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Long dates versus frequent visits
mikelerner71 1384 reads
posted
1 / 14

Hello fellow hobbyists and providers.  I wanted to get people's opinion on whether you prefer a long visit with a provider or frequent visits.  I really have a good time with a current provider, and my current budget will allow me to see her 4 times (one hour a month), or one long date session.  For providers, if you get along with the client, what do you prefer since you will still be roughly getting the same donation...

THEHURRICANE 16 Reviews 694 reads
posted
2 / 14

It would depend on the type of connection you have with the provider. Great sex, awesome. But a longer date session, by which I assume you mean out socially, is much different. Do you have the connection to hold a conversation for two hours before getting back to her place, your place, or a hotel? Are you referring to an overnight session

Kyliehunter See my TER Reviews 718 reads
posted
3 / 14

For me, it honestly just depends. I do prefer a 2 hour date the first time I am meeting someone new, as I like to develop a comfortable, unrushed connection and find this difficult to authentically do in one hour. As for someone I already have a connection with, it is nice to mix things up once in awhile with a longer date, have a few drinks, dinner, and switch things up a bit. This adds a bit of change(and we all know change is ALWAYS a good thing, even if you already have something great with someone) Excitement is always enhanced by anything that is different than the time before.... This can be meeting location, length of the date, new playtime activities, etc....  
I say mix it up whenever possible, especially with anyone seen on a regular basis. Why not several dates one month, a long date the next, a few multiple hour dates the next, etc....  
Xo

jackmacguyver 647 reads
posted
4 / 14

In an hour, one can barely get showered and her in the MOOD in that amount of time.  In just 60 minutes ya' just start to connect and . . . "time's UP". Plus if the two of you both know that you're going to make an evening/afternoon/night of it, she doesn't have to field requests because she knows "she has a date!"  

Jonathan  
Posted By: Kyliehunter
For me, it honestly just depends. I do prefer a 2 hour date the first time I am meeting someone new,.......r dates the next, etc....  
 Xo

715099 19 Reviews 542 reads
posted
5 / 14

For me I prefer long dates, I like to establish a connection with the other person..so an hour doesn't due justice....I am seeing someone right now who I've reconnected with after she disappeared...our dates are always at least 2 hours if not longer....we have great conversation, amazing BCD time and we truly have a connection...I see her twice a month...

Dave76015 38 Reviews 611 reads
posted
6 / 14

Two hours barely covers it for me, since I'm a firm believer in giving pleasure in all kinds of ways has it's own rewards.

mikelerner71 470 reads
posted
7 / 14

Thanks for input. Are you referring to Natalia by any chance. Was checking out her reviews.

mikelerner71 484 reads
posted
8 / 14

Thanks for input. My only hesitant thing is I know I will climax 4 times on 4 separate short dates versus maybe twice on a long 4 hour date

mikelerner71 469 reads
posted
9 / 14

Thanks for your input beautiful

715099 19 Reviews 637 reads
posted
10 / 14

No not Natalia..although I do see her from time to time....its someone else who is currently utr but has reviews posted...

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 470 reads
posted
11 / 14

1 hour is always very rushed.

joeyboots2014 482 reads
posted
12 / 14

I recently had a date with a provider that included attending a local baseball game and it was the best experience I have had with a provider. She was a doll, very friendly, ad fulfilled a fantasy I have had for a long time. I really enjoyed getting to know her during the game and she really made it feel like a full girlfriend experience. It only made the one on one time that much more intimate and sensual. I think I'm now spoiled and won't do the regular wham bam thank you ma'am, one hour sessions anymore. So, I guess I would go for quality over quantity.

MSON123 44 Reviews 469 reads
posted
13 / 14

Every once in a while I like a long date, It gives you time just to enjoy each others company. It is often the small things out of the bedroom that provide memorable moments. And when you have enough of them you will smile feel happy and life will be good.  

the short ones in between are nice to take the edge off. But the long ones give the most satisfaction and lasting memories!

ashleyshye See my TER Reviews 410 reads
posted
14 / 14
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