I don’t think providers should be asking for a deposit unless you’re booking them for an extended visit and they can’t book any other appointments because they’re holding the time for you or they’re flying to meet you. I’ve seen too many rants on the discussion boards about providers to take deposits, and then never show up for an appointment. One man paid a provider a deposit, but had to reschedule his appointment. Later, the provider said the deposit had expired, and he had to pay the full fee again. This is unconscionable. That is plain and simple fraud and robbery.

They'll continue to ask, guys will continue to pay...that's just the way it is now. Wish I could wave a magical wand to make the whole deposit thing go away but it won't. It's here to stay.
For the record, I'm with you. I hate the deposit thing and I will NEVER give in to a deposit.

Are deserving of deposits. Some of us are not untrustworthy, and are legitimate reputable providers who have integrity. Please do not think we are all the same. I take pride my reputation here on TER. I am a proud VIP member who is active on these boards & in the hobby lifestyle. I have required a deposit to book, since I decided to partake in the joy of the Motherhood journey back in 2009. I have never scammed, flaked, nor have I robbed anyone. I don’t judge everyone on 1 bad experience. Do your homework here on TER & utilize the tools necessary to make an executive decision.

She’s not lying… I done had outcalls traveling 30-40 minutes just to get there and the guy stopped answering which made me require  deposits now also being that I have a couple reviews it shows some legitimacy… It sucks on both ends because some guys are worried about getting scammed and some of us aren’t trying to waste time

your TER profile and reviews to your post on the discussion boards.   It lets everyone know who you are and some customers here might be interested in seeing you if they can look you up with just a click.  

...in order to link it to her handle.  You've been on TER since 2008 and you don't know that?!  Also, in order to link to her profile, not only does she have to claim it, she has to actually HAVE  a profile.  Did you bother to check if Maddie actually has a TER profile before you gave her that great advice?

 
Like I said - great advice - but there are THOUSANDS of K-girls who DO have TER profiles but have NOT claimed their  profiles.  If they did, customers who view their profiles might be interested in seeing them if they could contact them with just a click on the "Send PM" tab in their profiles.  Yet you have NEVER advised any K-girls to claim their profiles and become full-fledged participants in TER.  Why not?

I will give her the same advice about linking.  They need to claim their profile and get a username first so they can post, right?  They don't have a "send PM" tab UNTIL they claim their profile.  You spend hours looking at Kgirl profiles, so I thought you would know this by now.  I have told hundreds to claim their profiles when I'm seeing them in session, but they don't do it.  How many have you told?  

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Until you get your GED I'm going to have to use smaller words and shorter sentences.  This is what I wrote:
"...there are THOUSANDS of K-girls who DO have TER profiles but have NOT claimed their  profiles.  If they did (claim their profiles), customers who view their profiles...could contact them with just a click on the "Send PM" tab in their profiles (which appears in their profiles after they claim them).

 
In the future I will try to dumb down my posts for you.

any Kgirls to claim their profiles, which was pure bullshit speculation on your part.  I have told hundreds they should.  I also asked how many YOU have told, and we got deflection and crickets.  I guess I'll have to dumb down my posts more than you.  

 
Profiles are set up by the first reviewer, not the provider.  I know, because I have done many.  How many have YOU done?  Oh, that's right, you are just here for the board posting and problem reports, right?  

claim their profiles.  Really?  Do you have any proof of that or it simply more of your "poetic license?"  You can post anything you want; it doesn't make it true.  The truth is agency K-girls don't give a shit about TER.  They won't claim their profiles and I don't believe you ever told any of them.  

 
Let's examine it a little further to expose your BS about telling "hundreds" of K-girls.  A K-girl would have to REGISTER with TER before she could claim her profile.  Assuming she did register and claim her profile, then she would be able to PM DIRECTLY with the hobbyist, thus eliminating the agency entirely.  That's makes your assertion that you advised "hundreds" of K-girls to claim their profiles to be utterly ridiculous.  You LOVE the bookers and would never do something like that.

 
Now if you had claimed to tell the K-bookers to claim their K-girls' profiles, that would have been more believable.  Still not true, but more believable.

 
Re: Profiles - Let's do the math, shall we?  Try to keep up even though you're still taking remedial math.
Almost 400,000 TER profiles have been created.  Many hobbyists have created multiple profiles so I'd say about 100,000 members have created all 400,000 profiles.

 
There are over 3,000,000 registered TER hobbyists.  If only 100,000 have created all the TER profiles, that leaves 2,900,000 who have NOT created any profiles.  They must just be here for the board posting and problem reports, right?  I've created one profile - that puts me ahead of 2,900,000 other hobbyists.

If I cannot confirm anything about a lady, the thought scares me because I know there are scammers. But for a reputable lady, I have no issue with it. Those who have proven to be good providers deserve it.

Not that I don't think you would deserve it to make sure, but there are a lot of sketchy providers expecting deposits.  There was on here in LA recently that had reviews taken away after I figured out they were fake.  She was demanding a deposit in order to setup an appointment.

I think a good bit involves good communication prior so that both parties are comfortable and feel respected.  As well as making sure we both get what we want out of it.

I have 400 reviews, the majority of which are Kgirls, just since 2015 (before that I saw a similar number and reviewed them on another site) and I have seen nearly 1000 since I started in 2007.  Is it so hard to believe that I have suggested to a few hundred of these girls that they claim their profile on TER?  MOST will tell you that they don't want to PM with timewasters, they don't know how to screen, and they don't speak good enough English.  They will get a bunch of guys like you who have NEVER seen a Kgirl PM'ing them and wasting their time because you can't get approved to see them.  Why don't you see a few and ask them if any customers have ever asked them to claim their profile.  Then you don't have to speculate and make things up, right?  

 
Which profile did YOU create?  Got a link?  

Thanks for posting love! Xoxo Smile for me!

I never pay a deposit unless the lady is on P411 and even then I can be a bit reluctant.  Bottom line is if a lady scammed guys while using P411, she probably would not be on P411 much longer.  Same for guys who flake at the last minute.  This is one of many reasons I use P411 about 90% of the time anymore.   Asking for a deposit and then not showing is one of the oldest tricks in the book.  As for really long appointments, etc, I would not book something like that unless I already knew the lady rather well.  If she knows me, then she knows I won't flake.  

Life happens. I just refunded $2k in one day because I had to cancel appointments. We are all not the same. Integrity is hard to find.

It definitely helps to know if you are serious, i don't them for outcalls as a simple uber ride is an enough confirmation that a gentlemen is going to actually see me !