in my pocket .guess I liked her
that's right, I went in w 200 so u know what I was thinking. just pathetic
..and even though my SO reminded me that she probably liked me and is hoping that I'll return (could that be true?)
and that's the point of the question, did my prude act turn her off to me? was she worried that i was a cop? don't think so, the madame appeared to like me when I came in & after all it looked to me like she hooked me with her prettiest girl.. though it's still unclear if anything ever goes on in there I think it does coz the doors close in private rooms. not that private, top is still open, but closed door, soft red light

and finally, should I even bother going back now that I made a prude ass of myself the 1st time. like I said, I asked my SO & she said stop worrying she probably likes you...

anyway sorry for bothering the forum with my ego crap . soon it will be over (10 yrs celibacy) & we'll all get a chance to see what kind of junk I can cum up with wordy describing the pathetic fiasco---- uh.. the incredible event that it undoubtedly will be. hehe

just promise me it wont be like radar

...it's just a dif kind of hunting. after a show we would just go out into a backstage lounge party or out into the crowd with the crew & of course that was a great way to hunt for chicks. this is actually a more controlled candy store but more expensive. I can't seem to fully comprehend today's inflation anyway so i have a business mgr who takes care of that or else I'd be up shit's creek coz I'm so friggin bad with money.  anyway I guess my point is that even though this candy's expensive, it's really not about money. which is why the rebel rock musician in me always enjoys hearing about how it's totally uncool to even mention money in the hobby. right on. love over money,, an i'm sorry tina can sing all night sayin it aint about love but damn! that's wht I call this shit glin through my loins when I'm lookin at all these pics of beeootiful young babe providers!!!!!!!!! beautiful young women are just awesome period -I'm gonna make LUV to sum o dat -call it wot u want

-- Modified on 4/3/2011 4:53:25 PM

it occurred to me that SO may not be a good title for this woman with whom I'm separated but who continues to help me in my current mid-life crisis since after all she had a hand in it, my wife for 20 years

not sure if there's anything for that

hey I was just browsing a search & think I just realized something

during my convo with Annie (above) over her massage where I talked
about my personal stuff (bad idea) there was one word that
she hung on to ----- "cool" after I said "That's cool" about something she
said

what a total idiot. I know you experienced hobbyists are thinking

'cool' is one of the sexiest older-guy-w-younger-taboo-chick words in the universe
I saw it of course. it flashed like a warm light
I remember it. a warm flash of light in
the cesspool of my misery at that moment
that's me when I'm feeling shy & inhibited. I see it, but I freeze anyway.
It's awful. but that's why I'm doing the hobby. therapy. anti-depression medicine

save me from myself, Annie!

can't wait to see her apt -I'll tell ya something that jjwen got it spot on:

"I start to miss her the day after I home. Guys, go and try her and you will know what I mean."

that is exactly what happened. she is a really really sweet girl
even though I was too slow to ask her for extra fun that night. idiot!

ok but now I'm really embarrassed because I need a trim & she saw it

next stop manscaping and some skin treatment mole removal

what else

alright well this gives me one starting plan anyway

it's off to hunt her down
wish me luck

the lead dancer in a show for which I was keyboardist-music director also is a model, how she makes her living & she does well, had a funny handle: posedtodeath

I relate to models. too many shows. probably the same with providers. classic piano player w hooker screenplay. of course I know that makes me a natural born enemy to this great 'what's love got to do with it' movement. I'm here to tell you that I was framed for the gig, had never any intention of doing anything of the sort. nonetheless..

oh Annie. can't you see that I fell in love with you the moment I laid eyes on you?  ,, it appears that I've got myself in a fine mess. there've been more than a few murmurs around me about how I've a few things to learn about the social network

TER is a social network. it appears to have started out as a simple journal then clever people found its means as a tool overcoming the bs of LE (especially the double standard of who gets popped) -all that is fine & well but web forums become human personality tanks & therefore a responsibility

to the writers within them

truth is, I'm just a punk rocker musician who never gave much of a crap about rules, especially social rules. sorry but that was my gig, man. you can forgive me for that at least. y'all didn't seem to mind the 'tude when you were cheeering at concerts

I went down for the kid and that's that. twenty years. a lot of cats stayed in the game but when she offered an easy life I knew I was never a player to begin with. I had my embarrassing tragedies like anyone, more than most even though I was the lucky kid prodigy starting out

point being, even though I played the rock star I was always the pointdexter, the O'Malley kid who dreamed unrequited about kissing the prettiest girl when, ironically she was doing the same about me

get in line, if u wanna hate me for being the above. I'm the 1st person in that line. my excuse is that I was an orphan & then a child abuse victim, all hidden behind a conspicuous 'talent'

I've showed up at a few social networks. whatever. most are supposed to be that while TER only becomes a social network without trying. there r more important things at hand here. such as actually meeting beautiful women. even though it's not free to have a masseuse touch you like a real gf would do for free.

such is life at the lonely man's cafe. for the profession it must be a fair boon of managing to incorporate and advertise this other guy element, the guy who isn't lonely but just a normal bloke out for some extra carnal action. power to ya if that keeps corrupt dogs away.

but we all know the lowdown is those countless fools standing around at the dance hall ogling girls who wouldn't dream of looking at much less touching such social wimps & who actually think of them as creeps & laugh about it w friends.

fortunately I never felt the need but I probably would have had I not been allowed to be a rock star instead - & this even though the reality is that I was a 10 without anything attached. yeah my self-esteem issues r severe. child abuse

so I said some crap about my sexuality on the erotic review. cool. nobody cares anyway. but Annie should know that I'm full of it. the only reason I didn't treat her better than I did was because I was nervous about the situation & didn't know what the hell I was doing

she's a real woman yeah. cool & I'm just a typical stupid guy who doesn't get enough and consequently I think I like the idea of objectifying women's sexuality. when the truth of the matter is that I'm actually just another nice guy -not a player & of course she knows that anyway

no wonder insensitivity and never thinking twice is what works in this game. I knew that from the real romance game. but it has been too long.. & now this? disheartening, to say the least. again, I sense that she's ahead of me & understands all of it already, as do probably most of you reading this

but one correct, cool word out of my mouth & we are making out hot like we should have been in the 1st place... aw, hopelessly romantic. but I could at least apply for a private home session

that would be responsible