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Maybe google Boston 2023 and see why they are screening harder
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Always strange to me that men complain about screening...

I exclusively only see independent providers, but wanted to try a kgirl. It seems that just about every agency wants a picture of your license, a selfie, and a PAYSTUB? Surprised they didn't ask for my SSN. Way too much personal information required. I understand safety, but this is out of control. Anyone know of a kgirl agency that isn't asking for all this?

Unfortunately your timing is bad. Back when I got re-vetted again after taking quite a few years off I was able to use TER and HX as my references. I doubt the bookers are accepting that anymore now.

once again, maybe its because there was a huge national take down in Fall 2023.

Bringing up Boston 2023 I see several  stories about escort agencies whose client lists may be made public. Is there another story you're referencing?

I understand the need for screening, but it's not strange that clients are concerned about providers and agencies potentially compromising their own info.

Maybe the influx of undocumented people and risk of that has something to do with it, or because lots of independents ask for the same thing. I do if someone doesn’t have adequate references. Brothels check ID in person for age and card payments.

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Providers or anyone else you deal with can ask for whatever they want. If you feel it's safe , give it to them, if not, don't.  There has been few providers that I reached out and they asked for ID, and linked in account or business name and number. And I thanked them and moved on. Ask yourself this question: does she provide you with her real ID? if not, why not? it's because she is (and should be) concerned about whole lot of things and so should you. The only screening I give is my TER user name. If that is not good enough then we move on, simple.

Exactly. That's the way to handle it. In 16 years of active hobbying, I have never given up my personally identifying information, and I never will. I just move on to the next one. Anyone who won't accept good, solid references isn't worth my time. References are far better than an ID or work info that could easily be faked.

 
I've been approved by new Korean agencies (new to me) in the past six months without giving up my PII, so it's not a strict rule across the board. You just need to have good Korean references, and a professional attitude when dealing with the booker. Sometimes you have to tell them, "No. Here are my references." And then wait for them to come around. If they are smart, and your references check out, they will come around.

I do the same thing with the Korgs.

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