Hi everyone -

I am trying to arrange something and I'm having a hard time doing it (which isn't surprising) so I'm asking for any advice.  Here is the situation:

My business partner and I travel together from time to time. I am a hobbyist and like to see girls/providers but he's been married for 10+ years. Until now, that is. He's recently divorced, which is a good thing because it was a bad marriage. But, he has been resisting the idea of 'getting back up on that horse' and being with a girl again. It's been almost a year now!

He hasn't been with someone new in 10 years, and I'm trying to see if I can arrange some special fun for him on our next business trip, which is to LA. What I really want is for him to just meet a nice girl in the bar and have her show him a good time. He's a 40 year old guy, pretty good looking except that he's been pretty depressed which doesn't exactly bring in the ladies.

In some other cities I have long relationships with providers who would probably do this for me, but in LA I don't really know anyone. Can this be arranged? How to go about it??

thanks for any advice. Ken

Wow... nice friend.  Sort of.  

I say sort of, because it really comes down to your friends thoughts on the subject of providers.  Does he know about your hobby?  Is so, does he approve?  I think if you set him up a on a date with a provider without telling him the real situation, that could seriously backfire.    It might seem like a great idea for movie script, but not so much in real life.

I've got a one friend who knows about my hobby and gets why I do it, but he's never been interested when I've made suggestions to him about his situation.  

Now, if he's into the idea, that's a whole separate story.  Then it's like choosing a birthday present.  You need to know what he likes.  I don't recommend finding a girl that looks like his ex.

Is what he needs..

This is a potentially dangerous situation for a provider. I urge you to discuss hobbying openly with him and see if he is amenable to taking your advice/experience regarding escorts and instead arranging an aboveboard date.



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Never buy a friend a puppy?

is if you hire two women, one for you and one for him, then arrange meeting them at a certain time in a bar, where you start talking to the one you hired for yourself, and after a while you two get out of the bar, leaving him chatting with his new lady friend. Hopefully he will have the guts to do the same when his date suggests that they get out of there...

The trickiest part is probably screening. If your friend has a visible online presence (e.g. company site with photos) I'm sure there are ladies who would be willing to meet him, as long as his identity can be confirmed and the person that shows up matches the photos. At that point, your only responsibility is to discreetly slide the envelopes to both ladies upon meeting, and give your friend a wink as you walk out of there with your date. I hope it works out.

One way to do it is to suggest that he see ____ (insert name).

Another way is for you to schedule a duo and give him the option of taking one of them or having both of them yourself.

Yet another way is to see if someone does both escorting and massage and he can choose what he wants.

Well, I had a few private responses that are very promising! I might just be able to set this up, but we'll see how it goes!