Pathetic how some providers make you provide everything but your social security number, you pass all the screening with references and everything, then don't even respond to your query for setting a date. Absolutely zero class. You might look hot but obviously your etiquette is complete garbage. Good luck getting any business with that kind of f_cked up MO.

...are the ones who don't even bother responding to simple emails asking legitimate (non-sexual) questions pertaining to who they will or won't see. They don't deserve our business. They are obviously lacking in not only business etiquette, but also basic social skills. Eff 'em.

Definitely agree. If you are not going to respond to those types of legitimate questions, have the decency to make that clear in a graceful way - for instance, any sort of restrictions you might have, such as ethnic. Hopefully these air-headed, self important ladies will run themselves to the ground sooner rather than later. They don't deserve anyone's business and they don't deserve to be here ruining hobbyists' impression of this community. People have a right to change their mind for whatever reason, but for f_ck sake, have the courtesy to inform people who are awaiting a reply. Otherwise take your stupidity and f_ck off.

I appreciate a provider that gives some consideration to a private PM and whitelists. I prefer that to providing detailed personal information. Sadly, I pass on all that require too much info.

I thought the whole point of having whitelists from well known ladies was to enable those with a track record to avoid having to go through the whole 99 yards of screening every time you want to see a lady. Seems like some want to make it damn near impossible to see them. Like "oh it can't just be a whitelist, the provider must have more than 20 reviews..." or some such garbage. That's certainly their prerogative. And we hobbyists should oblige and take our hard earned money elsewhere. We're not hear to go through an effing Olympic obstacle course with high hurdles.

at least have the effing COURTESY to let him know you have changed your mind, with possibly some sort of context or explanation. Especially if they have jumped through your f_cking hurdles - phone number, full name, occupation/company etc - ...goddamn friggin bullshit if you ask me.

Whitelist was not only help us guys but it was designed to be a tool for the ladies to make screening easier.  
Last year, I heard way too many complaints from ladies not wanting to take whitelist or even bothering looking at them.  
I kinda figured out that many of them did not have VIP membership to read them and many of them were too new to even know other ladies in the community, making a whitelist useless to them.  There is nothing wrong with the lady being safe and setting her own standards, but they have to be realistic.  Several ladies did not want to see me last year only because my whitelists were over 6 months old, yet several of them would still vouch  for me if they had emailed them.  Being a regular worked against me.  

...that there's more to the job than being good looking and good in bed.

The flakes and disorganized ones never last very long no matter how great they look.  There may be a limited number of guys with low self-esteem willing to put up with that shit for a while but eventually they get tired of it too.

It was called TER.  It's pretty much just an ad site and a place where people insult each other now.

know sometimes for me emails get jumbled, missed, read but nor replied... I always encourage people to email me a second or third time if they haven't gotten a response. It's not about professionalism always, sometimes there aren't enough hours int he day to get things done and, well, we're human! Errors happen and things get missed.

I have been fortunate enough to learn how to communicate effectively from a former provider. She taught me how to answer every email in a very polite and timely manner, as well as how to access the whitelist on TER, which is a valuable tool IF it is used properly and honestly by providers.  
Being polite, reliable and prompt with communication works on both sides here! Also, if the vibe isn't right, move on!!!!

...we'd never need another thread like this one

Just move onto the next one which always has great communication.

I was planning to just let this go, but after reading some of the comments in this thread, it sounds like people do want flakes to be reported.