I remember seeing providers and they’d always have candles or bead lights strung around the room or low wattage colored bulbs. They create a romantic atmosphere.  That seems to be gone.  I show up for a session and a provider thinks that the money is simply payment for access to her pussy.  Shouldn’t she make some effort to create nice lighting or have music playing.  I don’t want to engage in basic biology and just bust a nut under the harsh light spilling from a bright bathroom fixture. Am I the only one who’s seen the bar be lowered in this way.

But be careful. I just got reprimanded on the GD board for daring to suggest that a lady have her place clean and tidy and some other basics for a visit.  I've been in ladies' apartments that looked like multiple teenagers with ADD lived there. I'd love to have music and candles but I'd settle for basic cleanliness.

for a DJ to meet you there.  He'll play whatever kind of music to want.  

Dude that's fucked up you can't even suggest basic cleanliness. Not sure why that would be an issue. At minimum you'd think any business, regardless of the product, would want to make customers feel at home, as opposed to scaring them away with a filthy shop.

Fortunately some mongers are good enough to mention in their review if the provider's home is unclean or stinky and we're able to provide a description about the atmosphere.