The whole thing is an adrenalin rush. "RISK", hopes, anticipation, and of course the knowing that you're doing something universally considered 'naughty'.  

  I've known of more than a few TER hobbyists that still occasionally dabble with the more dangerous SW side of the hobby simply for the danger factor and the adrenaline rush it provides.
   

I love the excitement and anticipation that knowing that whoever is on the other side of the door, I will absolutely have a connection with. Sometimes in a few ways, sometimes in ALL ways. Because at the end of the day, what matters is connecting to another human being. Whether it's  sexual, emotional, or all of the above. Our need for connecting with another person and knowing that our needs will be fulfilled, whatever they are... is HUGE. I get very excited at the thought that whomever is waiting on the other side of that door, chose ME. This is a compliment to me and something I don't take lightly. It's a wonderful feeling to meet someone else's needs and know that they will walk out the door feeling happier and more alive than they did before.

Since I'm just a fat old guy with no game there's no way I would be worthy of her attention after his awesome sauce.

aches out, grabs me by the colar and pulls me in ....... come here kitty, kitty, ...... ok ok got slightly carried away here (Sunday early morning), but that would be refreshing.