Posted By: MiaHug
To full-time providers, what do you say when someone asks you what's your occupation? Does anyone know?
And guys, what's your excuse to the lovers/wives/coworkers when you go see a girl? Do your friends know you're a hobbyist?
Just curious...
Dear Curious,
I DON'T make excuses. Most of my friends know that I am dating at $$$$ roses per hour. No lvr, no wife, coworker?
Why? Because I have never had a woman give me her phone number, email address etc. if I asked. They look at you like, you're the guy who kills the dogs at the pound, or something. I had one bartender who left the bar the third time I showed up. She stormed into the back when she saw me. I never even asked her for anything. I engaged in casual conversation while she was working. Maybe 8 exchanges in a period of about 2 hours over two visits. What the h _ _ _ did I do to her?
Church, Tinder, Match.com, whatever, in ALL of those I've had a total of ZERO dates. A couple of the online sites kept deleting my profile(you tell me why?) So on those I just gave up. One changed my gender to female for some reason(TWICE), so I closed that one.
Within "the hobby" I've been stood up countless times. I have a saying. "Every time I get dressed up, I get stood up!" Take a week ago Friday. I call her, first she says she's 'driving'. Then she sends me to a hotel where "ya know what, I know you're not here". Look, if you don't want to see me just say "I'm not interested." or "I don't want to see you." Don't BS me. Waste my time. And screw it up for a woman who is available. There was this wedding reception going on at the Westin, From what I could see, father of the bride probably could have bought himself a new CTS-V.
Did I get off topic again?
Jonathan
http://www.thewire.com/entertainment/2014/05/why-is-the-internet-so-obsessed-with-shrek/371189/