Just wondering...When in this hobby some people tend to quit cold turkey..is that from burn out, being jaded?

I am not including health reasons and/or age..but people just up and quitting. Maybe SO found out? Just wondering.

by people I meant the hobbyist not the provider.

But then sexual boredom hits home and....there you are, back on top of some 22 year old KGal with a perfect body.....

And then sexual boredom hits in the hobby and.....

Repeat as necessary.....

RT

Cash, impotence or guilt. The only reasons to quit.
Otherwise, who wants to stop having great sex with
beautiful, young girls?

You know what they say "Too much of a good thing is.............WONDERFUL"

I think people quit because when the girl you see leaves your place as good as the session was with her she is not staying with you . Then you realize that your just paying for a service and it hits home with you when she leaves your house . Theres nothing better then a relationship with a regular girl . Its just finding that special girl that we hope we all find .

Weekly basis between one date and another . As long you enjoy it , afford it and pursue in a safe and respecful manner there is no reason to stop cold turkey or otherwise .

I am sure you have found your "perfect ladies of liesure " by now , so play on.

My AFT moved away...I used to see her once a week.  I have NOT been able to find anyone close to what she was.  Smart, beautiful, smoking hot, friendlt, toned body, lean, tits, flat stomach....must I go on????  And PRICED RIGHT!!!  I have looked everywhere in the LA boards for someone like this....I'm not going to pay for sex for some Average flabby chick that thinks she is worth $800 a hour.  NO fuckig way.  I'll go home and watch porn....it feels better!!!!!   HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is a very personal question.  There is no objective answer.  It is a combination of factors that come into play with every individual.  It starts with why do you do it in the first place.  I am clear why I do.  I have an unfullfilling sexual life at home, I love my family and I will do everything I can to keep that healthy and together and I honestly believe this is the best, and most fun, way.  I have, like most of us here, a big libido that I like to indulge and there are some incredible women out there that are very generous and fun.  I am a product of the sex drugs and rock and roll culture and doing this keeps that alive.  Seriously alive!

So I'm still digging it and I'll continue.  Indulge so long as you look at what you are doing and feel clear on why and make sure you are not hiding shame.  Know thyself is the answer.  

The answer isn't out there, our here.  It is inside.

Good luck Beemer

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So who was your ATF?

There are some good points made here, one question is if one has a significant other and she finds out,  and she finds out are you willing to lose what you have and then some, and another worse case senario she divorces you and takes half of what you have and them some,  suddenly your out of the hobby because you can't afford to anymore, If one lives in California it's 50/50 spilt.  Sometimes this hobby can be like gauntlet.

I am not myself thinking of quitting. I have found some wonderful girls that have filled my rotation and will be happily hobbying with them. I was just curious.

I hope everyone has a fulfilling hobby life!


Beemer

SO is always a major priority!

LOL! To each his own, I suppose.  My "special girl" knows to get the heck out when we are done, because I want to sleep, eat, or watch football -- all of which are better without her there!  

You have a PM from your possibly new ATF! Hehe I even included a little something special for you darling :] Have a good night!

What a relief Beemer, that you are not throwing in the towel after all.I am sure the girls in your rotation will be relieved that you clarified your intentions.

I for one agree.!

This is an interesting subject.  I just spent 3 busy nights, one with a provider and two a civie.  I'm exhausted, and thinking
It may be over for me.  I wonder how I'll feel in a couple of days.

You are dead right!..Who wants to stop having sex with young sexy (k) girls! Not I!

Harpman,


Unfortunately my girls are stuck with me! Cant let them go at this point!

I cant get started been through the verification process twice first provider was a no show second called to schedule an appointment and wont return my calls.

I am Ready to back in the game...after felling a little bad about it after words