I think if 100 people answered this question candidly, you would get 100 different variations on the same theme.

I believe there is no greater pleasure than excellent sex with someone you are ALSO in love with. It transcends the physical and overwhelms the emotional.

But barring the perfect blending with a lifemate companion, as an "Old School" Hedonist, I'll take great sex.

Less drama the next day.

Depend on who you do it with. - LOL.

Sorry I can't help it.