I don't think it matters if you are drinking or not. As long as everyone is relaxed and in a good mood, then a good time can be had.

But I know for a fact that I always a good time with you, pretty girl. x

Is drinking a turn on or turn off for men? Is completly sober a problem for a good time?

My SO likes to have a drink or two before we hump.

And a joint, a couple Vicodin..maybe some mushrooms....THEN she's ready!

Seriously,

sober sex, good.

buzzed, relaxed and happy sex, nasty good.

Drunk sex, not so good.

... a nice ice breaker to begin an encounter for me. I pass on those that list water on their profiles as their drink of choice! .... Sip a bit ... flirt a bit ... relaxes us both and rev's up the engine for me! (I myself like Tequila Gimlet's!)

can be a good way to break the ice and relax - and, sober is also fine -

I think getting buzzed (a couple of drinks) is awesome!  I would love to get a couple drinks with a provider before a session!

Too drunk is not good!

i dont' drink, and i ask my dates to not drink during our session.  usually it has not been a problem for me.

I've brought a bottle of wine many times to a date. One glass is enough for me.

... to break the ice is nice.  Once we know each other, drinks on longer engagements.  Sloppy drunk - not so much.

I generally prefer to be sober. But I don't mind a single beer or glass of wine to help relax things at the start if I'm in the mood. Too much alcohol and I don't usually function as well in the bedroom and that's something I'd much rather avoid!  It's not a turnoff to me if the girl drinks though unless she's totally plastered.

A couple girls who were completely drunk.  It was not cool.  I don't come to work drunk, I don't expect you to.  If it's an outcall and I offer A drink to break the ice, that's one thing.  But don't show up hammered!

my answer to your inquiry

I think drinking in moderation is a turn on. I drink until I get a light/moderate buzz going and cut myself off. I like women to do the same. I've found that it does help with ice breaking and loosening some tongues for conversing. As I grow older, drinking to get shit-faced is a turn-off for me. Being completely sober is no problem for a good time as well. I've had a few evenings where I go to a bar and nurse a 7up while people watching. People with low alcohol tolerances that get blotto make for cheap entertainment, men and women alike

Normaly at times at dates thou guys seem to push drinks alot makes it hard to stay sober I have not had any compliant and maybe cause what I drink don't really hit me till later.  I am so bad I got dui ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww but already over with everything almost.

Hope you doing great ((MUAH))

Sounds like you can handle yuor alcohol better than most.  I am like that as well.  I would love to get a few drinks with a provider beforewe start in on things!

You may not want to hear this...and you may not wanna listen....

but your post proves to me that you should not be drinking the way you are...and anyone who tells you otherwise either does not care or does not understand how serious this may be for you.

No, it isnt cute or fun to hang out and have sex with someone who is drunk.
No, it isnt a turn on.

It is more fun, more interesting, and more exciting to be with someone who is aware of what they are doing, and why they are doing it, and who can safely get to and from the date.

You can, and should, feel free to tell dates you don't want to drink alcohol. There is nothing wrong with that, and for some folks it is obviously the best and only sensible option.

Anyone that reads this thread and offers you a drink on a date is an asshole.  Drinking is fine until it is not.  You have a DUI, you've crossed the line.  Why are you asking people if it is OK to drink on a date?  Clearly for you, it is not OK.  

It appears you were drinking when you posted.

Re: My SO likes to have a drink or two before we hump.

Option #2 for me please!!! I try to get appointments after 4:20 these days and I have been having the most fun I've ever had in the hobby...

I prefer a glass of wine or two to get a bit of a buzz going and to help my stamina.

The provider can have a drink or two if it helps lower her inhibitions and makes for a better time for her, but not to the point of getting blasted.  Had one pass out on me a few years ago and that is just no fun.  She was there all night and pissed in my bed.   Though she took care of laundering everything in the morning, at least

It's a big turn on when she's drunk.  Nice memorable sessions with drunk providers...

Sweetie, if you're asking about it and you've had a dui, it's something you need to slow down on.  You are a beatiful lady, and I consider you a friend.  Sober with you is one awesome time.  Don't let anyone tell you differently!!