So, I saw a wonderful lady and had a fantastic night! So great in fact, I was going to post a review. She mentioned that there was no need as she had enough great reviews and she really does. My question is; should I still post her review anyway? It seems that a guy posting has some benefits for the guy, like gaining so credibility when responding to threads, etc. I sometimes see " what do you know" when a guy with no reviews responds. I'd like to hear your opinions

Its not like the lady said "Dont" post a review.

Perhaps she did not want to come across as is she asked you to post a review.

So yes go ahead and write one. It can only benefit you and her in the future.

Next time you want to book a different lady, having a review, or reviews can only be a good thing, for both of you.

Makes things easier and safer for both parties, Imo.

And as you say, sometimes people who post without reviews, or using an alias are not always taken seriously, especially if its Cindy replying...LOL.

I would definitely post a review if I was in your shoes.


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I also agree with John_UK's comments.  The only time that I would not write a review is when the provider specifically says, "No Review" or if she was "UTR".

In the OP's case, I don't see anything negative about submitting a review.  The providers receives a positive review from a satisfied customer and he begins to build on his credibility as a hobbyist.

I agree also. There are many reasons why a lady might not to be reviewed and they should be respected. Notably, a few:

1) Her last review was really good and she wants to keep to it on top
2) She is low volume and doesn't want to ignore or say no to a ton of guys that contact her because she has been reviewed well.
3) oh,oh...She dosen't want others to know that she was with you.
4) Reviews can get very personal and very private and she is uncomfortable with them.
5) "Is that what he thought happened that night?" A provider said to me once.
6) The hobbyist describes acts that did not occur and that she will not engage in. I have heard that one several times.
7) More personal information is revealed than she would like.

I am sure there are many other reasons as well.

For me, just tell me you don't want to be reviewed and I won't do it. I don't need a reason. But, the majority of the few that I have reviewed have said that they either liked or loved my review of them.

Ask her for a reference, instead of asking if a review is okay. That way, you both might get what you want.

And was fearful it would show up in the review.

...should honor that request. He can then decide whether or not to see her. If not, he may have been anticipating writing a review on a well reviewed provider more for his benefit so he could begin to establish a credible review history. That's what novice reviewers are always advised to do by board veterans. If she requested no reviews after the appointment had commenced, that's a form of bait and switch and the gent is under no obligation to honor that request. A provider with an active TER profile is always fair game for new reviews.

I appreciate everyone's input. I have decided to not post a review even though it was one of the top 2 experiences I have had in the hobby, and it was number 2 only because number 1 was a duo. I guess it all comes down to the fact that I like and respect the women who I have seen and I'll honor her request just like she honored mine.

So if your next date arrives late, upsells, answers her phone ten times and then leaves early, you wont post a review because she asked you not to, and you respect her wishes, is that correct?

I waited until she did not have a review for a while, then checked back with her and posted.  I have seen gals get 1/2 dozen reviews in a single month and then nothing for 3 months.  

BTW could you PM me her name?

No. I would feel compelled to post a review in that case. It seems to me that there is sort of an implied agreement when you book with a lady based on what you know from reviewing the information on her website. If she showed up late, upsells, answers her phone ten times and leaves early, that seems to me that she has broken our implied agreement, unless she described all that on her website. Just like I would expect a lady to let other providers know if I was a cheap, disgusting pig and tried to force her to do things that I know weren't part of her menu. It seems to me that reviews are good or bad reviews can be important for both parties.