So I posted about a new provider in the area about a week ago:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=11322&boardID=25&page=1

and everything went great.

However, I wanted to setup another appointment for toinght, and she emails me this morning letting me know what time her last appt is. then a 1/2 hour later she emails me again saying that she's having problems getting into her new apartment (she changed her incall location from last week) and that someone is going to help her get in. But how could she email me if she was having trouble getting into her new apartment? I know, I know, maybe she emailed from her phone, but still...

Now she just emailed me saying that she now has a hotel room and that someone else will be calling me to give me the room #. Her assistant already texted me the address for the hotel too.

I've never gone to a hotel for an incall and am worried about LE.

What would you guys do? again, she has about 5 recent reviews, all from well reviewed members here.

Something seems fishy, but maybe i'm being paranoid. Is there a way that I can ask the provider or her screener to assure my safety?

I would cancel the appt. with some excuse.  Anytime you have a bad feeling about something like this, you should trust your gut.  I too see too many unusual issues with this appointment.

The main reason being that you are obviously uncomfortable with this and why pay to put yourself in an uncomfortable situation?  This is supposed to be fun.

Normally several good reviews is an indication of a quality provider, but strange things can and have happened too.

(still not a lawyer)

do you think that would be safer for me?

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I will never forget the overwhelming feeling of doom I had right before I stepped foot into the place. But It was too late, I was severely uncomfortable & wanted out of there.

I just tried to remain polite , ignored inappropriate behaviour, kept changing the subject & fending off everything that was just plain offensive,  I was trying to find my safe escape.  I could not get away.

so if you have that feeling, then you are better to let this  go ,

It's better to use her hotel room, then you don't leave paper & credit card trail.  (Her rate will likely be the same but you'll have the added room cost.)  I doubt she'll want to dress for public view to go from one room to another.  You had one good appointment if I read your post correctly, so she's ok.  

Hotels are fine for appointments...  single entrance with traffic to & from all rooms mingling through a common entrance...  near impossible to track easily.  

NOT MOTELS with outside doors to each room...  easy to track traffic to an individual room.  

If things calm down then do the appointment.  If it's just too confusing then rebook for a later date, when she'll be settled & unrushed.  It's about what you feel comfortable with.  If you're stressed, you may have trouble relaxing.
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of location.

There is nothing you can ask since you already know that LE will lie to you.

Either you trust her after the 1st meeting or you don't.

Things happen to hot young girls, and there can be some drama. It's part of their appeal.

but I fail to see how that significantly changes the risk involved.

LE likes to control the environment, and it is much less likely that they would send a female officer into a room alone than it would be for them to already have control of a room.

I do agree, if you are that uncomfortable with the appointment by all means cancel it. A little romp in the hay simply isn't worth it.