there's a good chance that the holidays were vacation time for lots of ladies.
i had sent out a few emails to more than one girl i had been in contact with...and i was pretty hurt that two of my favs never bothered to email me back.
but then after new years, both ladies emailed me back. apparently they were taking time off from this enterprise to be w/their loved ones, and gosh who can blame them?
The last couple weeks I've had a HORRIBLE time trying to setup an appointment with any providers here in LA. Just to give you an idea of what I mean, I made a list of about 40 providers in my area that had been recently reviewed that I wanted to see. I called every number down that list and out of that, only 3 numbers actually picked up to a live person and out of that no girls were available. I took the day off work TWICE in hopes of hooking up with a provider and both days were completely wasted as no girls have been available. One booker said all 4 of his girls were out sick. A couple other bookers weren't pleased with my references and never called me back. I would say... about HALF the numbers I called were completely out of service.
I'll tell you, it didn't used to be like that even 6 months ago. I remember booking was so easy and almost every number someone answered the phone. So my question is, did something change in the industry or are TER reviewers just bullshitting their reviews? Perhaps writing reviews for providers that don't even have working phone numbers. I'm telling you there's no way all those numbers could not be working yet those girls are getting new reviews every week, it just doesn't make sense.
I got so desperate this one night, I started calling backpage listings that had no reviews on TER because I was determined to do something with my day, but the prices were OUTRAGEOUS and the providers seemed REAL shady and unprofessional so I didn't do it.
it sure beats trying to find indie kgirls to get verification for kgirls like hosi and hara :/
It is not the dearth of providers. Maybe you have been blacklisted. Or you are going about things the wrong way. Keep trying and hopefully you will get lucky.
It is a challenge, but it should be if you are trying to break into the kgirl world. I would hope that the bookers remain ever stringent and screen very carefully to vette out potential troublemakers or LE.
Beemer
I'll tell you, it didn't used to be like that even 6 months ago. I remember booking was so easy and almost every number someone answered the phone. So my question is, did something change in the industry or are TER reviewers just bullshitting their reviews? Perhaps writing reviews for providers that don't even have working phone numbers. I'm telling you there's no way all those numbers could not be working yet those girls are getting new reviews every week, it just doesn't make sense.
I got so desperate this one night, I started calling backpage listings that had no reviews on TER because I was determined to do something with my day, but the prices were OUTRAGEOUS and the providers seemed REAL shady and unprofessional so I didn't do it.
there's a good chance that the holidays were vacation time for lots of ladies.
i had sent out a few emails to more than one girl i had been in contact with...and i was pretty hurt that two of my favs never bothered to email me back.
but then after new years, both ladies emailed me back. apparently they were taking time off from this enterprise to be w/their loved ones, and gosh who can blame them?
k-girls, than yes, there has been in effect a more stringent screening policy that makes it very hard to book k-girls, sometimes impossible. If you are referring to non-k-girls, personally I never had a trouble booking with anyone.
A provider recently (2 months ago?) told me her booker was only booking with known prior customers.
Kind of odd but the booker also asked me what color shirt/jacket I was wearing to verify me through the peep hole, even though I'd seen the same provider 3 or 4 times previously.
I'm not saying I condone the blacklisting, but its not surprising that bookers would not want to book you if you're going to hurt their business with low ratings.
There's no way they could know who I am though because I never tell providers ANYTHING about ter over the phone.
Here's a hint:
Read your reviews, I am sure they did.
Beemer
But again, there's no way to link that to who I really am. I didn't do anything stupid like leave a review immediately after seeing a provider so that it would clearly be linked back to me. Some of the reviews I waited quite a while before posting for that very reason.
Also, it still doesn't make sense because anyone can leave a review for anyone, even if you've never seen that provider. I can leave 100 reviews all 10star right now and none of it might be legit, so you see where I'm going with this? I doubt these people have the time to cypher through all of TER trying to investigate who is who.
Don't assume things in this business. The bookers aren't dumb and they can and will find out if they are determined enough to make sure a bad client doesn't get through. I must say though that reading your reviews, you give yourself away by certain acts so that is how they could possibly link you. Also due to the fact that you seem rough with the girls (based on your own reviews). The girl may seem all smiles and all but she may be afraid for her life. Take that into consideration as how you treat the ladies.
As an end result, taers advice and just move on. If they don't want you, there must be a reason for it.
Beemer
Also, it still doesn't make sense because anyone can leave a review for anyone, even if you've never seen that provider. I can leave 100 reviews all 10star right now and none of it might be legit, so you see where I'm going with this? I doubt these people have the time to cypher through all of TER trying to investigate who is who.
The more you seem to justify the blacklisting. We are just making an observation as to why you are not getting responses. You can accept it or not. But, since this is not happening to everyone else, it must be something to do with you. The only other reason I can think of is if you changed your phone # or are calling using a different phone #. If this isn't the case, then word has gotten around, for whatever reason, that you are no longer a wanted customer.
You write reviews , providers repair back to bookers , irrespective of how good your reviews are if you leave bad impressions with the girls you'd ultimately disqualify yourself from seeing girls whose bookers share info. They may not know the source of your reviews the girls' reviews of you are enough to judge you.
Well I know for a fact I've been a perfect client to every girl I've ever seen. But lets 'theoretically' say I'm this total jerk of guy, a real asshole to my providers, and a danger to the agency, THE WORST CLIENT EVER IN HISTORY. Then WHY do those same agencies allow me to keep coming back to THEIR service, but won't give me a good ref to try someone ELSE'S service. Explain that to me ![]()
You are confused and confusing. Just owe up to not treating the girls right. Nobody is buying your bs about being a model client, you don't sound like one based on your reviews. Once you are on the bad client list, you can call, the phone will ring and ring... Or will say it's been disconnected, because your number has been blocked. Wake up and smell the roses. You've been cock blocked.
Actually, It's very easy for a provider or booker to find your TER user name if you use the same e-mail address for TER as contacting providers, and yes much lower than normal scores seem to be a thing with you so by now that knowledge has been shared and you seem to be seeing the repercussions of it.
Even though you have resolved your original problem, I just wanted to point out some things from your reviews that are telling:
1. "For some reason [name redacted] must have picked up that I wasn't happy..."
2. "On the phone, she said BBBJ, but it was CBJ. The CBJ lasted 30 seconds, I had to request more."
"there was underlying disagreement on that several times. Truthfully I didn't want to kiss her face or even look it,"
"she turned over and started holding her head like she had a headache."
Were you the "perfect client"? You think the providers don't sense that you are unhappy with them?
Why is it that you are the only reviewer who had such a bad experience with each of these providers?
This may not have been the source of your issue, but it may be in the future.
will give you problems. It sucks, but that's the way it is. If you do it, you have to be prepared for the backlash. Or you have to make sure your TER handle is not connected in any way to your hobby email and hobby phone number.
As for the past couple weeks -- I've had no trouble booking appointments. Saw two kgirls and one indy. A few of my favorites were on vacation due to the holidays, but many others were available to fill in. I was worried it might be difficult to find ladies working around Christmas and New Years, but that was not the case at all. There were plenty of wonderful choices, as usual. LA rocks.
poor reviews but rather attitude towards or treatment of girls. Could it be that you took out your disappointment on the girls? If you are so , young , handsome , athletic , muscular and desirable. You should consider dating civvies .
I'll tell you, it didn't used to be like that even 6 months ago. I remember booking was so easy and almost every number someone answered the phone. So my question is, did something change in the industry or are TER reviewers just bullshitting their reviews? Perhaps writing reviews for providers that don't even have working phone numbers. I'm telling you there's no way all those numbers could not be working yet those girls are getting new reviews every week, it just doesn't make sense.
I got so desperate this one night, I started calling backpage listings that had no reviews on TER because I was determined to do something with my day, but the prices were OUTRAGEOUS and the providers seemed REAL shady and unprofessional so I didn't do it.
Take my 'disappoint' out on the girls??? What are you talking about? I said I was disappointed because I couldn't easily find working numbers, I didn't even see a provider due to that. Also, that description of me is just made up to throw any agencies off the track, I would be a fool to describe myself and be linked to who I really am.
I even TOFTT 4 times with new K girls. Reviews coming soon.
As far as them not answering the phone, this seems to be SOP. My hunch is that they look up your phone number on some kind of master list of known good guys, and if you are on the list, then they call you back, or TXT. I took a break for a while from the K-girl scene, and it was difficult getting back on the list, or so it seemed to me.
Huh? I'm ever more surprised by the sheer number of providers available. I believe it's been harder and harder for the girls, they have gravitated to working Saturdays and Sundays, where (IMO) in the past, that was that not prevalent.
You've been blacklisted by the K-girl bookers. Clearly, I can see you are angry. Reason for my post, you should move on to another segment. They don't want your business and like any consumer, if they don't want your business, you should not want to give it to them.
In the last month, I've seen two new k-girls. No problem. I don't do reviews, but I'm always polite, tell them I had fun, and thank them for their time. I've not read your reviews (yet), but I appears from others you don't treat all the ladies well.
You've been blacklisted by the K-girl bookers. Clearly, I can see you are angry. Reason for my post, you should move on to another segment. They don't want your business and like any consumer, if they don't want your business, you should not want to give it to them.
In the last month, I've seen two new k-girls. No problem. I don't do reviews, but I'm always polite, tell them I had fun, and thank them for their time. I've not read your reviews (yet), but I appears from others you don't treat all the ladies well.
And that cuts into their profit. You may have caught the booker in a bad mood when you asked for the refund.
Funniest comment to start of the year!
Made me snort the coke ( the beverage) out of my nose!!
That particular agency, at one location, always has the girl hand you (at a flat rate) parking reimbursement when you are leaving (no bottled water though). But a little weird if you weren't to know that before going in and called to complain before even getting buzzed in, I mean the parking isn't that expensive. Assume the booker would've then dialed the girl up real quick and warn her to make sure she got the donation up front.
I just read your review of Yoyo/Star/Connie, which appears to be one of the lower scores you've given. I'm not commenting on the validity of any of it. I've never seen her. Although, the was a harsh review and probably pissed off the girl and her booker. Back to the point, you're quite specific about several things ranging from the appointment starting 20 minutes late to the misunderstanding about BBBJ v. CBJ. You talk about your p-h-y-s-i-q-u-e.
Again, that girl and booker definitely know who you are. They didn't have to call Sherlock Holmes. And, like everyone has pointed out, the bookers talk and share info. It's unfortunate for you, but you're blacklisted with most of this market segment. Stick with whoever still is willing to see you, or move on to Latinas, blondes or something.
This is the ultimate in White Knighting and pretty pathetic if you ask me.
I am a little torn here. I would agree and yet disagree. If his reviews are an indication of how he treats the girls then I am for BL, but if it is just a work of "fiction" then so be it. If his reviews are not legit then he has no credibility with me (if that matters to anyone, probably not) but hey, it is what it is.
For me the overall safety of the provider and eveyone involved is essential. If it means preventing "presumed" abuser from hurting the girls so be it.
Beemer
I don't think anyone is throwing him under the bus. I think folks are just looking at his reviews and giving honest opinions about why he may be having trouble booking new appointments. It's not that hard to put 2 and 2 together here. His own words provide the answer.
I just finished reading your reviews and have a few thoughts.
First, you are very easy to identify because of the way you write and spell.
Second, you seem to be pretty rough with the girls.
Third, you have an arrogant attitude
Fourth, your obsessed with how great looking and attractive you are
Fifth, you're a cheapskate! Parking refund??? You've got to be kidding! And I'm sure you never tip.
Sixth, your reviews wouldn't help anyone, even the girls you've liked.
So, if I was a booker, yeah, I blacklist you in a heartbeat.
Everyone in the thread still responding is an IDIOT that doesn't read the updates. I already said it was the wrong phone number my mistake and that I'm not blacklisted, it was a false alarm.
It's even more annoying that the moderators don't post half of my responses, so people keep responding to the original post without proper context of what I'm really saying. Everyone has cherry picked bits and pieces of what I said and turned me into this super arrogant bad guy because they are not READING the entire thread. Stop responding with nonsense you white knight jerkoffs.
Happy for you.
Beemer still on the fence with this guy.
Check your account manager, "more", then "view my posts" and you can see for yourself.
You may have updated a different thread but not this one , so you have only yourself to blame that people were still responding on this thread.
Why start two threads about the same/ related topic in the fist place?
It's even more annoying that the moderators don't post half of my responses, so people keep responding to the original post without proper context of what I'm really saying. Everyone has cherry picked bits and pieces of what I said and turned me into this super arrogant bad guy because they are not READING the entire thread. Stop responding with nonsense you white knight jerkoffs.
You admit your reviews are part fictional, you are not a prolific reviewer to assume you do it to get complimentary TER Vip status , which begs to ask why do you bother posting reviews from which no one benefits? Just curious.
It's even more annoying that the moderators don't post half of my responses, so people keep responding to the original post without proper context of what I'm really saying. Everyone has cherry picked bits and pieces of what I said and turned me into this super arrogant bad guy because they are not READING the entire thread. Stop responding with nonsense you white knight jerkoffs.