i have had an atf here for a while i do not hobbie much but when i do i used to see a lady who was with a service and recently became an indy. since then she has no called on me 3 times with showing up a couple i have seen her a couple times in between tonight i contacted her about missing the last time and she basically told me to fuck off that is fine but should i tell the board or just let things lie i would want this to happen to others who spent time and energy to see someone then to have it be a no call no show

personal matter between you and her ...... if she is doing it to others it will get out sooner than later ..... MHO






spinner39

-- Modified on 2/9/2009 11:22:09 PM

Right now you have only provided bits and pieces. It certainly does sound though like someone I sure do not want to meet.

Do you like the drama though? Are you a glutton for punishment? It just seems that way, since she had no-showed you a couple times already and you want to see her again?

What's wrong with this picture? We can draw our own conclusions I guess, again with the WHOLE story.

If this girl is standing you up on a regular basis it may or may not be personal. Dosent sound like it based on the limited info you supplied but perhaps there is more to it.

In any case, unless your sure its a personal issue between the two of you, the community should have this information.

Let her defend herself, though if she is what your claiming, defending herself probably isnt big on her to do list in which case you'd be doing everyone a big favor. I know we're just begging for drama here but I dont know of a way to avoid it and get out the message.

Hope this is helpful.

If it's a provider that you've spoken about before on the board, then chances are, she read what you wrote, and that could be one of the reasons.

If she did it to you, then she may have done it to someone else, and it will eventually come out.

I would let it lie and find a new ATF.

well it started out last sept the lady arrived back in town from southern cal and we where supposed to meet  she canceled do to sinus issues  do to climate change and rescheduled for 2 days later which i was going to a big gallery party  and take her she then called me  day of saying she got her times mixed up with some other thing and wanted to meet laters. not going to the party i told her it was up to her  after that convo i got one mistaken call( her phone called by mistake ) no answer when i returned it. then she got hold of me in nov and hung out and we scheduled another time 2 weeks from then at another gallery party and after. that was a no call no show with me asking in advance if she was going to show. then i got an email saying she was going to be in town on the 3 of this month and if i would like to meet up she then never replied to my email or my attempting to get hold of her then she finally got hold of me last night and  wanted to know if i wanted to hang that night i said i had a buddy over who she knew ( she had gotten a girl for him last year on his 50 bday for me) then after waiting a while she canceled agian then got mad when i said hey you are the one who is unreliable not me i am done. i just dont want to see others try and book and then have it happen to them  i dont believe in double booking not fair to the ladies  so there is the story in brief

wow, my brain hurts trying to read that....

sorry been driving back to cali from vegas and work going on at the house tried to get it all out quickly

Well it started out last sept., the lady arrived back in town from southern cal and we were supposed to meet. She canceled due to sinus issues due to climate change.

We rescheduled for 2 days later, i was going to a big gallery party and going to take her with me.  She then called me the day of saying she got her times mixed up with some other thing and wanted to meet later.  Not going to the party i told her it was up to her.  

After that convo i got one mistaken call(her phone called by mistake) no answer when i returned it. Then she got hold of me in Nov and hung out and we scheduled another time 2 weeks from then at another gallery party.  

And after that was a no call no show with me asking in advance if she was going to show. Then i got an email saying she was going to be in town on the 3rd of this month and if i would like to meet up.  She then never replied to my email or my attempting to get hold of her.  

Then she finally got hold of me last night and wanted to know if i wanted to hang that night.  I said i had a buddy over who she knew ( she had gotten a girl for him last year on his 50 bday for me). Then after waiting a while she canceled again then got mad when i said "hey you are the one who is unreliable not me. i am done."

i just don't want to see others try and book and then have it happen to them.  i don't believe in double booking, not fair to the ladies.

so there is the story in brief.

"i just dont want to see others try and book and then have it happen to them"

Fat chance that you will be helping anyone, since you did not say who it was. If you do not say who it is, you are wasting everyone's time with this drivel.

the provider was kristy formerly of pretty maids and MystiqueUsa's

Bummer. She seems really hot.

I will not lie about how yes, this really does hurt and effect me unnecessarily. Not only have I never promised you anything Tim but to have actually "flaked" you would have had a date and time scheduled with me. Just because you call me the day I moved back to Vegas and I told you I would call if I had a moment... does not mean I was suppose to come over. Not only did I have my last agency Mystique black list you after I tried to tolerate your rude comments, with attempts to trap me, and successfully taking an extra 30 minutes or more of unpaid time. You have blocked my exits, never let anyone get a word in, and have made myself, and every girl who has seen you highly uncomfortable. When I became independent you called and actually presented yourself more mild than before and I gave you yet another chance. I have avoided your harassing phone calls, deleted your hateful messages, and never responded to your petty emails. I unfortunately lost all my contacts in my phone, which is the only reason you even got me on the phone the day I moved back, yes the day before you posted this. Tim never had these appointments he claims. I am more than happy to fwd his spiteful emails, and give his info to any girl so they know to stay away. I considered blacklisting Tim everywhere that night, after reading and showing my roommate his insane text messages... but I knew of five other girls who will not see Tim and I didn't think it was worth the energy to think about Tim. Now you have gone so far to actually step on my toes. I now cannot forgive you, and I hope you feel satisfied bullying a young woman while trying to take from me. Real, honest, and strong people aren't this cowardly. Thank you to everyone who takes this into consideration.

-Kristy Made

I do not want to try to sort out the cross-allegations, but will simply say that my one experience with Kristy was simply wonderful.  I would see her again in a heartbeat when our schedules and locations align in the future.