First, ya gotta read this escort's Blog from start to finish:  http://alexlieberman.wordpress.com/

Next, here is my reply to her latest post.  She's much more entertaining than I ever could be (if I am at all)...but I was impressed with my response to her latest issuance and wanted to share it with my local community of mongerers:

Alex/Kim,

I’ve been reading your blog for about a month since some fellow perv on the TER LA Discussion Board made a reference to you and your trysted ramblings…

I’ve had thoughts about you and have threatened myself to reply to your sometimes over the top missives about your clients or your relationship with your ex-fem-pimp or the exploits of you going indie.

Sometimes I want to bitch slap you because you’re just so caustic and cynical and don’t see the side of the buy/sell relationship from the consumer side and selfishly and only see the machinations of the deal from the side of the provider/victim.

I’ve analyzed your meanderings…I’ve put myself in your shoes and yes…much of what you say is accurate…but as the Meier Lansky character played by Lee Strassberg in Godfather II says to Michael…”This is the business we have chosen…” so on one hand I want to tell you to “Shut the Fuck Up” and quit yer bitchin’…but on the other hand I don’t know if I could ever Kiss myself if I were an escort and know, fully well, let me stand corrected, will never know what it takes to be a pay as you go girlfriend for all comers where the drop, as you call it, is the common denominator.

The unfortunate part about your ongoing story is that you persist to engage in this business for a pair of Jimmy Choo Pumps and then continue to complain about it…Dear, it’s not like you’ll go out of financial existence if you don’t take your next drop and that really, truth be told, this gig is really a way for you to indulge yourself and perhaps nothing more.

And yet, Kim…in this post, you have touched me. You ask the question that will lead you to Liberation, Lieberman. The question is as old as which came first, the chicken or the egg and the answer, for you, will perhaps set you free and change your life, but what the fuck do I know? I still pay women for sex!

I will continue to read your blog. As more than half the people who listen to Howard Stern hate him…I will continue to follow your adventures cuz, fundamentally, you piss me off…but maybe that’s your job. Tee_Hee

DD

Did you read "The truth behind closed doors"?
Some may like the entertainment value of her blog, but it is all a work of fiction.  

Sorry, you may think she's legit, but I don't.

Truer words were never spoken.

Cardinal rule in any business is not to bite the hand that feeds, and she seems to do a good job of eviscerating it. Then again, there's no shortage of dysfunction in the AE world, so maybe your expectations are a little too high.

I have long kept it simple...girls offer service for a fee, pay fee, enjoy service. Unfortunately many of the girls haven't figured out the service part yet.

Finally, LA is a different animal altogether..so many ladies asking, and getting $500-$600/hr when they would have trouble getting $250-$300 most any place else. Which leads me back to biting the hand that feeds....

Well, I'm for real, but my name is not.

First of all, let me thank DD for coming to my defense.  A true knight in shining armor!  I'll respond to your comment on my blog, DD!

Now to all you haters and non-believers, let me just say that I am for real.  I'm a provider in Atlanta, (with 3 pages of reviews on TER alone) and using a nom de plume for my blog.

Think about it, if you were a provider with these kinds of thoughts, would you give out your real name and watch your business dry up?  DUH.

Any provider who reads my blogs will know that I'm for real.  They may not agree with everything I say about the business, but they will know it comes from real experience.  And they certainly would never publicly agree with many of my posts for the same reason, they need to eat and shoe themselves too.

I knew going in that I would take a lot of flack for my opinions.  And I'm not going to start a "yes she is/no she isn't" debate.  I know who I am, as do most of my readers, including intelligent hobbyists who know the realities of this business and who's egos are in check.

I write to entertain, even though some don't get or appreciate a post or two.  Sorry!

kisses, Alex

Probably, what she say's in the blog is all to true, certanitly from her view point. Nice to know how bad I am.

My Rules:

Always be well groomed and squikey clean.
Always pay the donation asked.
Never ask a lady to do anything outside her bounds.
Even though you may not care for the lady never let it show.
Always leave them with a complement.
The next day send an email thanking them.

I smoke, 6' 165 pounds, probably not handsome, and now I know I'm probably lousey in bed.

Or, in other words...Sheeeeeit Alex, that's all you had to say!

That kind of explains everything. It's the TER equivalent of Marcellus sending The Wolf, if you get my drift . I was in Atlanta recently, and hmmmm, what's the most polite way I can state this...the guys seem to be pretty demanding there. Also, it seems like half the guys there want to pimp, or already fancy themselves as pimps. Your writing is merely the mirror image of the typical Atlanta review I read while doing "research". I mean, I remember one review which went like, well, she sucked and fucked me 8 ways to Sunday, but I'm only giving her a 7 for performance because she wouldn't let me cum in her mouth or let me put it in her ass.

See, as a career bachelor, I always thought this deal was supposed to be about fun, but I guess there are other agendas out there.

Anyway, good luck out there, you're going to need it.

I read her blog quite often and I find it entertaining!

I find her answering questions I would ask of a provider and if you had any sense of humor about yourself or life, you would laugh about it and then have a great day. So for those of you that get upset about it, " get a life"

If you have to guess my agenda you are pretty slow. My blog can't be any more blunt or truthful. Yes this biz can be fun but first and foremost it is a business. That is my agenda.

And I have no idea where you get the idea that the men in Atlanta fancy themselves as pimps through a review. How are the two even connected? I'm sure you can find that type of review in every city on TER.

Alex

Thanks Miguel! I always look forward to your comments on my blog.

Kisses,

Alex

#$%holes, everyones got one. NBD if you like Alex, or if you don't like her.

Your grasp of the obvious is astounding.

Isn't this what this board is about?  To share opinions on various subjects?  If it's NBD to like or dislike anything, why bother posting any message?  Including yours?

Nothing better to to do today?

Anyway, I love Alex's blog.  It's truth, unfiltered.  And every hater who blows a gasket reading her stuff clearly has some ego issues or plain forgets that this is fantasy for pay.

IMHO

in that, everything I know, I learned in the movies (yet I just can't practice what I preach) such that most of the words of wisdom that I expound directly off the Silver Screen which brings me to my next Pearlized Offering from Cameron Crowe's legendary 'Jerry Maguire' and it's not 'You had me at hello.', 'Help me help you...' or even 'You gonna show me the money...' but Bob Sugar's gem 'That's why they call it Show Business and not Show Friends...'

DD

Yea, I read her blog, blunt, to the point. It's OK. And I'm fine with her opinion.

But I do have have a slight problem. Her opinion for most of her clients is pretty low. If it's about having fun it's goning to be difficult when I now know the lady for the most part thinks I'm the scum of the earth. At one point she stated that most providers felt the same, but would not say for business reasons.

Alex my dear, perhaps you could write a blog about the ways a gentleman could improve his standing with a lady. Were not all handsome, 6' 185 lbs greek gods. Most of us just have $400 to spend on entairnment and we like the ladies.

I realize your dream client would be a well dressed gentleman, perfectly groomed you could meet in the parking lot where he would make the drop, wish you a good day and drive off.

If you ever come to Phoenix let me know and I'll do that just for you.

If you read each and every blog post to date, you'll see that I've written a fair balance of good experiences and bad.  I never call out any guys as being scum of the earth, but rather focus on experiences that I either love or hate about the business.  This is about me and my ability or inability to handle what this life throws at me.

Let's face it, a blog is my way of entertaining as well as decompressing from this lifestyle.  (thats' why its called Alex the Reluctant Escort) If you accept that premise, you'll understand that its neither entertaining nor emotionally helpful to write about an appointment that goes very well.  *yawn*  And believe me I've had lots of great appointments... but why bore you with those.

Hope you keep reading and reading them all, you need to have the context of the whole blog to understand any one post.

And I hope you comment on the blog, whether you love or hate me or the story that day.

kisses, Alex

she's pretty much spot on in her blog and it's entertaining and and well written. probably just 1 or none providers who may have been genuinely attracted to client who has seen enough sessions and providers,  and it mostly fades from repeated visits and then it's the usual acting.

however there are those of us who rate reviews as fair as we can. TER ratings are weighted higher because that's the "flow of traffic". it's not all about male ego. A "7" in either looks or performance is already "bad" to most established providers.

I followed the post, comented twice, went back to your blog and read a few I missed, went through some comment.

Have to change my mind. I would probably like you. I probably agree with you more than I disagree and wehen I disagree I probably don't understand what you really saying.

Best of luck

Thank you!!!!!!