so theres this provider that lives and works in my apartment.  i live next to her.  i know she has a BF cause whenever she goes on vacation i always see them together leaving her apartment holdings or bringing home take out.  i see the BF take out the trash etc..  so no doubt hes her BF.  (and yes im a sick pervert and watch her home.  sorry)  im married so not interested in her so just think they are amazing to keep that type of relationship.

anyway, she went back to work recently and i always see her curtains drawn and dim lights showing through her bedroom window.  so know shes working.  well one recent night her place went dark pretty early in the evening.  i figured she must be too tired that day and quit early.  i saw her place with lights with curtain closed an hour earlier and saw a customer go in so knew she was working.   anyway, i went to a coffee shop with my wife. and while there loll and behold i see her coming in with a coat on and obvious makeup and hair made up from working with this i have to say decent looking white blond guy.  tall guy too.  and obvious he was all giddy and wrapping his arms around her in affection and shes holding his hand and smiling at him and she goes to the coffee counter and buys themselves a drink.  

now, i dont know what the rules on relationship with provider girlfriends and their boyfriends is.  and i understand that she needs to make the regular happy and feel like shes into him but isn't what shes doing crossing the line?  breaking some rule of going beyond keeping that regular just as a client and actually showing him some emotional connection?  i've seen some of my ATFs who have boyfriends and they just talk to them on the phone and act like they are into them and thats it.  never meet them outside of work.  just to show some respect to their real BF.  i feel like what this provider girl is doing is totally disrespecting to her real BF and essentially cheating on him.  its probably hard enough for the guy to stand thinking about his girlfriend fucking, tongue kissing, cuddling, and having guys cum in her mouth.  but for her to go out and hang with this regular just seems wrong.

i feel like i should just tell the BF what his provider girfriend is doing.

what do you guys/gals think.  should i tell the BF?

You should mind your own business and stop watching and worrying about what your "neighbor" is doing.

To keep it simple - who cares

this is rather hypocritical and down right arrogant on so many levels but ill stick to 2....

1. The more you give attention to someone the more you will become consumed by their life and what they are doing with it... my advice to you. why don't you find something else to do besides be a peeping stalker Tom to your ATF....

2. How dare you to even think to ruin someone else's happiness or to even cross that barrier on your mind? what the hell is wrong with you? That's like me going up to your wife and saying "hey I just thought you should know that your husband is cheating on you with multiple people and I'm just telling you this because I feel sorry for you....." let's see how well that blows over with you.

And did it ever occur to you that maybe her boyfriend knows that she provides and maybe they just act like its not part of who she really is to enjoy each others time together...

I swear some of you hobbyist really perplex, disappoint, and enraged me with the complete lack of respect or humility you guys have for us providers in assuming we are not regular everyday people or human beings.....

this is so elementary I don't know why I'm wasting my breath...

you should leave her alone
you should leave her boyfriend alone
you should find a new hobby or ATF with thoughts like that...

just my .02
MM xo

and sickness and your kind of evil sickness has a way of taking minds where they should not usually go . You post reminds me of another by a similar minded creep a few months ago and since both posts hid behind the skirt of an alias.  I would not be surprised if you are responsible for both posts. I have a good idea of whom you might be .

But get a life!

a stupid fuck with way too much time on your hands.  As others have said 'Get a life'.  If your post was a ruse, excuse me...but Fuck You twice.  I can't believe what I just read and I'm a pretty tolerant guy.  The fucking nerve...

DD

agreed!

I go to a Provider for the emotional connection. Real or not. The sex has very little to do with it. I pay for companionship and sometimes sex is not part of the date at all. Men need intimacy too and if she can provide this to her clients then I say she is doing her job. Go have coffee or see a movie together. Dinner dates are a great way to warm up the mood for what may be fantastic sex later.

IMHO.

tell your wife everything you posted here. Log onto TER and show her this lady's reviews and website. Your wife needs to know all the facts about how you know all of this and how you came about your conclusion.  

Print out this providers TER reviews and then ask your wife if she would accompany you when you confront the boyfriend. Women are great at consoling grief stricken men.  And she can provide comfort to him as he finds out what his girlfriend does for a living.  

If you and your wife do not want to confront the boyfriend, maybe you two can invite this provider over for coffee and crumb cakes and explain to her why she should not be doing this to her boyfriend.  Having your wife there will show the provider that you are sincere and you do not have any ill intentions.   Private settings like that are always best for situations like this.  

I hope you and your wife can bring a happy ending to this situation!

You are nothing but a troll.  Go home and feed your fantasies with your wife.  You have no respect for privacy.

I think like your wife (who we have been seeing for a while now) should keep it to yourself and like too many people in this country worry about yourself and not what other people are doing.

Good Solution!

You are bored making this shit up and need a quick attention fix.  
Okay going back under my bridge now!

What business do you have intruding on their relationship.  If you're so curious, why don't you make an appointment with her ( at a different location than her apartment).  I don't understand why you feel you need to "inform" her boy friend of anything.  Who are you to do that?

What if he already knows and is OK with it, as he's secure in his relationship with her?

By your post you seem to be a guy too timid to live life to the fullest, and instead go through life as a voyeur.  But one thing is that a voyeur may be harmless, whereas you seem to be see yourself as a "moral policeman" feel you need to interfere with someone else's life.  In so doing, you can wreck someone else's life.

Why not find a lady on this board and get your mind off such things and put some fun into your life.  If you do, you won't obsess over other people's lives and enjoy your own.

WTF!!!!!

Her name is Nunya. Nunyabusiness!