I have joined erotic review to find out what can be done about this very disturbed woman.  A couple weeks ago I called a BP ad in the Body Rub section.  "Nuru Massage by Ebony Jewish Beauty"  When I asked her what a Nuru massage was she went off on me in the same way that others here have described.   I was shocked at her angry tirade but respectfully said No thank you and hung up.   She called me back many times that night, threatening and cursing.  Then the texts began!  About 8 angry texts that night and 5 more the next morning.  I knew I was dealing with a nutcase so I said "sorry if I offended you" and hoped she would go away.

But this woman is sick & vindictive.  From my phone number, she got my name, home address and Business name.  She has posted that on her blog so it's all over the net!  She has done this to many guys before and a few since.

Frued would have a field day with this mental case.  But it's not funny.  Google will only remove someones web blog, with a court order.   I placed an ad on BP to Avoid this person and I have heard back from other guys that called her and had similar experiences.

Help!  Anyone here know what can be done in a case like this?  I have filed a police report but haven't heard anything back yet

Im replying to myself to let you all know that I am new at this and was trying to reply to a message board response titled "I will answer your questions with questions", about this woman, from a thread I found back in July.  I didn't know it would wind up here in the Legal Corner.
I would have originally titled it "Crazy mean woman out to hurt guys"  if I understood how a Discussion Board worked.
Anyway, does anyone know how help in a situation like this?  She has a web blog that gives out customers names, personal addresses, phone numbers, and any pictures she can find and writes paragraphs on how criminal they are, whereas she seems that she is the sicko.  Check out your message boards back on July 9th about sweetnecter88.

Total avoidance of any contact is a must if you want to stop them.  Set your phone and computer to reject any incoming messages.

If they continue, or she continues to post your information, then turning to a lawyer to see what your legal options are is the only other possibility I can think of.  I hope it doesn't come down to that.

Maybe ask some of the guys who responded what they did, if anything.

In most cases like this, time is the best healer.

(still not a lawyer)

She has no TER reviews that I know of, but the linked thread backs up your story that she is crazy and dangerous.

Best advice I can give you is to get a hobby phone that is not traceable to your real name. That at least would have prevented this lunatic from outing you.

Also, learn how to use the search functions on TER. That would have saved you from ever calling her in the first place. Do the research before and not after.

Thank you.  No they stopped after the second day BUT her last text was that she will continue to Fu** with me.  The problem is she keeps attacking more and more callers on her web blog.  The more the new victims read about themselves, her blog keeps active and stays close to the top of our names on any searches! She rants on, accusing us of mean, sick, vicious things.  What if an old friend or business associate is trying to look one of us up?  What if one of my kids wants to look up their Dad??  Ive also found YouTube rants of hers that are connected to my phone number now on Search Engines!

Also, message boarding is new to me.  I was trying to ad on to some threads here from last July 10th where your members were talking about this person.  The last subject was, I'll answer your questions with questions.  If I had understood more about message boards, I would of titled my post, "Help, Crazy woman trying to hurt us guys".

So if any of you are on BP Body Rubs, dont even call this person.
But does anyone know how to get someone to cease & desist their slander?

OMG reading that old thread - although entertaining is also disturbing.  How is she even still in business?

Honestly, calling the police won't do much, and I would be careful bragging in a public forum that you filed a police report on a provider. There are many ways around this with out involving police. It would be well worth it to have an attorney handle this matter for you. A simple cease & desist should solve it.

"Rachel at Card Services"  I got sick of the BS & changed the number.   I'm still catching up with friends.
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Please don't think that I'm bragging about calling the police.  I'm desperate and trying to find a way to stop her blogs ASAP.   Im not calling the police because she's a provider.  Im asking them to help me stop a disturbed, dangerous person from slandering me and other guys.  Ladies you should be concerned about this too.  Someone like her gives guys pause to call anyone.  Most guys dont know about TER or have extra money for vip reviews.  Most guys look in the paper or on free sites like BP.  Someone like her slows down your business.  I know of at least 10 guys now that she's blasted & outed in her viscous blogs.  They wont feel free to call just anyone for info anymore.  So we all have to pay for lawyers now to write Cease & Desist orders?
Anyway, thanks for the suggestions.  TER looks like a great network.

Is filing a police report will not garner you the results you want. It may actually backfire on you. They can't really stop her from babbling on a blog.  You don't necessarily need to fully  hire an attorney for help in drafting a cease & desist notice, but if I were in your shoes I would at least get limited rep to make sure you have it in the proper legal language. Every guy may not know about TER but every provider does. I realize you may think all providers are bat shit crazy, but I've dealt with something similar on the other side of the fence an this was my remedy. No one got outed, the police were never called, but the problem was solved.

If there's enough of you guys the lawyer might be able to file a lawsuit on behalf of everyone she is slandering.

This is getting stranger by the day.   I just got a text from HideMyHobby.com  They say, "You just got slandered on an adult website.  Personal info was also posted.  Please go to our site to find out more."  They even give me a case number!  The site looks legit.  I just plugged in my case number and am waiting for a result.  Anyone ever hear of this??

...that will help you fix your credit reports.  They don't do anything that you can't do yourself.

Is this person even a provider at all?  Might this be a site to gather personal information which is then used to blackmail the man.  
The message from the site describing it as slander makes me suspicious that it is deliberate.
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They contacted me by text as well.  Pretty alarming.  They are listed on a ripoff website as a scam.
I thinks it's ripoffreport.com

I wondered about that as well but they told me that my new whacko friend also put me on a national blacklist board along with all her other callers!!   I looked it up and sure enough there I am!  But I can't read all of the review unless I become a member.  

They probably get peoples names and contact info off the Blacklist.  
They said that for $350. - $500. they'll get 90% of the slander taken off the web.  They were mainly talking about the Blacklist page.  They couldn't guarantee getting her blog off the web.
I must of done something bad in a previous life because I sure didn't do anything wrong to Miss Nuru Massage on BP to deserve Any of this.   Someone told me she has glowing reviews on another site!  So guys, be careful who you call.

Girls Are nuts now a days don't you guys know this by now tisk  tisk!! But you also have to think about this many girls want to be careful! I my self did at one point! THis all could be ruled out if in the U.S. they made it legal and monitored it Protecting both the client and the girls! But that will never happen, ontop of it I think many guys wouldn't trust the goverment as I wouldn't! But  Be careful who you your info too read reviews before hand aobut someone or an agency so on do your homework guys okay I am sorry this had happened to you!  Legal wise you honestly can't do much! where did she post this at? There are something that can be done! Other than playing dirty back

Review and when she changes her e-mail or phone number click report a problem and get it posted. Contact any other men on TER who have been subjected by her and post the info on BackPage. The more people post the easier it will be to find her bad habits for newbies.  It will be google searchable. Put a rip off report on TER since she is very dangerous

Sorry you had to go through this and hope TER will become your best friend from now on

Kisses Haley