Sorry for the alias but I don't want to blow my chances so to speak for speaking out but I can't hold my tounge any longer. I am a whitelisted hobbyist her on TER and am a member to some of the other sites like P411 and Date-Check. I've never had a problem scheduling appts. in Vegas before and usually visit anywhere from 2 to 4 times per year, for at least 4 nights each trip. From reading the board many providers are saying to book early and I am doing that. My upcomming visit is still over a month away. But here is my problem. I have contacted 4 ladies within the past few weeks. Two are regulars I like to see each trip and 2 are new ladies to me. So far only 1 has a solid date in place. The others have responded to my emails and then just seam to drop off. I would like to meet with them but when should i just start to try someone else? Also the 2 new ladies in question have recently made posts here on TER saying how slow things are a asking/hoping for busier times to return. The real kicker to me is that 1 if not both of the new ladies I want to see would be for lengthy visits where dinner and a show would be involved. I know I have ggod references due to the fact that a provider I recently saw hwere in my home town made a comment to what good refernces I had. Can someone please help with this dilema?

For a lady to return an email.  If they haven't returned or responded, then you should move on.  Why waste your time?  You don't deserve that.  There are some of us who are prompt and pride ourselves in being that way.

Good luck and I am sure you will find some great girls to join you.

Time2Blow you off is what I meant. It happens a lot in this town.

One long plaguing problem in this business it that a great deal of the ladies have outstanding bedroom skills but sadly zilch for administrative skills. That being setting appointments and keeping them, staying organized, keeping commitments, being on time, etc.

Now I will get some ladies happy to chime in here and bitch-slap me into next Thursday. Yet, I know of one who will agree with me 100%. That alone should tell you something. If what you say is true, you offer multi-hour dates, and they made contact first then dropped off the radar, then I rest my case. Well, not quite.

In this town, to also be fare, the ladies also are plagued with gents that no show/no call them at higher levels than other cities. It is the nature of the beast in Vegas BayBay.

Not sure this is "help with this dilemma". To the question of what to do, all I know is I give a call or send an email one time and one time only. If there is no answer or reply, I move on. Simple as that. NEXT!!

Plenty of fish in this sea. You can just move on with a follow-up email that says "Thanks for considering my request, but I've found another lady" or similar. No reason to hang when there's so many beautiful and willing options out there.

AS

There a lot of ladies that would love to join you and would appreciate a "solid hobbyist"(with whitelist/past references) no punn intended
having said that I hope it all works out for you and happy hunting
Lovely Lorena

Please consider that some ladies cannot plan a month in advance.

Took the words right out of my mouth!

3 days is more then enough time.
Sorry but if you snooze you loose.
Plenty of great ladies who are prompt and proper inside and outside the bedroom.

As in any business I am sure clients would not put up with poor administration skills.
I don't see why in this business things should be any different.

BTW sorry a bit off topic but I must say Tasha you are looking VERY hot,sexy and gorgeous.
Your new photos - WOW.
Very classy and sexy.
You’re looking very fit and your arms - WOW
Now you are making me horny *wink wink*

xoxo CindySpice

LOL thank you babe.  And horny mmmmmmmmmm.....I might be able to help you with that issue LOL.

that while you like to plan a month ahead providers might not be able to do so. We might need to prioritize responding to requests for the current week appointments first before replying for not imminent appt requests.

oops yes I was having a blond moment because of Tasha's photos  LOL LOL

you should try emailing back "second request"
I would say after the first 24 hours.
for emails can get lost in space or lost in spam/junk mail.

and 48 hours after that if still no response, well if you really think you have time maybe try "third request" maybe third time is a charm

but for sure after that time to move on.

BTW Sweet Sarah I miss you already *wink wink*
xoxo CindySpice

If that is the case then a lady should send back a quick email letting the gentleman know she isn't ready to book that far in advance.

Personally for me a month, even two isn't that far to plan ahead.
For ladies that it is , well no one expects her to answer in the first 24 hours, but by 3 days later she should find the time to send out a quick respond.

but that's just me and how I do business.

Cindy.  A month or two, even three isn't usually to far in advance.  I appreciate people prebooking in advance and not three days in advance when they can.

If for some reason I can't determine my schedule for the time someone is booking for, I do send a quick note asking if I can get back to them in a week or so.  

This isn't rocket science.  It's common courtesy and simple business practice.

"And horny mmmmmmmmmm.....I might be able to help you with that issue LOL."

I'll take a rain check on that
in a few hours the horniness will be taken care of *wink wink*

but thanks for getting me ready

 

All these ladies that took the time to reply to your request? Set up a date with them and forget about those who haven't responded! Although I haven't met most of them yet, judging by their board posts, they all are a class act!

Thank you, Tasha, for that bright line time frame.  (Lest anyone think I'm being sarcastic, I'm not.  I'm sincere.  We guys need specific instruction!  LOL!).

I've experienced the same thing myself within the past three weeks.  Not to bore anyone with details, but one reviewed lady flaked despite more time allowance than Tasha mentioned, and another who asked for references always got back with our status within 24 hours.  Needless to say, I'll be seeing the latter next weekend.

So thank you, Tasha, for the reassuring advice.

I'll bet Mathesar would be happy to help you with it, lol!

T.L.

Are you aware that there were a rocket scientist AND a brain surgeon at your last pasty? There was also a truck driver, lol!

T.L.

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Kudos for early booking! The ladies in the above
posts are right. If you're going to be jerked around
with a response move on and look at it as it wasn't
meant to happen and choose another lovely lady.
There are plenty waiting for you sweetie.

I agree with Tasha too.  I mean maybe even give them up to 5 days since your appointment is so far off, but I think 3 to 5 days is more than enough time for a provider to get back to you.  

Otherwise move on, there are plenty of us ladies here that would promptly return your request to let you know something one way or the other.  Move along to a lady that can appreciate that your time is valuable.

I hope things work out for you and you have the time that you deserve.


XOXO

thats very true.3 days is max a gent should wait for a reply, but ..... sometimes you never know if your email gone to a junk folder. if it's someone you love so much , give her a second email asking about the first one , take a min to do that , if she doesn't get back , forget her . get someone better.

I agree with those who say "look into the ladies who have [positively] responded to your post".  In my case, my most valuable resource in Vegas is my time and I want to make the most of it.  I booked with one of the ladies above 3 months in advance and was glad to do so.  Now I get to enjoy anticipating our meeting.  I have also kept in contact with her every few weeks to assure her that my plans have not changed and that I will not be one of those ill-bred men who don't show.  This is a two-way street!

I think some of the more popular women can take guys for granted.

Just MHO.

We are all more popular......... but as in any business , you have to find the time or figure out a way to run the business in a proper and professional manner.

One can only take you for granted...... if you allow them to do so

Just MHO

there are thousands of ladies in vegas. If you would like to have a discussion with me personally, you can use my contact form, after I have verified your references, when can talk via email or on the phone ok?

I don't know how other ladies spend their time, but I am on twitter, youtube, myspace and I have a website I manage. I am easy to find and my calnedar is updated regularly also. My code is: BUSY -- no time for anyone else Available-- means I have scheduled an apt but still am around for you --unknown--means i haven't planned anything for that day at all.

Some of us are business women and we like our way of life, we protect our way of life, and there's no time for BS.

Pasties are kind of obsolete, aren't they? But if you wore one (or two), I'm sure men of all occupations would be "at" it!

T.L.

To all who replied. Thank you. You help was much appreciated. Have a great day and a safe time in the City of Lights, Beautiful Las Vegas.