Good Morning Gentlemen.. As previously mentioned I am new to TER, but I love it.. Already left a few reviews ..  So I found a very attractive provide Evelyn Tate (anyone seen her), unfortunately I dont know if she has a TER page, which is a bit nerve racking.. anyway, she is asking that I fill out a form with alot of personal information.. is this normal? How much information is to much?  I am a bit worried putting my name out there.  thoughts?

But keep in mind that it's for their safety also, just to make sure you are who you are. If you ain't with it, then move on.

I guess If she had more reviews I would be OK with it, but although I love being a hobbyist, I dont want that in writing  

Thanks for your insight..  Sorry if this is stupid, but what's a white listing reference.  I have some girls I see out hear occasionally, but why would they want to share our experience?

Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN

you need to establish yourself ...  post 3 or 4 reviews ..get yourself at least 2 or 3 white listing references .. then 99% of the ladies will see you once you forward them your white list -  i haven't met any lady for whom that wasn't sufficient ..  seriously i would NEVER EVER give personal info to someone in writing or even verbally ...   there is no reason for that.  
   
 the only reason for the girl to have personal info is to come after you if something goes wrong according to her perspective  - how does knowing where you work help her to meet you ?    i guess it prevents the girl from meeting someone homeless.    (smile)    go ahead if anyone wants to flame but its the basic truth.    
   
 simple .. once the girl is ready to do the same then i am fine with that !      
   
 so back to the easy and nice thing to do .. prove to a few ladies you are a gentleman, reliable and a pleasure to be with and the hobby will be a fun effortless and very private experience for everyone the future.  
   
   

Posted By: munoz34

Good Morning Gentlemen.. As previously mentioned I am new to TER, but I love it.. Already left a few reviews ..  So I found a very attractive provide Evelyn Tate (anyone seen her), unfortunately I dont know if she has a TER page, which is a bit nerve racking.. anyway, she is asking that I fill out a form with alot of personal information.. is this normal? How much information is to much?  I am a bit worried putting my name out there.  thoughts?  

They will share your experience because it is the right thing to do. It is not really sharing an experience, it is just vouching for you. If you have written the lady a review ask her to whitelist you. If I get a request from a guy who has a few white listings then no further screening is required. He doesn't even have to give me his real name at that point. If he doesn't have any references or white listings then I need all kinds of personal information to verify him.  

Posted By: munoz34

Thanks for your insight..  Sorry if this is stupid, but what's a white listing reference.  I have some girls I see out hear occasionally, but why would they want to share our experience?  
   

Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN

you need to establish yourself ...  post 3 or 4 reviews ..get yourself at least 2 or 3 white listing references .. then 99% of the ladies will see you once you forward them your white list -  i haven't met any lady for whom that wasn't sufficient ..  seriously i would NEVER EVER give personal info to someone in writing or even verbally ...   there is no reason for that.    
     
  the only reason for the girl to have personal info is to come after you if something goes wrong according to her perspective  - how does knowing where you work help her to meet you ?    i guess it prevents the girl from meeting someone homeless.    (smile)    go ahead if anyone wants to flame but its the basic truth.    
     
  simple .. once the girl is ready to do the same then i am fine with that !      
     
  so back to the easy and nice thing to do .. prove to a few ladies you are a gentleman, reliable and a pleasure to be with and the hobby will be a fun effortless and very private experience for everyone the future.    
     
     

Posted By: munoz34

Good Morning Gentlemen.. As previously mentioned I am new to TER, but I love it.. Already left a few reviews ..  So I found a very attractive provide Evelyn Tate (anyone seen her), unfortunately I dont know if she has a TER page, which is a bit nerve racking.. anyway, she is asking that I fill out a form with alot of personal information.. is this normal? How much information is to much?  I am a bit worried putting my name out there.  thoughts?  

Thanks Evelyn.. I will email you.  Also, I plan on meeting up with someone this week who can hopefully provide me with a review.  I met her two weeks back and had a great time.  Britteny Love... She is on here and well reviewed.

I just wrote Evelyn her first review. Should be up in a few days. She is a great lady and Hot as hell. You should see her if you are interested. You will not have any issues with her. Have Fun!!

Thanks Jrob... I am working on getting a reference or two... It's not easy getting started from scratch!   I feel like i am going on interviews..

You new, she is new, why not meeting somebody who have reviews first?
Is this a new way how to promote new girls on this board?
How you did find her in a first place?

You are.....

Review profile as ha what I had o do back in the day!  

HAHAHA.. First off all, thanks for your help everyone.. Everyone except Oralcon, you are a jerk.  As for you Mike, that would be some good marketing if I was trying to promote her, but the reality is she responded to someone in an early discussion thread. I looked at her webpage and for the price, i thought she looked amazing.  I have seen plenty of providers in the 200-300 range, but going out to Vegas and want to step up my game is all.  A lot of ladies have reached out to me, and I have a bunch of PMs I will get to when i become VIP.. I reviewed two girls yesterday and I am seeing a new provider tonight.
Maybe your right and I should wait until I get some more experience under my belt with a lady with reviews.  Can I ask, what is the difference between a reference and a whitelist?

Past behavior is not guarantee of present one. If the guy hurts you what your gonna give LE, the ter handle?

Posted By: Heathergfe

They will share your experience because it is the right thing to do. It is not really sharing an experience, it is just vouching for you. If you have written the lady a review ask her to whitelist you. If I get a request from a guy who has a few white listings then no further screening is required. He doesn't even have to give me his real name at that point. If he doesn't have any references or white listings then I need all kinds of personal information to verify him.  
   

Posted By: munoz34

Thanks for your insight..  Sorry if this is stupid, but what's a white listing reference.  I have some girls I see out hear occasionally, but why would they want to share our experience?  
     

Posted By: ILOVEWOMEN

you need to establish yourself ...  post 3 or 4 reviews ..get yourself at least 2 or 3 white listing references .. then 99% of the ladies will see you once you forward them your white list -  i haven't met any lady for whom that wasn't sufficient ..  seriously i would NEVER EVER give personal info to someone in writing or even verbally ...   there is no reason for that.    
       
   the only reason for the girl to have personal info is to come after you if something goes wrong according to her perspective  - how does knowing where you work help her to meet you ?    i guess it prevents the girl from meeting someone homeless.    (smile)    go ahead if anyone wants to flame but its the basic truth.      
       
   simple .. once the girl is ready to do the same then i am fine with that !        
       
   so back to the easy and nice thing to do .. prove to a few ladies you are a gentleman, reliable and a pleasure to be with and the hobby will be a fun effortless and very private experience for everyone the future.    
       
       
   

Posted By: munoz34

Good Morning Gentlemen.. As previously mentioned I am new to TER, but I love it.. Already left a few reviews ..  So I found a very attractive provide Evelyn Tate (anyone seen her), unfortunately I dont know if she has a TER page, which is a bit nerve racking.. anyway, she is asking that I fill out a form with alot of personal information.. is this normal? How much information is to much?  I am a bit worried putting my name out there.  thoughts?  

Reference means you give the name & contact info of a provider you've seen too the provider you're trying to see. They will actually speak/text/email each other.  A white listing (TER white list)simply means the provider who put you on the TER white list has  seen you. Nothing more nothing less   There are providers who are suspect of the white list, because there can be a quid pro quo, give me a good review, I'll white list you.   P411 also has oks. And some local/regional boards all have a reference system  

Posted By: munoz34

HAHAHA.. First off all, thanks for your help everyone.. Everyone except Oralcon, you are a jerk.  As for you Mike, that would be some good marketing if I was trying to promote her, but the reality is she responded to someone in an early discussion thread. I looked at her webpage and for the price, i thought she looked amazing.  I have seen plenty of providers in the 200-300 range, but going out to Vegas and want to step up my game is all.  A lot of ladies have reached out to me, and I have a bunch of PMs I will get to when i become VIP.. I reviewed two girls yesterday and I am seeing a new provider tonight.  
 Maybe your right and I should wait until I get some more experience under my belt with a lady with reviews.  Can I ask, what is the difference between a reference and a whitelist?  
   
 thanks again!  
   

Posted By: MikeG

You new, she is new, why not meeting somebody who have reviews first?  
  Is this a new way how to promote new girls on this board?  
  How you did find her in a first place?

Thanks Hills.. What information do I give to my provider when asking for a whilelist.... just my username?

The first reviewer sets the profile. I'm pretty sure it has always been like that.

xo
LaRue McCay

call me a jerk for trying to help you. I suggested you ask the newbie board since you are a newbie and there is a lot of good info for newbies. You are a FIDIOT! (FUCKING IDIOT) just so you know what it means you newbie.

Remember that once you give out your personal information you can never take it back. Don't give out more info about yourself than your comfortable giving or that you wouldn't be OK with everyone knowing. Forms can be very intrusive and often not secure, email her what your comfortable giving and if she needs more than that move on to someone else. I always make my first contact through P411 or DC and rarely is that not enough.

That's how it worked for me.