i was wondering what you guys think is the reason why most of the kgirls who have boyfriends/husbands all seem to be with nonkoreans.  i have my reasons but curious what others think.

any comments is welcome.

thanks.

And do you have evidence to support your statement ?

But if that is the case it could be a boyfriend from a different ethnicity and culture are more accommodating , less judgmental and more likely to be more appreciative and treat the girls better than a man from same culture , heritage ,nationality and ethnicity. I do know a couple of girls who had problems with Korean men who had an attitude entitlement. But two flowers do not make a Spring.

Most  of the girls , especially the 90 day wonders, are too focussed on generating as much income as possible and enough to help them start a new life ( or pay off debts) once they return home and have little time for a social life.    

what exactly are you basing your claim on?  i guess perhaps it depends on the crowd you hang with.  korean girls that i knew back in hs are with either korean guys or other asians such as chinese and japanese.  i sure as hell don't see a large infux of korean girls attaching themselves to non asians if that is what you are trying to claim.  perhaps i am wrong since it all comes down to social crowd and upbringing by the parents.

As a western guy with a S/Other who is Asian,  I think I am qualified to make a comment here.  A lot of it is cultural attitudes to women.    
I dont want to stereotype here but it is a fact that a good proportion of Asian men ( Chinese and Korean in particular ) dont seem to have caught on to the fact that modern asian women want to be treated as an equal - not a slave or second class person.
So the Korean ladies that come here may find a Western guy with a more "modern" attitude a real breath of fresh air.
Personally, I think that LA guys are just more handsome, charming and a lot more sexy than their Korean brothers & so the Korean ladies just cant help themselves    LOL

Bravo, laxguy! You hit the nail on the head. The fact is, white guys have their own brand of male chauvinism, but we are a lot better at hiding it, and we are practically feminists if you compare us to many Korean guys. I am speaking generally, of course, and I'm sure there are lots of nice Korean guys out there who don't treat their girlfriends like crap. But I've heard a lot of horror stories. After a while, a pattern develops and it becomes pretty clear why you see so many whiteguy/Asiangirl couples, especially in LA. It's practically an epidemic. (And a good one, IMO!)  

that she only dated non-Asians based upon here experience growing up with her four Asian brothers and their shananigans.  LOL

I did say white guys have their own brand of male chauvinism, didn't I? Although I really don't understand the ones who fly to Asia to find a subservient wife. Not because I am knocking their choice, but just because it's not necessary. If you live in a city like Los Angeles (or SF, NY, DC, etc) there are plenty of beautiful Asian women right here who were raised elsewhere and have those same values. No need to fly anywhere. Heck, I can walk into any coffee shop in Ktown and find a dozen of them lined up and ready to go!

I would suspect that some kgirl providers who have found a bf during their stay here are either former or current customers.  I have known the private lives of some kgirls because I am a long term customer (I don't like jumping around) and couple of providers have asked if they would like for me to be their bf.  Of course, one motive for asking me is that they are hoping I can be their future husband and a route to US citzenship.

Perhaps it is because the only kgirls you know are in America, are providers, and the vast majority of the men they meet are non-k and are customers.
If you look at non-provider kgirls, the results may be much different.

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How do you explain the whites males who travel to SE Asia or get mail order SE Asian wives because they feel that Asian women are subservient.

Misogynists and male chauvinist pigs are common in all races  and ethnicities. Unfortunately according  according to some providers too many are hobbyists ,of all races,  who act on it with them.

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Bravo, laxguy! You hit the nail on the head. The fact is, white guys have their own brand of male chauvinism, but we are a lot better at hiding it, and we are practically feminists if you compare us to many Korean guys. I am speaking generally, of course, and I'm sure there are lots of nice Korean guys out there who don't treat their girlfriends like crap. But I've heard a lot of horror stories. After a while, a pattern develops and it becomes pretty clear why you see so many whiteguy/Asiangirl couples, especially in LA. It's practically an epidemic. (And a good one, IMO!)  

I dunno about that. It seems to be a pretty widespread perception, and not just in the hobby world. This is an old video, but still quite funny and insightful...

Well, of course. That's going to be a factor in some relationships. But it still doesn't explain the huge number of Asian/white couples. There's clearly something else going on.

How is being subservient a "value". It is obvious your perception of asian women are skewed. Noone wants to be subvervient to anyone. Do you think asian women like being thought of as just mail order brides and such?

I'm sure by you hanging around ktown and having all these women line up to be with you fits the master slave role you seem to envision asian women to be in. Amazing.

Beemer

Oh, here we go again. Another internet tough guy looking for a fight. So common here! I am not taking the bait, Beem. I never said I want a subservient Asian wife. Hell, I don't want a wife at all. I want to fuck a lot of hot kgirls and I don't give a rat's ass if they are subservient or not. I don't hang around long enough to figure that out.

I AM saying there are a lot of Asian ladies who fit that bill, if that's what floats your boat. And you don't have to fly to Seoul, Busan or Daegu to find it.

Not trying to pick a fight..so let us agree to disagree on this subject!

Sounds good to me!

I love you!

Funny, Pia said the SAME thing to me last night!