In this hobby for 12 years and about to turn 40...  I know this is a game and it is a fun game.  But what do you do when you still love the game but are bored and not sure if the next girl is going to satisfy you?  At some point can you stop being satisfied?  I have been having ok experiences with top ladies recently.  Even if it is great, I am hesitant  to return for fear my satisfaction level will decrease.  And on top of it I often find myself trying to find a fault.  These ladies are awesome and do such a great job.  They seem to have a good time (in the conversation and not just sex) but that could be an act.  

I guess I may have to start looking for a non fantasy hobby to see if that is fulfilllment. I already restore cars and I love it.  Imagine the cars I could build with my hobby money!  But I don't think I can leave this one that I truely enjoy.  About 4 ladies have gotten really close through the years crying their hearts out to me.  But then I think, was that real?

This is not the first time I have written on this subject.  I probably did about 3 years ago.  I think it is just good to reflect sometimes on why we do this hobby...

I have stepped down from my Soap box to hear you...

Take a break from the hobby. I did and once I was out of the pursuit mode, my real needs and desires became clear. I think once you step back, it will become clear.

Mix it up a little!

Hobby only on special occasions
Try doing dinner dates or day dates
Hobby in a different city
Try doubles
See a pornstar

How about trying something new?  Ever been tied up? Have you done your number 1 fantasy?

Maybe it is time for you to find that one special person in your life??  While this kind of play is oh so fun, there is more to life for many....

Wow. You are right.  I have done all of those things and yes some lacked the heightened eroticism I am looking for.  I am not just a butt man.  It has been years since I wrote reviews and no other way to put it than I LIKE IT ALL.  I love the intimacy of being together and when a provider gives more time than expected I am more willing to keep seeing them.  I like the mutual companionship so maybe more overnights and weekends would be best where time is less of a factor and it is more about two people.

I guess you could say my love language is quality time.

I think some of the comments about the money going away they go away are valid based on my experience.  I wish that was not so because I think I am genuine in my concern for them as humans and if one came to me in need, I would not hesitate to help them.  

Love the discussion so far...interested to see where it goes.

It might be what you need, bud.  Take a break?  Breaks are for suckaz!  Just a mutual 69 will wake you up from this haze in your life.

Tranny: What's that on your chin?
You: What?
Tranny: Deez Nuts!!!

-poet

You get caught is when you will stop!

Unfortunetly its mostly just an act as much as you believe it isnt. Ive gotten close to several but in the end they move on without even a telling you goodbye or keep in touch. They have a life outside which we will never know about. You are a client nothing more and nothing less. I saw a girl for 3 years consistently and got close and had a appointment with her and she didnt show up one day for the first time and I got worried about her .She called a 2 weeks later and said she was alright and never heard from her again. You might think your special because you gave her a gift or helped her out but in the end you feel empty and unappreciated.Im trying not to get close to any of them just have a good time for now on. But there are  very few good ones out there that are a 10 . If Im going to pay for it I want a 10 and a girl that has a great body and personality to match. Those girls that get 10 scores and think your special ,subtract 3 or 4 off your score because you and I know your a 6 or 7 at best or else you wouldnt be in the buisness. Bottom line It is what it is ! End of story .

most of the time to save some cash. but then I'll go back and can't stop - once a week for a few weeks straight. but same thing has happened to me for similar reasons at times over the years. just lost its fulfillment.

Usually it was a time factor for me. One hour was just not enough. Even if I was only in need of one round, I've been getting a lot more 2 hour sessions just to relax and enjoy the moment with a beautiful woman. and lately, b/c of this change of approach, I walk away from some sessions feeling like I'm in my 20s again. Last one I went to was about 3 weeks ago and this time the break was because it was just that damn good of a time. Don't want anything to ruin it. Seen her a couple times about 3 - 4 years ago and recently went back to find out that she only got hotter w/ age. She may very well be who I go back to again when I do return very soon, but she has definitely reinvigorated me w/ the hobby.

Good luck!