What should a hobbyist do if a provider threatens to blacklist him because he didn't give her a high score?

...my advice is not something you will hear me say very often, and as a provider its
something i rarely encourage nor do i delight or revel in hearing, but I'm gonna say it now- put her shit on blast, because thats fucked up. Period.

The purpose of this board is to keep the hobby honest, and if a provider really is threatening hobbyists, it needs to be addressed, because its not ok. If there is more to it than that, then i wash my hands of it. But as a member of this board, failure to speak up is doing many a disservice.

It seems like a lot of ladies have really become consumed with top 100 numbers. I don't even know if i'm on the list whatsoever. In oc i was........one week i was 18, a few weeks later i was 8, and i still brushed my teeth, put on my shoes, and did everything the same at 8 as i did at 18...... Why?

Because its a number, who gives a fuck? thats why.

You're competing with hundreds of the most beautiful desirable women in Cali, if you constantly compare yourself to others and define your success by some random number you'll go nuts. Its better to compare your last performance to your next, thats what makes you a great provider and will keep you young in this biz, i believe. Fuck a number

Well said, madam!

Albeit there are similarities tho.....in both cases it begins with a smile and promises of great things and next thing you know ur left with a wallet thats much lighter and the knowledge that somehow, u just got fucked.


I like my approach better tho. Not as crooked but definately kinky!

Sorry, but I have heard more than ever that providers are doing this when they receive a low score on a review this is very poor & not classy behavior ladies, which I use that term loosely.

Thank you for your support.  I can't speak for all men, but I don't really care about these ratings.  I read a provider's reviews carefully, and learn what other men had to say about her.  I just find it disconcerting that instead of thanking me and being appreciative of the fact that I took the time out of my day to compose an extremely nice and well worded review, she'd rather complain about some stupid number.

In fact her words (and I paraphrase) were to the effect that this is a small community, and I will meet other providers, and tell them about you etc. etc.  You don't want an enemy in this community, but rather a friend, so if I were you, I would reconsider!!!  I don't take well to threats, and so I told her to do whatever she felt like.  

Sigh . . .

It's a number, who cares?!!  Get over it!  We (men) read reviews and drool over the pictures, sometimes at the same time.

I'd rather get fucked by you than a politician.

Blacklist them..Trying to inflate your own score by threatening just means the provider is unscrupulous. If the provider has that much worry about a low score then maybe they need to look at themselves and fix their service model.

I for one have never been asked by a provider to inflate their scores. The last time I asked a k-girl if she wanted a review she flatly said no, I didnt have to and she didnt care.

sounds like  she might of  missed her  meds that day ! I  too recently recieved a review  that confused me it was a great review I loved it! but the scores were my lowest in  my history as a provider  but I sent him a nice thank you  for taking the time to write it and asked him if there was something I could of of done  to make it better than  just NICE ....no reponse  I remebered who he was and I we had a great time  so I wrote a post in PHX  titled confused by review? and got some  wonderful reponses  maybe they will help others ...your so right zeinteest  you deserved a thank you  not a threat. I wonder how she would feel if  you outed her here ?

With his experience. Unless you were in the room with them, mind you own inflation.

Hi Az!  I would never write anything about her on a discussion board or tell anyone about her even in a private message.  This is after all her business, and I don't want her to get hurt.  I think she's just a little frustrated, that's all.  Her response to me was very passive-aggressive.  She thanks me in the e-mail, and then proceeds to threaten me, and then wishes me the best of luck.  

I've been happy with how well the providers have performed, but I've not been that happy in the attractiveness area.  And that's a very subjective aspect.  I think you could quantify performance, but it'd be hard to do that for looks.  

next time don't give her your ter handle...

I don't get it.  How is she going to "blacklist" you?  Sounds like a bunch of BS from her end.  What power does she have over you?  I think she's just yanking your chain

I decided to read your 3 reviews and you have given these girls an 8 in performance "went the extra mile".

BUT you write "amazing bbbj" "amazing ass" and all the girls do exactly what you want, they try to get you up for round 2 and you mention that you weren't up for intercourse with one of them even though "she knows her job very well" is what you wrote.

You mention that you came sooner than you had planned to in 2 of the reviews, that isn't HER fault and she doesn't deserve to be rated based on your performance, it sounds to me like that is exactly how you are rating in the numbers department.

You also write that both girls were happy with deep throat, you came in one girl's mouth TWICE and yet you say she "went the extra mile".

Now, guys, does this sound right?  I ask you all to read the 3 reviews and compare what is written versus the numbers in the performance department.

It doesn't work like that. That's your performance, not HERS!!  No harm meant here but I believe I am correct and that you aren't using the system correctly at all. Please someone else chime in with thoughts. Maybe I am wrong but I don't think so.

BB

Is there a rule book that I should be considering here?  Where is it?  Where does it say DT + BBBJ + MSOG = 10 on performance/looks?  I didn't rate any of the women based on my performance, alright?  Maybe we should have a rule book on TER.  Who would construct such a book?  The providers, the hobbyists?  Would we all follow it?  
I'm still relatively new.  And honestly, I don't care about these numbers.  I care more about what I write about.  Numbers can't capture the experience.

Of course she's yanking my chain.  I wanted to gauge the interest of the TER community over this issue.  It is BB who is ticking me off now.

why post the question if in your mind you already know the answer... just to test/guage the board??? that is not good, it works the other way... you contribute in a productive way, and you gain respect... quizzing the board and admitting it... hmmm...

About BB - she says some intelligent things ... I read your reviews and I don't see anything out of ordinary newbie things - you are okay there in my book. BB, I only see your literal take on the terms... it's just a number, each provider had lower scores from others.

On here it is okay to be human and make mistakes - we've all been there done that - try not to take the self serving high road that leaves you feeling so good about yourself, as it probably lands the same with many others as it did with me... inspiring posts like this and I am going over-board to be nice... given the amount of beers I've had... I pray I see this in the am and not wish for a 'delete now as I am sober' button

Word up!!

I gotta say ya'll , after having met the fella just a few nights ago, i can say with confidence that homeboys intentions were not as sinister as you folks are making it out to be. For reals......

After sittin down smokin a nice cohiba on a fine summer night with the fellow, i got to know him a little.

1. he really is brand new to the hobby, and the lifetyle intrigues him

2 he's overeducated  and therefor inquisitive and thinks about several angles of a single issue (my mom is the same way, im familiar with this type of thought process)

3 he doesn't know enough folks on this board and he's not been around long enough to have some sort of datardly ulterior motive in this. Thats typically the type of bullshit you get from dudes that have been around a minute and have become immune to the wonders of T&A in all its abundance and glory here......there but for the grace of God i tell ya.....

My final verdict? Chillax, let the new guy stick a toe in before he dives into this little pond of ours here. Its what most normal folks do, and we are all different. At one time, we too were normal folks, remember? Ah the good ol days......

Cohibas baby! Smoke em if ya got em!

Aww, thanks Mae!  I had a great time with you as well.