Made an 11 AM massage appointment last night and was asked to confirm at 8 AM this morning. Called at 8 AM and got VM, confirmed my intention to arrive at 11. No call. Called at 9:30, got the VM. Called at 10:45 saying I was parked near the cross street location and would leave at 11:15. Called at 11:15 and informed her I left.

I know I was thinking with my little head when I drove over without getting a call back from her, I'm not pinning that on her.

I don't want to start a shit storm by placing her name on here, but I'll respond to PM requests. I was surprised she did it, she's got 20 pages of glowing reviews and seemed really nice. She also advertises on ThatMall.com.

sucks I hope she has a valid excuse?

Haven't gotten a call to hear one. Oh well. It's a bit of instant karma, too. I had literally just pressed "send" on a mail to book another provider when she rang. I had to send a quick follow-up e-mail to the first lady to cancel, which upset her. So, I'm out of her good graces but I figure, fuck it, I'm in with this lady I really wanted to see. Well...

So, then there's Saturday A.M. and the self-inflicted wild goose chase.

Live and learn.

If so, she did the same to me. Basically cut all communication for some unknown reason.  Luckily since I did not get a confirmation, I never drove out there.  I just figured she got spooked by something... never got any explanation.  Sorry this happened to you.

I'm not a VIP guy, so you folks can't PM me. Well, I guess I'll have to drop a hint...

Justifying the outing of a lady is tricky. Other people may have had a different experience. Lo, I have not. And, to boot. Nookie evaded me. Don't pity me. Another, better fate awaited.

Depending on how far it is, sometimes I will drive part of the way to give the lady a chance to respond.  Once it was an 11AM apt time like yours.  When I got the a point where I could easily turn a dog leg back to work I stopped and tried again.  Then I figured screw it and went to work.  She did not wake up and get back to me until that afternoon.  She did apologize, but it took her so long that it struck me as being consistent with someone coming off a meth crash.  So I won't try booking with her again.  This is why I prefer seeing MILFs and college students.  I like to know my assistance is either helping a single parent support her family or a student get through school without having to be a debt slave.  

But another time when this happened to me, she had forgotten and I must admit she had a reasonably good reason I could verify.  She also realized she screwed up and contacted me soon enough to where my driving part way worked out fine.

I am surprised you had this type of a problem with a ThatMall lady.  In general they are good, clean, responsible, and classy ladies.  But then, shit can happen anytime

You are correct regarding the location of cross streets. You could say I went on a wild eagle chase. Too bad. That voice, those photos, and the verbiage in the ads is so playful. Oh, well.

I was surprised by that treatment after all the "remember, how you treat people is the way you get treated" talk on the VM.

another site, but that place is gone now.  Unfortunately, TER doesn't allow flake reports.  Otherwise you may have been saved this trouble.

I had a well reviewed Vegas outcall massage girl flake on me THREE times (of course the second two were my own fault for not learning my lesson.)  There were months of time between each incident and she had no recollection - and used the "sorry a family emergency came up" the first and third times after pushing back our appt hour a few times while I waited.

I tried to post a flake review but TER knocked it down. I asked them what recourse I had and they suggested posting about it on the board. So ... my belief is that if you were flaked on and it was just a clear disregard for your time and had nothing to do with an emergency or an honest misunderstanding - name away. It's deserved and she does have the right to answer your charges here if she chooses to do so.

democrats on drugs

several times when i first started hobbying.

then i wised up.  if i don't get a confirmation by 2 hrs before our meeting, i either don't take the little blue pill, or i phone up a second choice.  i know a couple ladies that are hapoy to see me at the last minute if their schedule is clear.