I've been asking my ATF K-gal to go out with me on one of her "magic days" (period) since she wouldn't be able to work anyway. Tomorrow is the day and she's agreed to go out with me to a theme park and dinner. Of course, everything will be on me but she'll get no donation. It's a real date. There won't be sex afterwards, that's for sure, but how do I seduce her to give me a head, not as her job, but because she wants to? Any tips and precautions on dating a  working K-gal?

1. Pay her.
2. Pay her.
3. Pay her.

I'm sure you'll get your BJ if you apply at least two of my three suggestions.

...doing it?  You sound like an asshole, trying to get something because you spent money on a date.

Try offering to drink her clamato cocktail first. Maybe then she'll reciprocate.

And for the pleasure of her company and not for what you get out of it. Go out and give her a good time without expecting anything but appreciation in return. I feel sorry for this K-doll to be stuck with you.

You have ulterior motives for taking her out. Would you be so calculating with a civy on a first date. You want  something for free which makes you  appear like a creepy predator.

I  hope her Booker reads this and, given your bad intentions,  advises the K-doll against going out with you.  

typical lowlife loser dumbass question.  well stupid questions are gonna get you stupid answers

Is it a real date you want, chances of a civy girl doing that on a first date is minimal and you know since you have had it that it is possible. Putting that kind of pressure on her is low, just enjoy the company however I think the motivation is to get something for free out of this going forward. All around not a cool approach.

Is your only motive to go on a date with her, to see if she will sexually pleasure you on her own free will?  If this is what you want to know I will gladly provide you with the answer, NO she will not.  Come on, she does that 12 hours a day 6 days a week.....give her a break for goodness sake.  I can assure you that she has agreed to go on a date with you because she wants to also go on a real date where this is not expected. Where she can have some sense of normalcy.   Pay the poor girl some respect as Harp has suggested and she may go out with you again....maybe....

But really, why do you want to go on a date with her?.......

I had a similar situation. A date with my ATF though not a Kgirl. It wasn't something where I had
to plan and hope. We went out and enjoyed each other's company just like when we spent
time as provider and client and the rest happened naturally. If she is going with you because
she likes you she will want to but remember maybe she wants something different than her six
day a week job. Maybe just someone who likes her and doesn't have to be taken care of sexually. Think about that. If you want a relationship a nice day out will go a long way.

you're just gloating, throwing a bone at the end for an excuse to post.
So, that's it? you must have asked many girls for the same thing, and now that you find one who is truly looking forward to a break from her weeks-long job and a little bit of truer human interaction, you only want to take advantage of her?
cold pathetic loser

This creates an uncomfortable relationship - you want to act as "friends" but you are also service provider/customer. Your expectations are to get a "freebie" (or maybe ongoing freebies) while she is looking just for some friendship and social interaction. This could lead to resentment on both sides - because each person's expectations will not be met.

K-dolls I recognized they wish to be treated with affection , tenderness and be romanced and treated gently . They do not want to be considered  "trophy dates" or " conquests" used to boast about to other friends.

Intimacy and normality is what they hope for but unfortunately they often end up with opportunists , like our OP, who have their own predatory behavior.

I really do not see the purpose of the post other than to boast ( using real handle )
About the conquest. The K-doll seems to have been win with false promises that take advantage of her loniness and lack of friends in a strange country. How pathetic .

maybe he could just whip out his dick at dinner!

clamato, clamoto, it all sounds gross to me!



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You are going against laws of nature and when you do there is a price to pay.

You morons have no idea what a normal date is all about. A guy asks a girl out. Sooner or later the guy will want to get laid. That's the law of nature. Didn't you learn that when you were a teen? You don't remember? I guess you've been in the hobbying business for too long a part of your brain vanishes each time you put down the envelope.

For the record, I have an S.O. with whom I have an open relationship. I also date other non-working girls. But of course providers are much better in bed and the best part is that there's no drama (so far). But that's another story.

And so how was the date, you ask? I wasn't trying to gloat, just really trying to get some tips on how to date a working girl (my first time), but I guess I asked at the wrong place. Anyway, since somebody accused me of just wanting to gloat, humor me.

My girl and I had a blast! Before and after we checked in a hotel. I could give you a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) account of what happened in our nine hours together, but I would just be too cruel to you all. But let me just say she's the one who first to make sexual advances, and in public! And she was really sweet, unlike some non-working girls who are so bitchy. I think my ATF k-girl is in love with me. We already planned our next date. Would I still be her client? I already contacted her booker for my next visit.

whereas in the real world out there sex is the trophy, but here it's the date.

In our sessions together, we learned that we liked each other. So it was natural for me to ask her out. But I guess my difference with you all is that I don't hide the fact that I like to have sex with somebody I go out with, after the date. My girl knew that beforehand and agreed to go out with me. She had a great time. If somebody had been taken advantage of, it might have been me because I spent more than the amount for her two working hours and we spent an hour or so doing her errands (getting her clothes from the repair shop, sending money to somewhere, etc.). But I don't mind.

...restaurant near her store.  Show up at the cleaners an hour before the date with a pile of laundry and have her do it while waiting for the reservation.

Then tell her to fluff & fold your cock while the clothes are being cleaned.

Look, if she were a civvie girl and you went out of date with her, you wouldn't be talking about it.  Admit it, you think it's a major conquest to take a working k-girl out on a civvie date.  I've certainly had that feeling going out on my first "date" many moons ago.  Of course it's a conquest, it's breaking that barrier of customer and provider.  It's bridging the gap.  Plenty of guys who are veterans in the game have gone out or "dated" many a girl that are providers.  You're not that unique.  

And if you think she's in love with you, you are even more naive than I care to imagine.  Let us all know how it goes when she hits you with a "Oh, can I borrow some money for rent?" line.  Please post that when it happens.  And if you're "dating" now, why book a visit through the agency?  You're undercutting her.  Let her keep the whole donation instead of her sharing it with the agency.  Just start giving her cash when you go out.  Hell, just give her a credit card!  Good luck!

If it's even true. That would be a true gloat.

Oh how unique you are and of course she made all the advances and why are you not getting it for free now every time big shot.

giving me a pat on the back, thanks bros. Very much appreciated. To those who asked me who the girl is, sorry I can't tell anyone.