Does knowing that a provider has a boyfriend or husband change they way  you think about them? Are you less likely to see a provider you know has a boyfriend or husband?

I am just curious how other hobbyist think on this, as i just found out one of my Favs has a boyfriend.

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And the answer to that is "quite a lot".

I'm pretty sure you wouldn't expect that to affect the service provided... so I don't see why it should the other way.

if you mean see in her capacity  as a professional in this business...Nope.

If you mean see her as in date her in my personal life...a boy friend could put a damper on that...maybe, would depend on the nature of our personal relationship.

No reason her personal relationships should effect your business relationship with her.

First it is not comparable to a hobbyist having a wife.

Second, if a rpovider has a boyfriend who KNOWS what she is doing, unless it is an open relationship, the provider is usually supporting the boyfriend. He is her PIMP! Wanna support a PIMP He could be pushing her to do 5 or 6 calls a day or doing meth with her.

If he doesn't know, then she is leading not just a double life but a triple life and the DRAMA will make for bad service.

If the boyfriend is a former client, WATCH OUT!  He will be jealous of any guy she begins to like and no telling what could happen.

I think most if not all providers can very effectively separate their personal lives from their professional ones. I don't know for sure, but I strongly suspect that sex with a boyfriend is a whole different attitude than sex with one of us hobbiests, as it should be.    When my wife was still around, sex with her (when it was available  lol) was quite different than sex with a provider, in some ways better, and some not as good.         I never asked about her personal relationships, because I figured it was her business, not mine, and as long as it didn't affect our time together, it just didn't matter.

...I just don't want her to talk about him when I see her.  That's happened to me before, having a provider go on and on about how great her boyfriend was.  A real turn off.

It can be distracting if the dude calls while you're fucking her and she answers. Especially if she says "I'll be done in a minute".

The ladies are in the business to sell a fantasy. Inserting reality (i.e., one's SO) gets in the way of that.

85% of the ladies in this business, particularly in LV, have a guy behind them. The other 15% are either gay or in between relationships. So, it's not like you really don't already know what the deal is. I don't see the profit in being reminded of that.

I'll make sure to "WATCH OUT!" LMFAO

My man, you come off as a fucking, no account mark, biatch!

The average professional girl boyfriend in tha 702 is good for 4 things and 4 things only:

1) Gettin' buffed out at Gold's (Poseurs hang at 24hr Fitness)

2) Hittin' tha juice so theys can get buffed out quicker. It don't matter, they gonna be someone's biatches inside if they ever have to do time, they so pretty...

3) Making sure the girl turns over all her dough to him at the end of the shift.

4) All of this while mastering X-box and PS like a Jedi.

You are a megastupid total mark sucker. It's always the guy's idea, why should he work when he can get paid for doing nothing, excepting looking like a poseur thug. They think they got game, but the reality is different from the appearance.

Then again, if people in Vegas weren't so stupid as a rule, business wouldn't be as good, you hear what I'm sayin'?

TRIAAAAAACCCKKK!!!!

It doesn't matter at all if a provider has a SO.  If you use TER as it was meant and do your homework, choose a reputable, well reviewed provider you will have no problems.  No pimps, no jealous SOs, most likely not even a phone ringing - just the fantasy you were looking for.  Of course if you want to let your southern head do the thinking for you then you take your chances and get what you get.

Simply put, if they are any good at what they do, it's irrelevant to the question of giving you your money's worth, and it won't be mentioned- so it's just as irrelevant as the client having a spouse/girlfriend.

Yeah, some girls bring unwanted drama in. So do some clients- we've all heard about the dude who gets obsessed with his ATF. The quality ladies won't, and you'll never know one way or the other.

I guess your argument boils down to "she's a low class hooker, she doesn't deserve a boyfriend becaue she's just a rented vagina"- you got the obligatory mentions of pimps, drama and drugs in. Because clients never do drugs, cheat on their wives, or turn into stalkers?

What a charming view. Such a shock you do these kinds of posts under an alias that isn't related to any reviews you do, too.

ladies don't need to be bringing another man into the room with us.  Even by just a hint of a reference.

I suppose you could squeeze me into the 15% by saying that I've been "in between" relationships for 8 or 9 years.

I thought I was your boyfriend...or at least I will be after I purchase that Bed & Breakfast we both like

Yep Nikki I am with you on that!! Single ,Free and Happy that is the way we roll !!!

Maybe it’s 10% in between relationships and 5% who chose not to be in one !!
Really where do some people get their stats and info from ,is beyond me!

Geez why don't people understand you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy.
Personally I find being single so much better while working as an escort.

Less life drama and I can enjoy my gentlemen friends so much more.
Lucky me I have a new BF almost everynight.
You get to have great Bf sex with no drama. Why would anyone want it any other way ??

I'm not having a relationship with her or marrying her. Her personal life is her business. As long as I am satisfied with the time that I am with her, then I don't care about boyfriends or husbands. If you want to fantasize that a provider is your "girlfriend", then that's your problem. If a boyfriend/husband bothers you, then you should have a problem with her seeing other customers as well.

If I were in Vegas, we might see about changing that! Sure would like to hear from you.

Seriously, if I ever get unmarried again...I will be a confirmed bachelor for a long time..unless Nikki Avalon proposes to me.

If I had a SO, I wouldn't be in this biz. It doesn't work out. Even casual dating is difficult. I have to lie or the men no longer take me seriously. Then, they want my money or me tonpay for everything. It is so wierd. So, I am all biz, no relationships. When you don't see me around anymore, then I am happy with a new lover who doesn't want me to be in the biz. I will be happy to make him happy too.

Exactazactaly! You want me to be yo' man, you's gots to pay fo' it!

I loves them brothel girls, especially the ones out in Pahrump! $600 extra to go downtown on their pousse', and then they whip out the Saran Wrap! Classic! My kind of hoes!!! Sheeeiiit! I gets tha vapors even thinking about that!

My sentiments exactly!!!!

Dr. Dre say

then the fireworks would fly.....

It's fun to see aliases get outed.