Tried to book a session tonight with a provider in SFL. She's on the local board there with a very provocative ad, advertises on BP and has good reviews here.  

After going through the dog and pony show with her, including sending her a PM from my account, she decided to decline the booking because she could not verify me. To be honest, we had sort of reached a point where if I had to work this hard to see her, she probably shouldn't see me anyway, but she should just have told me from the get go and not wasted my time.  

Thanks to modern pharmacology, I have much more tolerance for this type of situation. Especially in light of the fact I was a regular with four SFL agencies back in the day, as well as a couple of independents still working. These days, I'll just write it off to the provider having a bad day or maybe she had an event recently which makes her rethinks things or otherwise clouds her judgment. I'm not trying to make her look bad, I'm just trying to prove a point.  

So, can someone out there vouch for me?

There could be a myriad of reasons why she declined beyond just the reason she gave you.  It's always a ladies choice to decide.  

So what value is it to "make a point" with having someone vouch for you?

But, yeah, I'm over it. The issue was that most of the ladies I'd see are generally daytime only. I really should have had a backup plan or two, but I couldn't foresee what happened happening.  

I took some time off from TER. First it was money, during 2011-2013, like a lot of people. Then it was health. But I kept plugging (and still do).  

As for the local SFL board, they would do better if they would stop bombarding my e mail inbox with lifetime VIP and investing in the site offers. The e mails radiate that the site owners need money. It's just unprofessional IMO. It is a great resource-if you can get access to it

Where did you get a transcript of the text messages?  

I'm hearing what you're saying, though. But, I've been doing this a while now and never had anything like that ever come up. This is like the second in the last three weeks. The first one, I paid a woman a compliment and she took it the wrong way.  

Finally, it is always the woman's prerogative. But at the same time, if I give you what you want, and you're still going to be dismissive, or ignore what I wrote, well, then what was the purpose of the game anyway?

You see this as a game, that's your first problem. Thinking we ignore what you've written is your second problem, typically we catch everything that's communicated. Giving us what we "want" isn't what you think it is.

Kat, I agree with you, we play psychologist with out a degree & were good at it

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The majority of ladies (if not all) I've had correspondence with enjoy and take this profession very seriously - from first contact to a follow up note. Wanting you to have an amazing experience is important and works best if on our terms in the beginning. Thinking it's a "game" automatically negates and removes quite a few from your arena.

81 reviews? gimme a break.. she could have just had you m her thru the site.

Perhaps she read some of your reviews and found you enjoy activities she doesnt.. thats one reason.. there a thousands more.
Who knows why girls turn down some clients... but we all do it.
To each their own
Just move on

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But I'm over it. I have a hard time dealing with the Universe when it decides to impose itself on me. That and I get a little hypoglycemic when I go without food for a long time and the restaurant decides to torture me service wise.  

I'd like to thank everyone who posted. I will try her again next time I'm around.  
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I'll be honest. It was a mistake to post. I was frustrated and needed to vent a little bit. It's impressive how some of you can judge me based on one rant. Hope your phones ring more often in the future!