...In fact, he gets requests to visit so often that he may even have dual Greek/American citizenship.

Seriously, I would never ask if it wasn't in her profile.  No matter what euphemism is used, you still are discussing sex for money and both hobbyists and providers shouldn't do this with someone they've never met.

Even if it is on a woman's profile, it shouldn't be offered sight unseen.  You don't know if the parts will fit comfortably and whether or not he will be too rough.  You probably should wait until at least the second visit.

From what I've seen, there is almost always an extra fee since there is preparation involved if it's going to be done right.  There was this one time when I stuck in my thumb and pulled out a plum...(only it wasn't my thumb that I stuck in, and it definitely wasn't a plum that I pulled out).

Even if it's "on the menu" I think its important to have a comfort level that you usually only get after having already seen someone before.  

Plus, you shouldn't be discussing this or any other specific request with a stranger over the phone or by email, so I really don't know how you go about setting it up on a first meeting without taking unnecessary chances.

I'm probably the exception, but as a general rule, I keep the first meeting pretty generic until we get to know each other a little bit.  Then we can take it up a notch from there.

I recently had an interesting conversation with a hobbyist.  He called looking for a trip to the Greek Islands.  Now this is not my forte. I have a little ass that is afraid of a big tourist.  If I know someone and know that they are a caring person that will make the trip nice for both of us, that is one thing.  What’s a girl to do about a guy she has never met?  I have heard and seen where some ladies will also charge extra for this kind of fun.  How about it ladies do you always offer this service (sight unseen)?  My gosh what about if the golly green giant walked into your home?  Guys how do you broach the subject?  I mean we are not supposed to talk about services offered right.  What about paying/charging extra? Things worked out great this this guy but I would love to hear about everyone’s experience.  

If a woman is comfortable offering this most euphoric of egress's I see no reason too attach more than $25.00 surcharge for the time and trouble of a pre-session, pre-packaged enema to make things more appetizing, edible and accident free.

 A provider who charges $50 or more for the pleasure of Greek is saying to ME;
"I don't REALLY like anal. It is just a convenient and accepted Up-Sell.".

It is refreshing to see in the hobby where communication seems to be more open about those sexual things that some topics are still difficult to bring up! I always find it helpful if something is mentioned first in a profile or review. I recently enjoyed some naughty play because of something said in a forum post.

Do you ever get the feeling that lady you are with is much naughtier that she seems? I suppose it is the hunt and the revealing of the naughtier side that is the most fun. But that usually requires more than one visit. It gives you something to look forward to and anticipate.

I also believe that I would never ask a lady to do something I would not do. So a trip to Greece should be thanked by Tantric worship of the sacred spot!

If it's on the menu, it's on the menu.  If it's not, it's not.  
Think of this as a fine dining experiences.  
I don't go into Mozza and ask for a souffle.
But if I go Nobu and everyone else can have the spicy tuna and I can't, I'm not coming back and I'm not recommending it to my friends.
Oh, you have to come in once and have the regular meal before you an order other things on the menu?  I don't think so.

I look at it two ways. 1. If a provider offers Greek on the menu, you are dining at Mastro's and not Ruth Chris, so I would think the meal cost a bit more on the menu. 2. If she offers it included in the pre fix menu price and it is equal to the same price whether you want that course of the meal, it is a bonus. Many woman leave the greek option open if the guy is just too big. However I would never ask if I have not seen the provider before.

whether it be GRK BBBJ or DATY ETC. Nothing is guaranteed and open to the provider's discretion. If you don't look clean she may require everything covered as is her right. I have seen providers that charge extra for GRK and I think it's fair but I've also seen ones that don't charge extra. A few who do offer it at no extra fee have declined with the caveat that I exceeded their maximum girth allowance. No offer of an addition fee or cajoling could convince them otherwise. LOL I might be the only guy trying to convince girls my dick is small.
I also had one friend that didn't do it (she only tried it once with old BF). She had forgotten to tell me she raised her rate which I wasn't prepared for. Once we going with her normal routine I informed her I could handle new rate if GRK was OK. She agreed and we got really crazy. LOL The next time I called she informed me that I would only be paying her original rate and GRK was on the menu for me only. Damn, wish she hadn't gotten married and retired.

if you are charging extra for Greek the topic will probably come up in the discussion over the phone or email, and there are euphemism you can use like island trip island cruise, or "you can bring your passport".  obviously, with each encounter YMMV, but if there are expectations it is important that they are met, otherwise it impacts the encounter and maybe the review. whether to charge extra or not, most greek speaking providers I met make it all inclusive, and I prefer that because the extra charge makes the encounter explicitly cash for sex than appreciation for time spent together.  (this world is full of euphemisms, but it keeps things civil and respectable). So I respectfully disagree about not talking with a provider you haven't met before, if you are gentle and sensitive about it. now from the provider's perspective, to reduce the risk of LE check the guy's references before discussing anything. also read his reviews to learn about his fetishes, since the reviews are about the hobbiest as much as the provider.

Madison, your profile suggests that you offer Greek, but that is incorrect I suggest you email the admin to fix it. if you are selective about your Greek friends you should address that on your rates or etiquette page.

I agree with all of the comments posted to date. Unless the lady puts it clearly in her review, I dont think it should be discussed up front - too dangerous for the reasons given.
Its the sort of thing that you can discuss after you get to know the provider and you get some rapport going.  A lot of guys are just too big for Greek with some of the tiny Asian girls we have here in LA.  
I personally like Greek for the tighter feeling and the fact its a bit taboo in civie life - but I also like the fact that the lady trusts me to allow me to do this very intimate act with her.  On with the rubber, lots of lube and take it slow at first - thats been successful for me so far.

Put about being selective on my etiquette page? Most guys that call me do not even know that I have a etiquette page on my site let alone read it.  Over 50% call and ask if they can come over in 30 minutes to 2 hours without providing screening any  info. even though I have this listed at least three times in my CV ad and in my TER posts. They say "yeah, I saw your photo, I guess I did not read the whole ad".  My profile is as stands.  Thanks for some of your suggestions.

I suppose if you put a discount on your etiquette page they would find and read that! LOL

Hi Madison.  In reading your reviews and some of your posts in the regional ad boards it appears that you do offer greek.  I would agree in with the person in one of the early posts where perhaps you should make it clear that greek is a possibility but perhaps need to be discussed or something along those lines.