After a newbie run and meeting several great ladies I seem to have hit a dry spot, no pun intended....ive hit a dry spot where I cant even get an email repsonse. I had a date for tonight and I get an email this morning saying sorry I cant meet you after all.....ive always treated these women with respect and dignity and always treated a date like a real date. Dont know why im posting this just am frustrated.

I have very good credentials including whitelists to the extent that some providers don’t even need to screen me. But one time, I got silence treatment. After some pleading and nagging, I received a text, “Sorry, ref gave not good rept.” The one and only one time I might have offended a provi was a msg to her saying, “If I come back a 2nd time, will you pls use mouth wash.” OK, she might be PO by that, and never saw me again; but would that be enough reason to badmouth me? I thought my hint of halitosis would be helpful to her. Can you ladies show us what things may bug you?

Chemistry required.

There's always another woman around. Look at TER some more; even Babe Ruth struck out a few times.

Dont act like your dealing with a regular girl you met at the mall . These are escorts and Dont you ever forget that!!! Some wont do 1 hour for 500 bucks but want minimum 2 hours . 500 for an hour to lye on your back .Question How many hours does it take you to make 500 bucks ? Most have totally lost there sense of how much money they make in a brief time . Yes there are a few with good intentions but they are far and few between . MOVE ON !

Unless you are being an asshole on your "dates," then it's not your fault.  It's par for the course.  Ladies cancel at the last second.  They don't check their email.  They turn off their phones.  And guys do the same thing occasionally.  This business is full of world-class flakes and you just have to build that factor into your hobby schedule.

Come on, man, you're lucky she didn't nuke you. Women cannot handle constructive criticism. You know that!  

Make that "everyone."

And another thing -- it also makes you very appreciative of the people who are NOT flakes and actually make themselves available at the agreed upon date & time. Those people are golden. Rare, but absolutely golden.

  
The great thing about the K-doll  scene is once you pass the screening  with your first Booker, as long as you remain in good standing, you are in for life. The Bookers are reliable, apartments  are clean and safe,  , the K-dolls are clean , pre and after showers , well kept, beautiful and gfe,  service orientated , show appreciation to the client that  gains repeat business.
 
If you think they're high volume stick with those who can give you evidence other than their word they are low volume .    

I have on a few occasions had to concel &. On a few rare occasions I have had K-doll cancel. But the general experience is superior to whatever else is available.No flakes, drivers, B&S, pimps, Rip-offs , upselling , bad attitude , no ignoring of calls,  text or emails, no rudeness, lack of appreciation  or feeling they are doing you favor by taking your money, no overpriced underperforming non ad resembling passed their prime imposters.

In LA the K-dolls  dominate the market for good reason

Amen!  8-)

99% of the time you will leave with the intended results of the session.


Those that are the jerks and assholes tend to be the ones blind to their own actions towards the girls and end up blaming their own misgivings and failings towards them.

Sure you will have a girl with an off day but that rarely happens unlike certain other providers who have to beg and plead for 10's, misrepresent themselves or whatever.. But that is just my opinion right?

and the day just gets better with k girls around.....


beemer loves you all..

You said it.  

It's very difficult to find something to complain about in regards to seeing a k-girl.  You essentially know what you are going to get when you are seeing a girl for the first time whether she has been around for a while or is brand new.  Sure, some are better than others, but overall, it's a great, safe experience without greed.

You make a valid point. Most of the posts on the LA board have nothing but praise for them. In fact, I noticed that when there is praise, people tend to HIJACK the thread to either badmouth or demean them.

I have also noticed that with the lack of complaints in regards to their service, looks, and overall attitude, the main complainers are ones who have NEVER seen a kgirl or are UNINFORMED providers who think that by cutting and pasting articles, they are experts on the Korean providers.

But what to do? I guess fight fire with kgirl.

I hope I didn't hijack this thread because apparently I am responding to superawesomealias and the topic he posed in this OPEN ENDED thread.


Thankls for your time.

Beemer loves you all!  (Except you, you big meanie)..pooh pooh on you.

My only complaint about the K-Girl scene is that after being on hiatus from it for about 10 months, my ATF's had disappeared along with their bookers, so now I am back at square one.

It's frustrating because I agree with what many have stated here: the K-girls offer a safe, sexy, fun, reliable & drama-free experience--and I could almost always find someone who was available and always found an ATF. There were rarely any surprises (bad ones, that is) and it's one of the reasons they got me hooked.

My introduction to the scene was with Park Asian way-back-when and my last ATF would remember my birthday and bring me cake You could say that's just good salesmanship (and perhaps it was) but it was little touches like that that kept me coming back.

I don't know what transpired while I was away, but hopefully the tension will ease up and I can make my way back into the fold--of all the years I have been in the hobby, those were the absolute best.

So add escorting to the mix and you will probably be lucky to lock down 1 in 5.  In a personal sense it is a feeling of rejection, but to the ladies defense, most look at it as a business and the need they may or may not have for the client at that time.  So try not to take it personally and maybe find a few girls that are reliable and stick with them.  I consider myself one of the dependable ones, so it's out there.

i was raised with manners and if i say i'm going to do something i follow through. at least she didnt leave you totally hanging and had the consideration to let you know in advance she wasnt keeping her session. instead of being frustrated because you're investing more emotionally as a date accept if for what it is... a fun exchange of energy in the moment. you're under no illusion i hope and the girls arent either. relax. have fun! thats when the calls will be returned! (if you're interested in me now, please dont PM. i dont get them. reply to this post) - ella

I'm interested