Ok.. Ok ... maybe I really screwed up here .. but in a private e-mail someone asked about ME  ... so I told her .. Here's what I said .. "some ladies have nicknamed me the tongue .. I am very oral .. love to DFK .. and of course DATY .. I really get turned on when I can feel the quiver of a woman's inner thigh pressing against my ears." Now maybe I did cut to the chase to fast here, but is that really vulgar? why waste a provider's valuable time and mine dancing around issues ... I can think of quite a few different ways I could have said this ... scissor lock, popping my head off from my shoulders, etc., etc.... everyone knows this goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults why can't it be verbally expressed ... I just don't see this as vulgar .. Have I completly missed the boat? someone toss me a lifevest !!! lol.... hobby safe hobby well hobby all you can be ...

No, I don't see it as vulgar at all.  They asked you answered.  They way I see it is you are a very well know and well respected hobbiest, the ladies know who you are, just like they know who I am.  CindySpice and I were talking about this last year.  She told me "just ask or tell them what you want"  If you were an unknow or said something tasteless that would be a different thing.

the ladies say you're not supposed to talk about explicit stuff, but if you are known not to be vice then they seem to be OK with it.  One of the many advantages of being on the boards and being known in the hobby.

You got my imagination going, that's for sure.

No spinner, it was a private conversation and you have a colorful way of expressing yourself. I doubt many ladies would take offense to your description of DATY. (Sounds like you really enjoy doing it, which is music to most women's ears, LOL)

Chrissy from Phoenix

On my old website, I would ask potential clients to tell me a little about themselves.  If your response was in the initial contact email or any time before we actually met, then yes, it could be considered vulgar.  I personally feel that you could have kept vivid details about nicknames and leg-locks out of it until you actually MET the provider and figured out the level of comfort and chemistry.  Maybe just a "I am very oral..." could have sufficed.

Lots of guys forget that we get obscene calls and emails on a daily basis, so eventually, we develop an intolerance for ANY form of explicit language until we know you.

just my .02 all the way from Chicago,

Tammie

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Vulgar, no enticing, yes!

There is nothing vulgar about you. Fear not, most ladies will tell you if they are offended. And with your rep on the boards and the reputable ladies that have seen you, verifying your attributes is no issue.

xoxox
Lass