I know I've gotten condescending and arrogant treatment just as I suspect many of us have.  Without knowing or necessarily needing to know the details of your exchange with this lady I think your best bet is to move on. It happens.  Lots and lots of nice ladies out there.

Sometimes we can get overwhelmed by the amount of rude calls we receive as well, so some days a lady might get caught up in the moment, even if the person's intentions were good

from a k-girl. Never ever. Just sayin'  

My Hobbying Mantra: "It's a buyer's market!"

As you and others have noted, when confronted with such nonsense, the girl goes directly to my own, personal little blacklist and look to see who else is available!  

Same analysis obtains with girls who don't post pictures, a behavioral pattern I see here and elsewhere that makes NO fucking sense to me!  We, in general, and men specifically, are a very visually-oriented species.  Has something to do with the forward-facing, binocular vision thing (saw that on the Discovery Channel once!). If a girl is too lazy or clueless to not put up SOME pictures (I get and am fine with not showing your face altho this too makes me less likely to reach out), I don't care WHAT her ads say, she's not hearing from me!

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Such a dominant force innLA. Being  courteous , respectful with desire to please is one of the virtues that separate K-dolls from the competition, who make it sound that they are doing you a favor by taking your $$$.

It happens in every other city, too.  

Every lady is different.  Maybe she is new to this.  Or maybe she isn't and is jaded.  Or maybe you just caught her right after she had to answer the same question to three other guys before.

I always phrase the question as..."I read through your ad and didn't know if you were offering incalls or outcalls.  Sorry if you get this question a lot, but I just wanted to raise the question."  Usually that does the trick.

book another girl in a different city for a night of fun.  I must have called 30+ providers in that city and they either hung up or had a terrible "phone voice".  This one woman actually had the nerve to get all technical and ask me a ton a of questions about what my date and I wanted as if she was filling out a freaking intake form at the ER.  
If there was one time I wished I could have seen some of my beautiful ladies in SoCal it would have been then.  The phone etiquette left me frustrated and in disbelief of how incredibly rude people in "MY" industry could be.
Most of the women I have had the pleasure of getting to know in the biz are sweethearts, maybe they thought I was someone's wife snooping LOL.

Either way, for future notice is there a proper way for a girl to call another provider for a session and get a more positive response?

Hope I was not too off topic, the subject just got me aroused!

XOXO
Eyva Ferrari

In any other profession one would be FIRED for being rude to clients!!  I swear I get sooooo irritated
when I hear of ladies being such prima donnas!!  We are in a SERVICE profession!!  Our JOB is to make you guys feel like the Gods that you DESERVE to! When you gentlemen are polite , clean and willing to pay the donation you should NEVER have to put up with rude behavior!! I swear some of these ladies take too seriously their own 'hype" and start thinking they are super models or something.  Let me be clear.. Don't you guys take any shit, the ladies that are doing this will get the hint when they are BROKE because nobody will put up with their crap! It  makes those of us who take pride in what we do and are so grateful for the financial support you so generously offer  look bad!  You guys don't OWE us ANYTHING we OWE YOU the quality experience and service you are f-ing  PAYING for! OK, now I'm gonna go and lift something heavy to get rid of some of this frustration LOl!