Is that really what has come of the girls using ads on TER?

You boys ought to be ashamed of yourselves!
And so should the girls...

We can do better ladies...Is that all ya got? Try a real ad or 2! Try screening or a rate hike? Invest a hundred dollars and a few minutes of figuring out who is on the other side of the door..

BB

I like it, I see nothing wrong with it, and I really don't need some stranger telling me I should be ashamed of myself.

Do business the way you want to do business, I'll conduct mine the way I like.

on CityVibe ended our conversation with..."Ya know ya wanna fuck me..."

Not after that I didn't...well, maybe...

DD

This kind of thing cracks me up!  Here's a news flash: This site is devoted to dessiminating information about people who have sex for living!  That makes it possible that some people are going talk about sex and quite openly.  My favorite thing about Nikita is that she is the most straightforward, honest person I've ever met, in or out of the adult entertainment industry.  She makes no bones about who she is, what she does or the fact that she thoroughly enjoys doing it!  

Couple of other things to note:  This is a grudge that's been held for awhile since the "ass in the air" post was months ago!  It's also interesting that the late and revered Fast Eddie put up an immediate response to that post saying "That may be the best "subject" line ever posted on TER!"  So it's possible there's a segment of the community that's fine with the graphic posts.

They would also appear to work.  Look at the number of reads on the pornstar board and compare Nikita's most recent post with others posted by other girls in the same time frame.  Her numbers are significantly higher.  Isn't that what these posts are about, reaching out to the prospective client?  

Finally, as someone else noted, different strokes for different folks!  The difference is that Nikita doesn't give a rat's ass about what someone else does or how they do it!

I don't see why things have to be slow, or what the problem is in what we post. I am just a unique ASP that likes to have a good time.. I was not trying to offend anyone. I am a very classy, safe, highly reviewed ASP. I totally understand where you are coming from Brennan. But, it does not mean that I don't screen or take time to do my homework. No one gets to see me unless they are fully screened and understand how to follow directions. I invest a lot of time and money into everything I do. It's only advertising and all in fun in that aspect. I didn't know this was such an issue for everyone. I apologize for the inconvenience this has caused...

Sincerly

Amsterdam

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You Rock!

Thank you sweetheart!! Girls Just wanna have fun!!

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lady on the street but a freak in bed

what every guys wants and she seems to be that.very classy response.

No grudges at all! I don't remember what happened on TER 24 hours ago much less weeks ago. Both phrases are right below my post dummy!
Didn't even look at who was posting I just keep seeing it every time I check in here...

It just appears that if something is not complete filth, it's no longer appropriate TER talk..
That includes the reviews, which was just discussed.
99 percent of the men I know are not interested in the dirty details and it seems that we should be allowed to avoid it if we'd like and still take part but nooo...
I personally want to avoid the kind of client that spends his time on CL & BP. The girls getting killed and robbed and raped are always on those pages & it's disturbing to me that those people are being entertained here, as well.
I am aware that it takes all types, that doesn't mean I have to like all types or want to even be in half-obscure contact with them.

I seen Amsterdam, and she a very cool, but careful chick.
Her post are representative of her style. She enjoys the high hard one, and enjoys it down and dirty. Some girls go out of there way advertise how elegantly sophisticated they are, and how you can easily take the to state dinners, and that's their shtick.
So, don't go harping on the Amsterdam.
Keep posting girl.

So, if we spend time on another board then we should be avoided?  

A lot of people in this hobby started out on CL and they are no way like the monsters you talk about. Yes, those incidents seem to happen more frequently there but you can't just lump everyone up into one group.

The biggest issue your post brings up is, why are guys going to the other boards to play and not seeing ladies from this board?  Is it rate? Is it availability or being able to book last minute?  Or are the ladies more opened minded on those sites? Who knows what the correct answer is.

I have been on this board a long time, it has been a very useful board and I still like to see ladies who participate on this board but the hobby has changed so much in the last few years. This board is not the only board now and it has to compete with the others.  There are unsavory characters in this hobby, but not all of them are bad because they are on a certain board.

I'm on the fence on this issue. I was slightly shocked when I saw her post. Mainly because I thought that post & pics like that were frown upon on TER.

I thought all the gentlemen on here liked their ladies to be classy in the light and trashy in the dark

But I thought her post got the response that it she wanted. Because honestly I was little turned on from the picture. She definitely made me google her and find more of her scenes. ;-D

But we ALL come on this site looking for a lil extra fun & pleasure to add to our lives. So even thought she was VERY straight forward with it, I don't see to much wrong with it.

To each it's own I always say

V.W.

really more relating to the other aspect of advertising- the message.  You are not the target market, so the message offends you, presumably because you're concerned about the shared that image providers project to the world- and that is understandable.  But the target market of men probably didn't see it that way.

This type of ad is a double-edged sword since it will strongly attract one market (perhaps a new one), and maybe alienate another.  The only question is did she hit the target at which she was aiming and will she be happy with the resultant clients?  Only time will tell.

One thing's for sure, she's speaking to men in their language.  And while it may be a little blunt for some tastes, it's actually a refreshing change from the sameness of 98% of the other ads which all say the same thing, which in effect means they say nothing.

As an aside, a few months back I posted something on the Gen. Discussion board suggesting that women look a little deeper at themselves to determine what makes them unique.  Marketing calls it the "unique selling proposition."  I made the case that they all were saying the same thing which means they didn't really understand themselves or what they were offering their clients.  And as a result, they weren't differentiating themselves beyond the obvious physical attributes.

Needless to say, I was totally abused and called all sorts of names by the resident morons on that board.  But it does show that men and women see this issue differently.  I think most guys reading the original post just saw it as someone having a little fun and not much more than that.  

Plus, it's always nice to know someone enjoys their work if you're planning on seeing them.  A lot of nasty things get said about clients by providers, and nobody wants to feel like they're forcing themselves upon someone.  There are 3 billion women in the civilian world that are more than willing to constantly remind us how disgusting and imperfect we are.  In fact, they're the reason you have a job.  This lady, on the other hand, made it clear that she isn't one of them, and I'd see her on that basis alone.

I must be really easy because both Brennan and Amsterdam turn me on. One is a good bad girl and the other is a bad bad girl. But both are super hot.

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I think both Brennan and Amsterdam have learned very well how to differentiate themselves and get beyond the typical self promos we see here every day. The two of them are the only not Asian cut cookies that have any interest in at all.

But sometimes you have to draw the line, don't you ever apologize for another's ignorance. Tell me what in the subject line has she written that she herself has not done? Being criticized for stating the obvious is nothing but to get some attention. Which the poster clearly managed to do.

You did nothing wrong. Pay no attention to these types of posts.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikita_Denise

Are we supposed to screen out the porn stars from TER? Wasn't aware of that one.

I mean, you read those reviews over there, they're all paying the rack rate and you'd never guess they had more than a cocktail together.

I mean, the one word you'll never see over there is the word "special", that's for sure .

Which reminds me, can anyone tell me where I can snag an invite to the next M&G?

She posts so much, I almost thought she was that Katie girl, from back in the day. You remember the one...who always claimed she was in school but posted every 15 minutes on the LA board?

why does BB care about how/where/when others post an ad?  price hike? screen better?
Since when does the ladies 'PRICE' mean that she's incompetent in screening techniques?

BB posting's seem to be angry, disgruntled and obviously way too much in the 'man hatting' form for me to ever want to see her. her excessive posting shows me that she's way too slow in business and that, frankly, other guys such as myself are catching on to her attitude and negative, cat scratching BS.

Now, go run and complain about this post on your lady board. you've got nothing else to do. Clearly.

1. calling potential customers 'dummies' is not going to win you a charm tiara.
2. Claiming you make impulse decisions upon posting practices will not make a man think your stable enough to handle his private information.
3. Again you slam BP, CL and other sites to which girls advertise on. Did you know that a research study conducted in 2009 found that that in NYC Wall Street bigwigs used nothing but CL for 4 years running to find what they were 'looking for'?
Is that not your "esteemed" clientele??

Can't shoot it down now can you? Pick up a newspaper once, will you? Do some fact figures before you make a blanket statement.

Noone over there pays the 'rack rate' that's complete B.S.

I've seen many of the girls there- and I've never paid the rack rate, due to the owner's special M&G deal.
Just go to the M&G's. You'll never pay rack rate.

Thank you & yes I am available for marketing advice

Hahaha, I meant what I said. It's getting a little too ad-y & low rent around here..

TER has been great to me & I hate to see it go the way of ads & trash.

Naughty & trash aren't the same. It's a given that we're all whores in the bedroom, must we announce it and propose even more of a security issue?

I'm an escort not a prostitute.... I'm  just slutty

BB

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Your reviews say you have sex for money.


Get off your high horse BB.

Because now you really sound like a complete idiot.

 I guess you haven't listened or *cough* (read) anything that Buffalo chick has told you??

Not everyone lurking here has our best interest at heart. My whole point in this is that it's a security risk & brings the board unnecessary attention in a negative way.

Discretion is what the whole thing was about. Even the escort ad malls don't allow vulgar & suggestive talk. It's a safety issue above all else.

It's pretty obvious that any girl here is going to get face down ass up, etc but I felt it was saying too much to out on an open forum that many LE read. It can't help, that's for sure

If you've read my other posts, you'd know I make no bones, have no delusions about what I do but I don't broadcast the details on TER. It's implied & that seems enough. Girls posts have been used against them when they were arrested, fyi. SO have their reviews..

BB

I expected a little sarcasm to come across in the original post. Where is the sarcasm font?!

Yes I do have more time on my hands lately, that's very true but I enjoy my free time & business is fine.
I certainly wasn't trolling for business with that post but I am interested in being a part of the community that has kept me safe more than get me business. My ads on CV always took care of that.

I most certainly didn't intend to offend or insult any of the girls! I am girl friendly and supportive of any girl working, we all do the same things after all! Even when I quit advertising to be UTR I answered ref requests everyday. Safety is my concern.

Thanks for all the replies. At least we had some discussion and as usual everyone has a different take. Fair enough!

BB