I'm going to take the 'High Road' and IGNORE what is going on and what is currently being posted on the Vegas Discussion Board.  I'm sure TER's lurkers and many of the TER community are shocked and dismayed by the hateful postings, being encouraged and allowed by the moderator of the Vegas board, as am I.

I hope everyone has a lovely day!

Like Samantha Sommers always know of me , I can't lie I am actually super busy last couple days trying to learn how to do Imovies and upload about 10 brand new beautiful dancing clips of myself just made this week onto YouTube. If you go there YouTube and type in Exotic Kim Tao , all my clips will show up , you will see how i dance , interact with a client on the hour , and personality likewise ...there will be a lot more to come  in the short future as well as kimtao membership site.

i am not the one who type the above post, one of my hot girl friend that is a professional on TER look out for me everyday, she teaches me to talk like above as you can tell , my English is not that lovely all of a sudden such as the use of the word "high road" is new to me anyway , its my post now thanks babe, i love you

Thank you Phil for the free pass to pour flames on this fire, please enjoy ensuing drama.  

I've known Kim for almost two years and I've seen her a few times. I'm a big fan of Kim's and I think she's very entertaining both in and out of the bed.

I think there was some petty jealousy from Tasha and she purposely ignored Kim's request for an invitation to the M&G.

That is all.

thank you , someone respectful in this community finally speak up protecting my girl Kimmy, she is a true doll , this little thing rocked my world yesterday  , still jerk off over her YouTube the next month or so till i see her again.

It is always the excuse and it is just pitiful of the white knights to use this.

There was no jealous, Tasha had Clear instructions on how to get an invite and she ignored it and threw a hissy fit when she didn't get her way.

Now from my point of view, there have been many women no longer allowed  at the parties for lude behavior at the parties. And Kim darling first time I met her at a public party she got stark naked and giving lap dances.

Granted we were at a strip club but we were the guest there and it was topless joint. She could have got the bar shut down.

So my question is why would she get an invite back when she put a place we love in jeopardy like that?

Tasha has nothing to be jealous of, but if it makes you feel better be my guest.

The M&G's are put together by Tasha who works Very hard in assuring everyones safety and every detail that is needed for a great bash.... No Jealously on her part...

    Kim I know you and you are a very fun gal but you should have put in your request to attend when the M&G was announced. You threw a fit when you could not attend and this was not very professional at all. You could have not done anything and held off on the post you made. That also made you look very immature. Even after all the post and rude comments you made why would Tasha want to invite you to the next M&G? I personally would not want to. It would leave a sour taste in my mouth. Thats just my opion and like they say about opions... Everone has them....
Don't take it the wrong way Im just putting it out there. Maybe it takes more than one person to see another side.
xoxo
Cara

I guess you're right Mr Bonoboy13. I am oh so jealous of your dear Kim. And I blantly ignored her request because everyone knows I have a selective process when screening for my parties. One of those include no hot girls allowed.  I'm also jealous because I don't have over 100 pictures on my site showing my face, I don't do porn, I'm not going to be in Hustler or Maxium or whatever it is, and I don't have 70 reviews. I'm so very jealous. You hit the nail on the head.

It couldn't be because she PMd me for an invite.  It couldn't actually be that I didn't get an email from her. It couldn't be that she didn't follow the protocol like EVERYONE else did. That would be to easy I suppose.

So you are right, I'm another sour, bitter, hooker who has nothing better to do with her time than to selectively choose who comes to my events and who doesn't.  And I guess I'm also jealous and didn't allow her because her and I share much the same market. Ya know, I thought I was starting to look a bit Asian. I must really do huh?  I think my hair is getting darker and my boobs are growing too.  Hahahahaha!!!

I just thought it looked nice. Didn't think you were 'turning Japanese' or anything?

But now, it makes perfect sense. I mean, when you brought out those chopsticks to eat your burger and channelguy's fries I thought you were just being a smart-ass!

Hmmm...

And you wanting to start your own AMP...?

It's arr becoming very crear to me now!

I still like you Kim. We are even steven now..

I will take back all of the duct tape that I sent you.
Just remember that foes are easier to gain then friends.
See you

Can I get a "HELL YEA!"from the choir?

And I want you to run a private event for me in CG, MISH, and DOGGIE

You don't have all the facts on this one. Actually, I thought you may have, but I guess not.

I've kept quiet, but it was obvious to me the excuse given to Kim for her not being given an invite was about as legitimate as trying to find a fiber load balance optimizer on a Sunday in Amsterdam. As if TER actually has servers in AMS.

In other words, spam folder my ass.  

No, I agree, Tasha has nothing to be jealous either, but she used very poor judgment here, and actually, she didn't go through what has been accepted as protocol when dealing with potentially troublesome guests. I'm not going to go into detail, but much worse things have happened at public locale meet and greets than deciding to shuck some clothes in a private area, which might have had something to do with Kim's invite request mysteriously finding it's way into a spam folder.

And Tasha, dearest, you're going to have to learn that sometimes you are just going to have to tell people no, no matter how non-confrontational you would prefer to be about it, and tell them why. You set a bad precedent here, maybe you'd like to think that one through why that might be. For starters, your own personal integrity, and how others might view it?

The entire sequence of events reflects poorly on you, and I'm personally disappointed. I know, as if you care.

Excuse me for being blunt, but you must not understand english either.  I NEVER RECEIVED AN EMAIL FROM KIM FOR THIS PARTY!  Period.  End of story. The ONLY request the girl sent was to my mail here and I have never EVER accepted that as a way of "getting on the invite list."  You should know that all to well since you too have tried to bend the rules and IM me and ask to be put down and you have been told to do the same thing as the rest, send an email to the email address listed on the post.

I don't think you should preach to me about integrity either sir. Since you don't have access to the emails that come in for parties. Don't always jump on what many know is your  favorite bandwagon. Believe it or not, more than just you and your favorites have morals and integrity.  

I have allowed men I don't like, women I've had issues with and people I simply do not get along with at my events. So don't attempt to challenge my integrity when it comes to these parties because I of all people do not discriminate, as much as it has been tempting at times. The parties are in place for one reason and one reason only, TO MEET AND GREET other people in the hobby. I'm not going to disable anyones ability to do so because of my personal opinion of someone. If that were the case the parties would probably be a lot smaller.  If people would simply follow the simple minded instructions, things like this wouldn't happen and you wouldn't have to come in and attempt to white knight another one of your favorites, when you tend to root for people who like to take advantage of others. Maybe 8lbs rings a bell???

Two other things. I've only met Kim one time in person. I've never ever ever had an issue with her personally.  Even when she told me I looked like shit at the go kart m&g we met at, I still tried to help her with her TER things over drinks THAT night.   I had absolutely no reason to not invite her. Don't be so quick to judge 6.  And last but not least. Since I'm sure you've hosted many m&gs, please explain the proper protocol to me. and tell me if Kim followed proper protocol for not receiving an invite. I think I might be remedial as to how to handle the back steps of a successful m&g.

but I read what she wrote to this thread.

She said Kim PMed her...
Well, in the thread for the M&G Tasha specifically wrote:
"Please send all invite request to [email protected]"
Hmmm...maybe my reading comprehension is off, but but send all requests to this email doesn't look like "or PM me if you are Kim".

Hell, I even send the emails, and I use Miss Tasha as my reference...she's even given me rides to a few and I send the email.

So, she didn't do the one little thing required to get an invitation...but what that doesn't matter?
It's Kim right?  You and she both don't think she has to do the one thing required.


As for her behavior at the previous M&G where I "met" her...
what facts are missed on that one?
Since the DJ at the club seemed kind of surprised to see a naked woman upside down on a pole I doubt she showed him and the manager her Sheriff's Card and Business license and was working there that night.  

Two other ladies from here danced that night, both of them showed their Sheriff's Cards and Business Licenses to the manager and the DJ to be allowed to dance.  She could have done the same, but maybe that requirement doesn't apply to her either?

It was late, and there was no guy at the door to make sure M&G people were the only ones back there, and we weren't.

Anyone that has to be told not to get naked and climb a pole when they are not working as a stripper, shouldn't be allowed in public, certainly not at a M&G where the last thing we want is undue attention.

That she could have got the place in trouble for her dancing without working there didn't seem to matter to her, that she could have caused us to be kicked out didn't matter to her...but have her not get an invite because she doesn't know a PM from an email and all Hell breaks loose....repeatedly.

But despite my girl friend advise me to IGNORE ALL these wrongful posters . She might be mad and break up with me but I have to speak once for the last time on this board. I enjoy chatting, but only chatting with those who fair & love me. Obviously , I have less lovers  here than haters that I am aware of.

so here it goes :

Tasha , I never said you look like shit. You don't look like shit, You know that for a fact . Why you even consider this statement to be something I said. I don't talk like that to others . I only attack my enemies face to face in that manner after I am mad and hurt by them. we met at 2 meet and greet , the first one we were best friend at the GO KART , you teach me about TER reviews , and the discussion board, I offer you my vietnamese make up and eye lash extension to doll you up , cause you were out of the shower without make up coming to meet and greet that night . We were like sweet new friends.

the second meet and greet , i were so cheerful to see you at the party , so i run into you and " Hey , Sugar , what's up babe ? " thats how I save your phone number as "Sugar " " all of a sudden , you turn to your back against me and completely ignore my cheerful "hello" ...I sensed something was up . so I was like , " okie   " and walk away embarrashing for my "cheerful hello to be ignored " throughout that event , we never spoke or make eye contact , you avoid me . I  had no clue what happened.

ABOUT MEET AND GREET [email protected] :

I sent you, 1 PM,  AND  2 emails to the [email protected], requesting super politely for an evite , i still have the copy of the SENT versions in my Blackberry if you or any men in this board has a moment to meet me at Starbuck to look at it . It had date on it too.

couldn't wait anymore , I had to text you politely the same request since you don't pick up the phone "Tasha , its Exotic Kim, may I come to your event please " , you text me back one single word " NO"

ANYONE care to read these texts and email , hit me up anytime . If not , next meet and greet somewhere esle , If I am invited by a date or allowed to come , I will show you guys these evidence .

i am a girl of her words , and I don't lie .

you should not attacked me without any clue or truthful information , Charming Cara , you have no evidence in this situation between me and Tasha . Read my post below to pick up some learning and you own me an apologize .  Strong competitors have better way to put their competitors down in doing business . Look at PC and APPLE , do they stop making better products each day for the consumers . Why dont we just create spectacular reviews each day for our fan to enjoy . You know that basic concept . I will glow and shine under the sun, You tube , porn tube and kim tao member site , while your above fake old pictures of you and your dog will eventually be discovered . Same thing to the double life that you are living right now, it will shown. lying everyday  is a a very bad habit . I met you in person more than once . those above pics weren't you . i feel sorry for the fan

oh thanks for this post. I do apologize for this very much for dancing topless and spinning upside down on the pole . But let me explain you right here how dumb I am when it comes to strip club rules . I almost got fire at Rhino one day, i actually just got sent home for the day by manager in the middle of a stage dance, and I was upset about it. I was on stage, and it's fun of course. And there is a drunk hot female client who tip me and dancing applauding me, she got so excited cause i was smiling and dancing to her attention too, so she jumped on stage with me and we started to rub each other on stage sensually  ...security happened to see what was going on, the time she was on stage with me was like about less than 20 seconds , i would say...security pop up and remove both of us off stage , and  i go to office, sent home for the night. I was mad and upset cause not finish making money yet. talking about VIP room , we pretty naughty in there, not much rules to comply. so i am still clueless about strip club rules in vegas. NO RULES , REALLY IN VIP its just the matter of time when Vice gonna show up and give me and my stripper girl friends tickets, thats all.

at our strip club meet and greet private area, i was drinking and other lobbyists encouraged me to show off my body , including a very experienced lobbyist like 1QualitySeeker, not to mention many other lobbyists were there and they are much older in this ter community , they know better than me and still encourage me to get on the pole stripping. anyway, its my fault , its all on me for , can't accuse others for encourage me to strip , i am dumb for not knowing the rules of the party or strip club .

I know Kim well. I have seen her and hanged out with her many times.

No matter the reason for rejection, the M&G is a by-invitation event and the person not invited should never complain, especially in public. No one is automatically entitled to it just because she is a provider or an hobbyist, whether a TER member or not. Kim looked very bad in this.

On the other hand, I agree with Number 6. To avoid potential misunderstanding and drama, one should respond to messages from anyone not welcomed.

it only takes the moronic behavior of ONE to spoil the whole thing.

I never ignored you at the second M&G. I was being pulled 10 different ways as I am at most events. I said hello and hugged you then had to run to greet more people.

As for the number and you texting me. You have my old number 702 417 6227. Some little girl now has that number and that is why you received a no response. Another lady also got that same response that night. Its not me on the other end. I had to change my number a few months back and now don't list my number. Many can verify that they have either called or text that number and received a not so nice answer from the girl on the other end.

I really have no hard feelings towards. I know its hard to believe but its true. There are very few girls I don't like in this business, but you're not one of them.

First of all I have only met you once at a party and you were a HOT MESS when you finally decided to show up...and I did not attack you... On TER there is a ton of post about you and its so dumb and a waste of time and I simply stated a few things. You sit there and say dumb shit about competitors...In life you will always have that hunny. & for porn and videos...Sorry I dont have any intrest in that and will never! We are 2 compleatly different people and you can do whatever floats your boat! I can care less about how many reviews you have. Gloat on that. N my "fake Pictures" Thank you Whatever makes you feel better...Think what you want. At least this competitor has 10/ 10 reviews... I truly think everyone on TER leads a double life so dont even go there. That will be a big mistake for you. Fuck with me hunny.....I fuck back.
Take this in anyway you want.... Im so sick of all your childish post and snooty little comments about porn and your videos. Who cares. Do what you do best and stop attacking other people... N if you need to vent and air some dirty laundry send me an e mail or pm. If you notice on the board Ive never had anything bad said about me. Let's act our age sweetie.
xo
Cara

Again , I still have the SENT COPIES of the 2 emails that I sent Tasha request for an invite in my Blackberry , and never heard back from her. as well as the PM and TEXT . they all have dates on it . If some ladies or gents still continue believing i am an ASS for not sending them to her and make fake assumption , I am more than happy to meet "the judges of both parties/sides of the stories" to show these messages. I am busy but i have time to go Start Buck for this matter.

You are not Miss July 2009 Tara Babcock.

http://brianx.com/divas/miss-july-2009.html

There is a simple problem here - everyone but you is speaking English. I applaud your efforts to converse in a language not your own, but it is more apparent with every post that you are missing some of the subtleties of the language and interpreting things incorrectly.

In this culture it is considered inappropriate to say the least for ANYONE to publicly demand an invitation to any event in the manner you chose, no matter WHAT the circumstances that caused you not to be invited. It was the height of rudeness to publicly solicit details of a party with, it seems, every intention of crashing it even though you had not received an invitation. There was, and is, no excuse for your boorish behavior.

Even so, all that would be required here for you to be forgiven is to simply make a much deserved apology to Tasha. It was not her fault that you chose to make a public spectacle of yourself, and I am amazed that after all your mean spirited and arrogant name-calling she still offers an olive branch.

Shame on you.

I am sure you speak English better than me , as I do speak Vietnamese and French better than you, its obvious. So you should not miss this post right above your own post :

" Again , I still have the SENT COPIES of the 2 emails that I sent Tasha request for an invite in my Blackberry , and never heard back from her. as well as the PM and TEXT . they all have dates on it . If some ladies or gents still continue believing i am an ASS for not sending them to her and make fake assumption , I am more than happy to meet "the judges of both parties/sides of the stories" to show these messages. I am busy but i have time to go Start Buck for this matter. "

Oh my god , I have to speak , you are the best in google ... yes , they are very FAKE PICTURES.

Thanks for showering me with profanity , sweetie Cara ...unfortunately , i only use profanity in the bed room to arouse men occasionally , to lovingly and lustfully begging them to give it to me harder  and deeper ... my DSL lips are only good for dripping mind blowing deep throat bbbj,  not for insane profanity words

Or occasionally I use profanity like a little jokes and laugh at my dearest stripper girl friends or best friends ...I don't yell at enemies or competitors using profanity .

i am more than happy to shut up and raise above the average.

"In this culture it is considered inappropriate to say the least for ANYONE to publicly demand an invitation to any event in the manner you chose, no matter WHAT the circumstances that caused you not to be invited. It was the height of rudeness to publicly solicit details of a party with, it seems, every intention of crashing it even though you had not received an invitation. There was, and is, no excuse for your boorish behavior."

I'm sure 6 can do that, vraiment?

I deeply believe this post of mine was not a demand . Its more of a begging than a demand ... cause I had the sad face on it . There were no red yelling or screaming . here is the post :

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=103524&boardID=3


I truly didn't know meet and greet events on TER can be that personal and private , deciding by one individual of who is allowed to come or  not ...I thought TER EVENTS are a free spirit community where everyone gets together and talk about wet blow jobs on TER

I am quite certain my opinion is not important to you but really dude, look up the subject line and educated yourself. Do you speak any other languages other than spincter muscle?

I found your post condescending and in poor taste. I don't have a dog in this fight but who are you to educate Kim or anyone for that matter in the culture of American mores and traditions? Just askin.

You brought fairness into question, implying that it was unfair that you didn't get an invitation.

"I just want to run my business in a fair manner . I need an address of meet greet . Can someone be fair and give me address to this event ? Obviously Tasha doesn't want to give me an invite. Or maybe her pc broke "

It you thought that Tasha didn't want to invite you, it was not appropriate to announce it in public and ask for the address.

Ich spreche ein bisschen Deutch, hast du ein andere sprache?

I was born and raised here, and taught manners and American customs. Kim could, I'm sure, instruct me in the finer points of SE Asian culture and if I were to point at someone with my foot or touch a child on the head she would not only be correct to point out my inadvertent rudeness but I would consider it a kindness. If someone had educated her on etiquette this thread wouldn't have been necessary.



-- Modified on 6/24/2010 5:24:20 PM

A very well thought out post. Please accept my apologies if your intentions were as pure as you state. You might agree that the tone however was rather stern and lectureous. I sense that Kim's head is already spinning as english is a very difficult language to comprehend.

I'm familiar with certain Asian etiquette but not necessarily Vietnamese. I don't believe it is acceptable there to air complaints in public about being invited.

I know Kim pretty well. I think that's more her than culture.

I was just a kid during x-mas eve and not getting any gift ...more of that feeling ...its like , " hey , come on , take me with you , I wanna go too , please  don't leave me behind ...kind of whining and begging  to get in. "  it was june 12 , and I still haven't heard nothing but a text "No" from Tasha ...thats why ....but its all good . I won't bother you guys anymore...I am more than happy to  STFU  lol and get busy with my YouTube and more video things ...or maybe  I just start accepting part time boy friend applications , to keep me busy at home not crawling on TER vegas board anymore..

I had a great time guy , thanks a lot. I adore the concept of TER. Brilliant ...in Vietnam , a group of kids try to put a website like TER up , they get lock up for 20 years  life's over .