My donation is $350... if you bring $400 (hundred dollars bills) please don't expect any change back.  Our meeting is prearranged (meaning in advanced), therefore, you should be prepared with my donation the moment you walk through the door.  I don't want to sound greedy or rude about this situation but I find it unprofessional  for a client to ask me for change "after" our session.  It is your responsibilty to come with the exact donation otherwise don't expect any change back from me... Wow... did I not deserve the $50 tip lol?

My good deed of the day:  I offered him a $50 credit on his next visit...  

Guys, have you ever asked a provider for change before or after a session?  Why?

Ladies, how did you handle being asked for change before or after a session?  Did you give your client any change back?

I would like to hear your take on this.

smh

not classy at all...if you don't have time to get to the bank and get the correct amount, it shows how little you think of the encounter.  

this ain't macdonalds!   change back from your dollar!

I agree.  If I do not have change I just let the provider keep the difference.  Asking for change is a little tacky.  If it is that serious just stop and make change before visiting the provider.

2 NIPPLES FOR A DIME !!!

And rather low-brow.  I can imagine a guy like him, trying to get you to accept 3.  Like the guy that offer tennis lessons, for a discount... Or write fake reviews for 15 days of free VIP...  
Geez!  The ATM only gives 20's.  I just round up.  Why be known as a cheapo?

LOL funny

I see Asian gals in the 250 range, and usually lay down three $100 bills and leave it at that, although I will tip more for great service.  But to ask for change.  Ugh.....  TCHS

Next thing you'll know they will only bring gas to get there
and asking for some cash to fill up for the ride home.
If you can't do it right then don't do it.
Stay home.

Some people have no "home training", as my favorite Jr High teacher would say.

You obviously didn't deserve the tip. He probably intended to pay you the $400, but if you smelled bad or didn't perform well you certainly don't deserve to be tipped. You should have honored his request for the amount of return.
You contracted for a certain fee and that is what you were entitled to. You are not entitled to tips. They should be earned.

He was unprepared and you lack class. Drop the entitlement attitude.    

Never discuss the $ aspect of the encounter!

Of course, then there the old cliche... Rules are meant to be broken.

C'est-la-vie

if he was going to leave a tip, it should have been in bills separate from the original rate.  then the tip can be added or not depending on services performed.

still beleive that no change under any circumstance should be expected.  op is not entitled attitude imo.

FOR change

He may be Hungry poor man ..
hilarious

Don't know if this guy is a Nubee, just didn't prepare well, or just not considerate of your feelings; in any case not cool, and if he feels he can't afford the price of his own mistake, then he probably can't truly afford to hobby.  

I'm certain she deserved the tip. This is 50 dollars we're talking about not $100. Some of you boys spend her rate and even more in a Vegas strip club for 1 hour of a crotch rub. In my opinion, she rightfully deserves every penny including the extra 50. It was his mistake for not getting change beforehand. There will always be a small handful of people who aren't polite and need to be reminded how to be a gentleman. Please take the extra 2 minutes to get change .

For the record, I didn't expect a tip.  I don't work for tips.  I'm 100% satisfied with my fee and NO TIPPING IS EVER REQUIRED.  I feel the client should come with the exact amount and "never" ask a provider for change.  Who is lacking class here?
 
I DIDN'T HAVE CHANGE.  I GAVE HIM $50 CREDIT AND HE SHOULD HAVE COME WITH THE EXACT AMOUNT


   

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I was just surprised that you didn't make up a fake hobbyist handle like you did on your other drama thread.

Surely you need the $50 more then the phantom hobbyist.

Get off your knees and try to climb back up on that horse all by yourself.

this type of stuff affects their livelihood. It does nothing for you. Of course, they should have more saying than you or other average hobbyists

I don't have to hide behind an alias...

LOL, I agree.

1. How would she know what amount to have on hand to give someone change?
2. There is a safety factor here and I couldn't pretend to have enough knowledge and expertise to lecture others.
 The bottom line I've learned so far is, there are people who will take your wallet containing the adorable family pics you treasure, every dollar, credit card, health ins. card, Triple AAA card, identification, cell phone, laptop, luggage, clothing, Ipod you created a cute lil playlist on to enhance your guest's visit, auto/house/whatever keys, hotel room towels, GD Liliputian-sized hotel toiletries, four-star linens, pillows, radio, flat-screen tv, glasses, mugs, coffee-maker, ice-bucket, hair-dryer, bathrobes, closet hangers, shower curtain, lamps, art, side tables, balcony furniture, toilet paper, and anything else that isn't bolted down, at knife/gun point. And yes, even the Gideon's free gift in the top drawer.
  Whatcha gonna do? Call hotel security? The authorities? Your mom and pop?
 Might have to reimburse the hotel for their property loss. Why not protect yourself from Identity theft, the hassle of canceling EVERYTHING, your personal info and client info. from falling into the wrong hands and whatever cash you might have on you, that could at least pay for a box of tissues to cry into and a cab ride home?
  I never want more than 8.00 bucks on me and that is almost always in quarters. Gotta have "change" for the beverage machine when I need a lil Diet Coke/caffeine pick-me-up.  
  So, if anyone wants "change" for the laundromat, I'm your dreamgirl!  
She did her part. You know the amount before you arrive.
                                                                  Peace.
                                                                            The Little Redhaired Girl

Wow... "Panthera12" is a female hating on Nikki Raye... the question is WHY???

Showing up for a visit with a provider without exact change seems as dumb as showing up without a spare condom or two in your pocket.