I don't "spend money" on purses or shoes.
Gladly I'll admit I buy my shoes at a shoe wherehouse where all the shoes are $6 a pair and they imitate the latest $200 shoes. They still get my feet from A-B and they look great!
No shame in that.
My money has gone on raising kids, extensive projects in 3 world countries where I have lived, setting up food forests, schools, homes for widows and various environmental projects like cleaning polluted rivers.
Since in USA I continue to support projects in India, Haiti , Cuba and various South American places and I do charitable work in Las Vegas weekly supporting and feeding those less fortunate and educational programs
And have a large project greening the desert with a permaculture village ..Which im building by hand ... Yes I work with my hands. Don't judge an escort by her profile photo
My "splurges" in life were my homes and Lamborghini but I sold them to fund projects
In 20/20 hindsight I'd have purchased more ATVs, firearms and offgrid supplies.
By the way statistical data says over two thirds of female escorts are raising kids... That's where their money is going